Ask Kayla Quinn

[July 6, 2010] -

I am afraid I do not "meet up" with fans. The people I *do* meet, I meet at conventions/trade shows/events. I DEFINITELY do not MEAT fans at all!

Sorry, hun!

As for breaking into "the biz", check out the Adult Business section of AskKayla, paying special attention to this entry.

Good luck!

[May 28, 2010] -

Hello, Harvey. While I know there are some adult film stars who travel and meet/meat up with fans, I am afraid I am not on of them.

:)

[May 12, 2010] -

Nick, your best bet would be to try to get booked in a scene! Listed in an earlier post are the steps one should take in order to pursue work in the adult film industry. Keep in mind, Nick, fucking on film is a LOT different than fucking at home! You have to be able to "cheat out" for the camera, which sometimes leads to awkward positioning. If you are of the "try it before I do it" school of thought, why not record yourself on your home camcorder a few times, studying the footage to see what looked good, what did not. Eventually, have a friend or two record your sexcapade for you, making sure that other people in the room will not affect your ability to keep wood. :)

Good luck!

[May 5, 2010] -

Janine, I am glad you enjoy the spanking scenes that I do for BadTushy! As far *my* emotions during the spanking scenes, I doubt what is going thru my mind is what you think is going thru my mind! I am generally focused on pushing the girl to do the best she can; I'm walking that barbed wire tight-rope between pushing her harder than she thinks she can go without actually pushing her farther than she can take. I am watching my aim, being sure to inflict the most pain with the least amount of actual damage. I am making sure that, while delivering consistently firm blows, while restraining the struggling girl that I am able to keep her from falling. keep in mind, I am spanking, threatening and supporting her dead weight...in HEELS! My mind is doing mental math, keeping track of how many swats I have dished out, at what interval and the level of intensity I am leveling. The entire time I am spanking the other person, I am watching for subtle signs of their emotional state. My job is to punish their body, not traumatize their psyche. If it appears to me that they are beginning to have ANY kind of emotional problem, flashback from childhood, panic attack anything, I need to know it asap so I can stop and let things calm. There have been a few girls who came to set convinced they were invincible, within 2 or three 3 swats, the performer or I called the shoot...they could not deal with it and I refuse to force anyone to do anything they do not feel they can. If a girl comes in, upset over something her boyfriend or family said or did...I can almost guarantee that the spanking sets will not get shot that day. The other thing going thru my mind? My fans. I have been lucky enough to grow a rather large, loyal spanking fan base. My goal is to give them the quality, intensity and veracity they have come to expect from me. I am also making sure that the production company is getting the best I can give. I like to think I have set and maintained a high standard for BadTushy! My feelings towards the girls as individuals has little bearing on the shoot, to be quite honest. I have had girls show up an hour late, ill-prepared and unable to focus. I can be angry with them, until the shoot starts. Anger is not a luxury I have when I am spanking. I have to be able to control the amount of force I use and, especially in canings and paddle sets, my aim. While it does not bother me in the slightest to be causing these girls pain, I am not out to hurt anyone for the sake of proving I can. I find the whole thing amusing, to be honest. I do get a kick out of girls who come in and challenge me, telling me they can take anything I can dish out and then some, that I should actually fear them...then watching them break before getting anywhere near the upper limits of what I am capable of doing. Each shoot, I am told what % of my strikes the company thinks the girl can handle. I usually give her that much plus 10% more. If she can handle it, I will push her a little more, if she cannot I lighten up. The average girl is spanked at 30-45% of my strength. (By strength, I mean what I can consistently deliver, blow after blow.) The attitude the girl portrays, be it slutty, defiant, weak, etc, is generally determined by three factors: storyline, actual personality of the girl and what we need most on the site. Does it make a difference to me? Not really, it just determines the type of dialogue I deliver. Personally, I like the girls who can take a lot and who are defiant. It gives me more to bounce off of, to play with throughout the shoot. It makes it fun. I never feel sorry for the girls. They want the check, they have to do the work. They get paid for that one day as much as, if not more than, some families make in a week. I prefer working with girls like Kat St. James (of DisciplinaryArts.com, she is lifestyle. She lives her life as a spank slut, she is not a porn star who just needed another day of work. She is one of the best. She is in to getting spanked and in to pushing herself through more and more pain. Plus, she's frigging cute and funny! I hope I answered everything you wanted to know!

[May 1, 2010] -

Welcome to the industry, Nicole! Let me go through your list and if I leave anything out, or you come up with more questions, submit again! After you have finished shooting your scene, it is time to get cleaned up and out of the way for the next group of performers! Usually a place to shower/bathe is available on set. I liked to bring my own towels to set, that way I knew they were clean to *my* standards, and I knew if they were running short on towels it wouldn't be me who had to drip dry! Toiletries are not provided for you! Bring everything you are going to want to use to get clean! I keep a little travel case completely stocked at all times, whenever I need it I can just grab it and go, without having to scramble to find anything. Some companies pay "day-of", meaning you will walk out the door, check in hand. Others have a payroll policy, you will get paid, but not for at least a week. Payroll schedules vary from production company to production company; it could be the 1st and the 15th; every other Friday; every Monday; no matter what their payroll policy, you should make sure you know it before you leave the set! Agency policies also vary. Some agencies have the checks sent to the agency office but made out to the talent. Once the check is released to the talent, the agency is due their percentage from the talent. Other agencies have the girls pick their checks up from the production offices, then pay their agency percentage. I know of ONE agency that actually has the models sign a power of attorney, then has the production company write the checks out to the agency, the agency then pays the talent their rate minus the agency percentage. While it keeps the agency from having a girl quit still owing them a large amount of money, I am not a big fan of signing over power of attorney to anyone unless I am on my death bed or over-seas!

Now that I have the specifics you asked out of the way...let me ramble off some things I think might be helpful! These are in no real order, just as they pop in to my head...

Misc crap
• You have the right to refuse to work with anyone you do not want to work with. If you have someone you choose not to be booked with, let your agent know so he can put that person on your "Will not work with" list. Directors and agents are far more willing to work around a known issue than to be surprised after you've been booked.
• If you were booked for one type of scene and they try to change it on you, you can either cancel the scene or be paid the appropriate, modified rate.
• You decide what types of scenes you are willing to shoot...not your agent...not a director...not your best friend.
• While industry standard for test paperwork is 30 days, I usually made sure it was within 24 days, no real reason, I just felt more comfortable that way. There have been instances where someone retested and came up dirty so they used their older test which was still valid and showed them as being clean.
• There is no reason why you have to take the word of someone else that they saw the other talents test. I physically saw the test of every person I shot with.
• If you have a question about someones test, maybe it was faxed over and it is difficult to read, call AIM
• Even if there is hair and make up on set, bring at least the basics with you. Powder, mascara, eye liner and lipstick (no red, for the love of God do NOT try to wear red lipstick in a fuck scene!). Using drinking straws while waiting for your scene will win you points with the make up artist!
• Bring as much wardrobe as you can, but keep it organized. I keep matching parts to outfits in large ziploc bags. Things are easy to find and less likely to get left behind on set. You will find that, especially when several scenes are booked back to back, once one or two girls open and dump their suitcases on the floor things migrate and get mixed around and lost. The running joke? "Hey, looks like a hooker exploded in here!"
• If you do not like your male talent, do NOT say anything to anyone about it...unless you are refusing to work with him (use that option as sparingly as you can...you don't want a reputation of being difficult)...women can fake being sexually excited, men cannot. Damage his ego and all you have done is created a long day of wood issues on set. You get paid by the scene, not by the hour!
• Leave personal problems at home. If you become known for drama, you'll become known as not worth booking.
• Trying a sexual act on set is not wise. If you have not done it in your personal life and are not sure you can do it, don't risk a production companies monies to find out. It will not only damage your reputation with the production company, but with the talent booked after you whose scenes are now pushed back until you finish as well as with your fans once they see the finished product. When in doubt...don't! If you don't know you can take a big cock in your ass, don't book an anal scene!
  I hope these tidbits help! LMK if you have any other questions...if I don't know the answer I will find someone who knows or research it for you!

  Good luck, bella!

[March 22, 2010] -

Do you, by chance, remember the name of the film? Was she in a little swimming pool? If that is the film you're thinking about, then...she had a bit of a rough time that day, but I ADORED her!

[March 14, 2010] -

Well, Fantic Tooo...visit my application page and we might just be able to work something out...AND maybe even pay you for the honor of feeling my strap crack down upon your tender skin! Fair warning: I am BRUTAL with my swats...I take corporal punishment VERY seriously and will not tolerate cowards!

[March 5, 2010] -

Christian, one of the most important tricks when it comes to shaving is to take your time! You need to let the heat and moisture of the water (NEVER try to shave dry skin!) soften your skin. Shaving naturally exfoliates, so if your skin is dry the razor blades will get jammed with dead skin cells; the cuts and nicks from a dry or dull razor can be brutal! There is no need for any specific shave cream, just one that you like and that doesn't smell horrendous. Choosing your razor is crucial! Look for a razor with lubricated strips, pivoting heads and spring-mounted multiple blades. While I realize razor blade refills are overly expensive, you have to make sure you change your blade as soon as it starts to feel like it is dull (it'll start to feel like it is dragging against your skin instead of gliding)! Oh, do NOT use the same blade on your face that you're using on your crotch! The hair is coarser and, well, it's just gross! Exfoliate a little before you shave, but don't rub your skin to the point of irritation! You just want to minimize the amount of dead skin cells that could clog your razor and turn your close shave into a mangled mess! Make sure you shave opposite the direction of hair growth. What I mean is, if the hair grows DOWNWARD, shave UPWARD. You might have to shave more than one direction, hair grows the way it wants to, not the way you tell it to! To help minimize the chance of ingrown hair and/or shave bumps, exfoliate regularly and use a glycolic acid body lotion or moisturizer. Oh! Do NOT shave right before any physical activity, including sex! The skin will still be too soft and you'll end up with a TERRIBLE shave rash, complete with red bumps and itching. In the industry, we call it fuck rash...typically, it results from one or more of the people in the scene shaving right before their scene and breaking out OR one or more shaving more than 24-36 before their scene and having enough sand-paper-like stubble that they are basically a human cheese-grater shredding the person they're working with to bits!

For blades, I recommend: A powered razor (There are currently three models of powered razors on the market) * Three blades - Mach3 Power * Four blades - Quattro Power * Five blades - Fusion Power Here's the question I hear most often - will my blades fit the powered version of the razor? The answer is yes. Mach3 Turbo or Nitro blades fit Mach3 Power. Quattro Titanium or Midnight blades fit Quattro Power. As long as you stay within "family", you're good to go. Now, if you want to go "old school" and grab a safety razor, the one you want is the Merkur Model 178 Classic Safety Razor. They're made in Germany and can be found online from $23-48. Close shave, quality blades, well balanced handle. Think of it as the Mercedes Benz of shavers. The Merkur's use the double-sided blades, which can be bought in variety packs of up to 100 blades AND for little cost compared to the multi-blade units flooding the market these days. Safety razors are not only more cost-effective, they're sexy as Hell! It takes a REAL man to master the art of shaving instead of merely purchasing the latest gizmo or gadget. I'm getting moist thinking about it, I need to focus here! Ok! Where was I? Oh yes, shave cream. I am not finding anything in my research to suggest that one is necessarily superior to the other, with the exception of gel being easier to control than super foamy versions. But, as with much in life, that is subjective. According to ShavingStuff.com "A warning - once you try a real soap to shave with, you'll never use a commercial shaving cream again! This recipe, which you can tailor and modify to suit your own oil preferences, is not much different than a regular cold process soap recipe except for some added cosmetic clay and a higher percentage of castor oil. The clay helps give the soap extra "slip" and also works to purify your skin. (Think of a clay or mud mask.) The added castor helps give a thick creamy lather. All you need to do is grab a shaving brush." (Go get the recipe! I MEAN it! Go GET IT!) Last, but not least, here's Details list of the Top 12 Shaving Products for men!

Follow these instructions and you'll have a smooth-as-silk bod ready to go from pubic to public!

[January 14, 2010] -

Btama204? Ummmm...what is that? Wait a minute...bt...BadTushy...ama...director who shot it...204 would have been late last year, I think. If it is a silver-gray skirt, it is a lace band with a black satin band attached to that. I actually JUST gave that skirt away last night to a gal pal of mine. I have had it for far too long and it is time for me to clear out as much stuff as I can (I am moving)...Tampa...tempting!

Cheers, Sando!

P.S. LMK if that is not the right scene/skirt!

[January 10, 2010] -

My research shows that Annabel Chong reached that record in 1995 with 251 men in a single gang bang scene...Aptly named, "The World's Biggest Gang Bang." Now there's a woman dedicated to the cock!

[January 2, 2010] -

I did. I appeared in several productions for that production company, as well as its sister companies. Those date back to about 12-13 years ago! Good eye!

[December 24, 2009] -

Actually, I do not have a list of all of the interracial sites on which I have scenes. Why not, you ask? When shooting a scene, the talent does not always know the name of the website or dvd the scene is going to grace; scenes get re-edited and resold often; scenes often start out as a dvd scene then later find their way on to a website. It is not uncommon for one company to own several websites, so I have seen the same scene (sometimes in total, sometimes cut up or re-edited) on multiple websites at the same time.

Sorry I could not be of more help on this! Happy hunting!

Oh! I would start with the links to the right of this entry!

[December 20, 2009] -

Hi Paul. I have not had sex with a male Asian. I just never came across one on set! I suppose if I met one I deemed fuckable, I would do so however I am in a committed relationship right now and on hiatus from shooting adult films.

As for the stereotype, I am unsure what to make of it truth be told. I have found African-American men with small penises, I am sure there must be an Asian or two with average to larger sized ones as well. Don't forget: at one point the tallest professional basketball player was Asian! Finding a "pure-blooded" Asian is not as easy these days...we tend to mix races a lot more freely than we once did. Thank GOD!

[November 19, 2009] -

Sando, thank you...I STILL have moments where I mourn the loss of her...

In a relationship where I HAD to spank the person? Nope...in one where I CHOSE to spank that person? YUP! Sometimes it was consensual, other times, I over-powered the person throwing them over my knee and showing NO mercy! It was a gf of mine who just infuriated me with layer after layer of lies and petty issues. Once the respect for me was back, things got a lot better between us...until I tired of her!

[November 15, 2009] -

Donita Dunes...to be honest, I am not familiar with her body...of work! ;)

[November 1, 2009] -

Nair! I love the raspberry-scented formula!

[October 23, 2009] -

It certainly could! Follow this link and submit yourself!

Good luck!

[October 12, 2009] -

Hi Mohammad! Let me TRY to do this in order! *giggle* I have a very dominant personality, which expresses itself in almost every aspect of my life. The man I am dating now, however, has a personality MUCH stronger than my own. He is in charge here! Normally, I tend to steam-roll those I am in a relationship with without realizing it. I tend to be aggressive sexually, too. As for age playing a role in dominating...it really doesn't. A sub is a sub, no matter how old or how young they are. It matters not how old they are, just how...pliable! I have never been to the UK. My former bodyguard is from the UK, however, and we have been discussing going there together one day. I do not, though, make films with fans...unless they happen to be other porn performers who happen to enjoy my scenes! LOL

You CAN email me a script idea for a custom film. Just email me at: Kayla@KaylaQuinn.com

[October 9, 2009] -

Hi Tony, I was unable to find anything more about her than you already know! My BEST guess would be that (since she was not listed on FreeOnes) she has only shot for Bang Bros to date.

Sorry, hun!

[October 5, 2009] -

They would have to pay me VERY well...not because I do not like women or squirting...but because I am not generally dominated by a woman, much less by several of them at once!

You are more than welcome to contact JM Productions and inform them of your desire to see me covered in girl nectar...

[September 7, 2009] -

Nicole, I have not made such a film! It sounds intriguing! Might I suggest that you contact TushyCash through this link and bounce the idea off of them. You never know, your hubby and yourself might just become stars on one of your favorite sites!

[August 19, 2009] -

Waxing, depilatories and (I kid you not) anus bleaching. Yup, we pay that much attention to our bums...

[July 14, 2009] -

Hi Tony...here's a good starting point: How to Get Started in Porn

Good luck!

[July 1, 2009] -

Julia...the only draw-back I see to this method? Getting the dental floss tangled around the cock of the male talent during the scene...heh. Inserting two fingers and bearing down while tentatively "digging around" for the sponges has always worked for me and every other porn chick I have spoken to about this. It is a common trick of the trade!

[June 29, 2009] -

Trying to meet a porn star with the hopes of marrying her and settling down is like trying to meet any other woman with the same goals in mind. While it is possible, there is no formulaic way to go about doing so. Because you have narrowed the search for a potential mate to a specific sub-culture of our society, it will require far more effort. Mathematically speaking, it is possible although not probable. From a porn star's point of view: Personally, I hate it when a fan thinks he is going to "save me" from the world of porn; I have never dated a fan, much less gotten involved with anyone who merely wanted to be able to say he was "banging a porn star"; I tend to date those who want to get to know ME, not my profession.

Good luck!

[June 17, 2009] -

I am partial to OTK (over-the-knee) spanking with either my hand or a paddle. I tend to be merciless, and am often told by the director to ease up a bit. It makes me sound like a psychopath, but I prefer to spank as hard as the girl can take it, then add 10% to that...I want the fans to get what they pay for and for the production company to get a good return on their loss-forward as well! I have been quoted many a time saying, "If you're going to take the check, take the beating!" The fans of my spanking would lose faith in me if I held back on a girl...death before disappointing fans! Do I comfort the girls? Nope. Sometimes I take cell phone pics of their bruised asses and send them out to friends to brag about the beating I dished out...want to read more about spankings, spanking sites as well as an interview of me personally about my role in the spank world? Then visit CherryRedReport.

[May 22, 2009] -

Actually, I have stayed in fairly good contact with Taylor St. Claire and actually saw her late last year. She used to live fairly close to me but has moved to another state.

Isn't she a mega-hottie?!

[May 19, 2009] -

Thank you!

[May 17, 2009] -

You're walking the barbed-wire tightrope of soliciting prostitution. I am sure you think you are the first person to come up with this idea...you're not. Get caught, go to jail. Simple. You might be able to fight against a conviction by at LEAST having an actual company in place...file the paperwork, get the permits, etc. I would consult with an attorney, though...since I am not a legal expert. Hiring an escort and filming it is STILL hiring an escort!

[May 1, 2009] -

Actually, Friday, Manuel Ferrara and I filmed a scene together a little over a year ago. I took cock in my ass, Friday did not. That is actually how and where I met Corinne, my current roommate. She drove Friday to set, she was Friday's roommate then. I have not been able to find the scene anywhere, but I will keep my eyes peeled for it!

I guess the only person left for Corinne to room with is Manuel! *giggle*

[April 24, 2009] -

Hi Laura, I will gladly share the secrets of safe ATM (ass to mouth) fucking! When a scene is booked, it is determined what type of scene it will be ahead of time; we pornstars know when we will be taking it up the ass, so precautions are taken. My personal routine is as follows: I fast (clear liquids only) for 24 hours prior to my anal scene. Before going to sleep the night before my anal or double-penetration scene, I take a disposable enema, dump out the fluid that came in it, fill it with lukewarm water and give my ass a rinsing. After my shower the day of my scene, I take another disposable enema, dump out the chemicals, fill it with lukewarm tap water and use as directed on the package. The reason I use lukewarm water instead of the chemicals provided is to prevent dehydration. The chemicals rob your anal cavity of moisture and I definitely do not want to encourage tissue damage! I go to set, do my pretty girl stills then one FINAL rinse with tap water and I am good to go! If I feel my energy level is flagging, I will eat a piece of fruit or a pastry right before I start my scene. It will give my body the energy boost I need but not digest fast enough to make the scene...ummm....messy! Clean water in your ass followed by clean water out=fun, clean fucking!

[April 21, 2009] -

I would be glad to shoot this scene for you! Email me at Kayla@KaylaQuinn.com so I can get a few more details and we can discuss it more in-depth!

I look forward to hearing from you!

[March 15, 2009] -

Heya, Stud! There are several tricks male performers use to keep from popping too soon. Some guys make sure the scene is not their first load of the day by either stroking one out before the scene or fucking someone else before arriving on set...others change their tempo when they feel a climax building...I have also heard stories about mental diversions (one of my favorites is "envisioning Margaret Thatcher in a thong bikini)...don't under-estimate the beauty of editing, either; you do not see all of the stops and starts!

[February 14, 2009] -

Actually, I filmed another scene for that same label with the petite, nasty, sexy-as-fuck Amber Rain! I must admit, I lust that gal bigly!

[December 16, 2008] -

There are several possible reasons why some porn stars do not choose to shoot interracial scenes, racism is not as common a reason as people seem to think! While I am not saying there is no one in the adult film industry with racist views, my personal experience has shown me that is a rarity!

Some gals are just not attracted to ethnic guys. Simple as that. Others start out shooting certain types of scenes, then gradually offer more types to directors/producers. (For example, they may start out only willing to shoot girl/girl scenes then when they are ready and could use a boost in work offered start offering boy/girl vag scenes, a few months later, they may offer boy/girl/girl. By slowly offering more types of scenes you'll shoot, you can prolong your shoot-ability.) They may one day start shooting interracial scenes, but don't happen to at date. Some performers do not like the 'tone' of interracial scenes. There are two main types of IR scenes: "Let's show the honky bitch who's boss" and "As a brother, I love your curvy body type". I love the second type, won't shoot the first to save my life! Maybe they do not have the "look" for the second nor the temperament for the first. I remember a few years ago, one starlet (who happened to be dating a FINE ASS black man) confided in me that she was scared to shoot IR scenes. She lived in the south and danced when she was not in LA shooting. So many of her regular customers at the strip club had made derogatory comments about a gal pal of hers who danced in the same club and had started shooting IR scenes. Once she spoke to her gal pal, she found her friends income from the club had dropped substantially after the ignorant patrons discovered her new IR scenes. There are many reasons performers choose to shoot (or to NOT shoot) certain types of scenes, if you are curious why a specific girl isn't riding big black dick, email and ask her!

[November 20, 2008] -

Hi Darren...I have not had multiple loads of semen in my vagina at once. While I *have* shot cream pie scenes, they have not been multiple partner scenes. I guess I need to set my sites higher! ;)

I have gotten wonderfully positive feedback from the cream pie scenes that I have shot, though!

[September 21, 2008] -

Why, thank you, Michael! Yes, I do some custom video work, but I do so only if I am allowed to choose the person/people I am performing with in the scene(s). I also model, both hardcore stills and soft. I am always in need of assistance when it comes to filming or taking photos and I would welcome a fresh perspective. I will send you an email asap! :)

[September 18, 2008] -

Hi Deon...to be honest, I would be afraid to bite off that much responsibility! It is very competitive and time-intensive. My schedule would just not allow for it...but I can give you a few suggestions: Before investing your life's savings or mortgaging your home, consider starting out by working for an already established production company. You will learn more from the experience and avoid some pitfalls along the way. Do your research...know what genre/niche you are planning on shooting and make sure you completely understand the key elements associated with that type of content. Loss-forward is more difficult to recoup these days than it has been in the past...minimize the wait by having your network for distribution/marketing/etc in place as early as possible. Do not be so quick to decide against the internet...it is the fastest vehicle for getting your product out there, seen and purchased!

[September 9, 2008] -

Not at all, it is because the risk of transmitting STD's is less via oral sex than via vaginal sex. Some companies have a "Condom Only" policy when it comes to actual vaginal or anal penetration. Curious for more info? Here's a starting point!

Filming without current test paperwork is a violation of the rules BIG TIME! Any company that would ask a performer to film any type of hardcore with someone whose test is not current is not a company you want to be working for! A reputable company will not put its performers at risk.

[August 16, 2008] -

Hi Darren! I guess it really just depends on WHERE they are unloading their man-gravy! If I am taking the blast on my tits, my ass or (one of my favorite under-used places) the soles of my feet; I prefer a slower oozing of spunk. If I am planning on swallowing that yummy protein shake, or if I am just going to wear it on my face; I prefer a faster, more intense blast. These are, of course, just my personal preferences and they vary from person to person!

[August 11, 2008] -

Matal, try reading up here: Becoming a Pornstar first...if the MILF's are the ones you are after, just make sure you look young! The contrast between the ages is the point in that genre! They will want the youngest looking (yet legal!) male talent they can find! Good luck!

[August 2, 2008] -

Hi Andrew! Thanks for taking the time to track me down! I do, depending on the script/video idea, do custom videos. I will email you from my phone so you'll have a a streamlined path to reach me!

[July 31, 2008] -

I would LOVE to! I adore Lisa. I have not seen her since January...if my memory serves me correctly, she owes me a drink! Or two...*giggle*

[July 17, 2008] -

Hi Mario...still working on your "underground" question...I have a few gf's in Vegas researching (yeah, that's what we'll call it) for me!

As for the racial tension you are asking about...I, personally, do not get angry at white women who will not work with black men. More cock for me! Seriously, though...there have been some women who have tried to "explain" why they do not shoot interracial who have pissed me the FUCK off. First off, I do not ask people why they shoot what they do or why they don't shoot what they don't. Some reasoning I completely get; some sound like justification of a guilty conscience. Some porn stars (Rucca Page, Kayla Quinn *ahem* and others), limit what they shoot at first and gradually add more types of scenes to their body of work. For example, when I first started I did boy/girl vag and girl/girl. Later I added anal, then interracial and eventually double-penetration. By slowly offering more types of scenes, your shoot-ability remains desirable.

I have had girls tell me they refuse interracial because they feature dance in the south and are afraid it would affect their tips/income there. I have had girls tell me that they are not racist but their husband or boyfriend is, so they do not shoot interracial sex scenes. Some claim they are afraid once they shoot IR, they won't get booked for anything else. (Whatever! I have shoot IR and I shoot "white on white" scenes. Don't even TRY to tell me that bigger companies won't book you after shooting a lot of IR! Vivid booked me multiple times, as did Hustler and Wicked.) I have even had some brazen enough to approach me and chastise *me* for shooting so much interracial!

I am not sure I would go on record stating that industry-wide there is a resentment towards female talent who will not shoot IR. There are as many industry opinions as there are industry people. Also, this is a very transient industry. For every one girl who turns down a scene, there are 20 who will take...half of those for below rate! I will say that prejudice irritates the FUCK out of me and I have no tolerance for it nor room for it in my social circles. If you are just not sexually attracted to men of color, say so. Don't blame it on the rednecks in the titty bars, don't blame it on your significant other, don't pretend to be trying to convince me when you are merely trying to convince yourself. I shoot IR because I love to fuck. I love fucking women, I love fucking men. I love white cock, black cock, yellow cock...if I found a plaid one, I would probably want to try that out, too! There are men and women of all color that I find sexually appealing...just as there are men and women of all color that I find sexually unappealing. As an industry, there are FEW things I have ever seen a united stance on...

[July 14, 2008] -

Yup! Far above average! Curious to see how you measure up? Click here

[July 10, 2008] -

Ok, this is not really a question, but it made me laugh (like literally LOL), so I just have to address it!

First off, that has happened to me (and others, I can guarantee) on set before...we jokingly refer to that as a "Three Pump Chump". A few years ago, there was one director in particular who tended to book me with "unknown" male talent; by unknown, I mean it was his first or second scene. I finally asked him why he kept doing that to me (it makes for a much longer day AND a higher chance of a tanker of a scene for me) and he finally said, "Kayla, you can lead the scene without it being obvious on film." Great. "Punishment" for a job well done! *giggle*

As a result, I have actually looked in to ways to help a guy stall the inevitable. First off...try shaking one out a bit before the actual sexing. Takes you longer to cum the second time around! Another trick? If you feel yourself bubbling over too quickly, think of something ultra non-sexy. An ex-boyfriend of mine told me his standard delay thought was Margaret Thatcher in a thong bikini. Remember the PC muscle I mentioned when discussing kegels? Well, for you guys, your PC muscle is located between your anus and scrotum, it's the one you contract when you try to stop peeing suddenly. Exercise that muscle a little bit every day or two. How? Clench it then release it in ten-second periods. Do that three times, then take a break. Then do this clench-and-release technique for five seconds. Perform ten sets of this. Now, try tightening the muscle for 30 seconds and relaxing for 30 seconds. Do three sets of that. This is an exercise so easy to do, you don't even have to join a gym! You can do it anytime, anywhere, no one will know you are doing it but you. Now, when you are faced with becoming a Three Pump Chump, keeping your cock in whichever hole it is in, stop pumping away...clench and release your PC muscle, you should be good to go again! Ok, you might have to clench and release a few times. On the bright side, it sort of makes your hard cock jump a little and it feels great inside a chick (at least, this chick) when you guys do it so we don't generally mind the 3 second pause in the banging!

Oh! Before you hang your head(s) in shame: biologically speaking, men generally take (barring any self-control/effort on their part) 2-3 minutes from time of penetration to orgasm. Women? 12-14 minutes. Who says God doesn't have a sense of humor?

Hope this helps!

[June 30, 2008] -

Heya sweet pea! Sara Jay is one smoking hot MILF I have not had the pleasure of working with...YET!

[June 23, 2008] -

While I have worked with some really talented guys (and gals), I have to admit, I have not brought a guy home and done him off-camera! I have brought home a few gals here and there, especially over the past two years. Sometimes I run my video camera and post the ensuing debauchery, sometimes I do not. Since my home is wired with 24/7 cameras, what happens is seen as it unfolds.

Now, when it comes to scenes, I do have my "ringers"...tried and trusted talent (for each niche I am typically cast for) that I either request or call in should the person I am booked with have a problem...performing. Chemistry on a shoot is golden and cannot be faked! I have some performers that make me moist just anticipating working with again!

[June 20, 2008] -

Aaron...three parts, three answers! *giggle*

No, actually, I have never had sex with an Asian man! I have filmed lesbian scenes with Asian females (hence the term lesbian...I can be redundant and repetitive at times...). I have shot some fetish work with an Asian male performer...but it was not actually sucking or fucking. As for the lack of male Asian performers in the biz...I am not sure why that is. Maybe the stereotype about smaller genitalia? Maybe the cultural differences in pornography and what is sexually stimulating? I do not know. But it is a shame! I find Asians to be exotic and gorgeous!

[June 2, 2008] -

Are you male talent, Brad? That is what it takes for me to fuck a stranger!

[May 28, 2008] -

Hello Mario, thanks for writing in...

When it comes to working with other talent, be it male or female, there have been a few I have "blacklisted" or have made it to my "will not work with" list. While I won't name names, I will tell you what it takes to get on that list of mine.

My Ban-able Offenses:
• Got a penis? Got a hatred for women? Buh-bye!
  
• Knew you had a scene today but stayed out partying last night? Hung over and unable to perform? You won't with me ever again! This may be porn, but you do have the responsibility to be here and functional!
  
• Need to "stroke to pop"? That's fine with me! I just want your hot load of yummy spunk! Fair warning: if you are known to habitually take over 10-15 minutes to finish yourself off at the end of every scene...you're on thin ice with me...known for taking longer and (unless you're an INCREDIBLE fuck), you'll probably only keep me on my knees that long the one time!
  
• Unhygienic? As far as I am concerned, you're unbookable!
  
• An honorable mention here, as it has only happened to me once...stalk me then beg to get booked with me? Yeah, right. Like I will take that scene!
  

There you go, Mario, these are things that my pissy self just cannot deal with! *giggle*

[May 3, 2008] -

Nick, I remember you darling! First of all, good luck at boot camp! Basic training (the USAF version of boot camp) was a BLAST for me, I thoroughly enjoyed the experience! The basic information on breaking in to this business can be found HERE. The exact article you are looking for is about halfway down the page. As for shooting before then, you might want to hurry! LOL Contact Lisa Ann, tell her I sent you, explain the situation (how/where we met, you're leaving in two months, etc). She may be able to help you out. She tends to specialize in MILF talent and younger guys that go with that genre. She is a total sweetie, we get along famously so using my name won't hurt you a bit! ;) As for shooting a scene with me, I cannot promise anything but I CAN tell you that I am taking the month of May off from shooting to catch up on a few other projects that I have managed to let fall behind. But, there is always June! ;) Good luck, let me know how it goes with Lisa Ann!

[April 27, 2008] -

Hi Jim! First of all, good luck on the novel! You've asked some very good questions, most of which have several factors that come in to play. Let's roll up our sleeves and get started, shall we?

New models have a few things going for them: they are fresh faces, they have a great attitude for the industry and they are eager take direction on set instead of insisting on things going their way. The downsides to being brand new: larger budget productions can be hesitant to take a chance on a large-paying scene on an unknown (I am not saying it doesn't happen, just that they can be hesitant), the production staff realizes there will be a learning curve and because of that the shoot day can be a bit longer, sometimes new talent cannot complete a scene because she thinks she is in over her head. As for the amount of work a newbie can expect...again, key factors come in to play. Is she trying to book herself or does she have an agency pushing her? If talent is new to the area I recommend one of two options: 1). Sign on with an agency. Before jumping to the first agency you come across, check out their current models. Certain agencies specialize in certain genre's. Make sure you are a good fit with their current scheme. 2). If the idea of an agency doesn't seem to float your boat, get a copy of AVN magazine. While browsing through it, look at ads for dvds that fit your genre. For example, let's say (yes, even at 25) MILF is the genre you'd like to shoot...you see a box cover for a MILF movie produced by BLAHBLAH Inc. At the bottom of that advertisement, there will be an email address for sales. Email a BRIEF email to them with something along the lines of, "Hello, my name is Fresh Talent and I have not shot for your company yet. I feel I would be perfect for MILF TITLE WHATEVER, and would like to know if you would be so kind as to tell me whom I should contact regarding a go/see? Thank you for your help, I look forward to working for you." Editors note: A go/see is when you go to a production company, strip down to heels and a smile, they snap a few pics of you then you fill out a questionnaire about the types of scenes you shoot and the rates you expect for each type. There is no set number of scenes a newbie should expect to get booked for...various trends run throughout the business. For a while there was a lot of barely legal, then it was all natural boobs, busty boobs took root for a while, as did squirting and of course MILF scenes. It really depends on what criteria she is fitting and what is popular at the moment. Various times of the year are busier for shooting than other times, too. I am afraid this biz is cyclic! Now, for your pay per scene question...Personally, I have my set rates for various types of scenes but these are not carved in stone. I use them more as guidelines. Some companies just have bigger budgets than others. *shrug* I have a few companies that have always made sure I had work (even when I had full-blown cancer) so, out of respect for them, if they cannot pay my full rate I don't sweat it! There are other companies that I am chummy with the owners of so I am not too much of a stickler there, either. Some courtesies they extend in exchange for that? I get to choose the talent I work with, my call time and even get to choose my make up artist a lot of the time. There is not industry standard on pay. We are not a tightly governed industry on that level. There are also different levels of talent. While ONE girl may be offered $1000 for a vag scene, the same company might offer another girl $800 (I have heard even lower figures). Why? One girl might be prettier than the other or might just be a stronger performer. While there is no set pay scale, if you need basic ideas, pop in to an agents office and ask them what their spectrum of scene rates for their clients look like. (Note: Unless you are looking to book a specific girl, do not ask about a specific girl...just ask in general). Oh! ONE last thing...as for the "as often as she wanted to" part...showing up on time, prepared and without bringing real life drama on to the set will increase her odds of getting booked multiple times by the same company! If I left anything out, please do not hesitate to write again! :)

[April 20, 2008] -

A standard "Pile Driver" position is basically when the receiver of the cock lies on their shoulders (usually on the floor, since beds and other furniture can have too much give, making this position too unstable), and the giver of the cock stands above them and inserts, fucking away! Here's a look at how it goes!

[April 16, 2008] -

Troy, there are several factors in a desirable pop shot. Not only in the amount of spunk crucial, so is the texture, the color...well, the over-all appearance! Being able to "cum on command" helps out, but you can always stroke to pop (it happens quite frequently on set). As for distance...as long as it goes far enough to hit the target (whether it be the other performers face, ass or tits), you're good to go!

[April 5, 2008] -

The bisexual movies I have appeared in have always been "condom-only", meaning all males wore a condom for all penetration. While it has always been a niche, it has gained popularity due to it's increased acceptance. Do I think the internet played a part in that? Yes, I do. PPV (Pay-Per-View) Theaters, such as this one, take out the potential embarrassment of physically walking in to an adult shop and picking out the dvd desired. Once there is no fear of stigma, there is no reason to rob oneself of a desire.

As for the trans-sexual films, I think the appeal is multi-fold. First, there is the taboo appeal that calls to the darker desires inherent in most people. Second, some of those trannies are more beautiful than us natural gals! Also, it is novel. I would not doubt that it is a good transition from straight porn to gay porn, either. As you pointed out, it does (on the surface, at least) appear to be a man and a woman...until, well, they both get naked and you see more than one cock on the screen!

[April 1, 2008] -

Ahhh...facials! You say you've never dared tried it, have you ever asked your partner if they enjoy it? As with most things sexual, I am not a big fan of springing things on a partner without knowing where they stand. Some surprises are better received than others!

As for my opinion: all loads are not created equal! I am allergic to tobacco, so a blast from a smoker itches and sometimes even burns my skin. A blast of gooey cum from a non-smoker, not a problem...from a smoker, not a thrill! The same can be said about swallowing semen. Diet greatly affects bodily fluids, (more information, including recipes for yummier spunk, can be found HERE) so a healthier diet on your part can increase the odds of taking a facial or swallowing on your partners part!

Do some women do it just for the money? Some women do, I am sure, and others thoroughly enjoy it...but that can be said for just about anything, can't it?

[March 24, 2008] -

The term "cream pie" refers to an internal pop. Put simply, allowing the ejaculate to be deposited inside the vagina. Since "pie" is slang for pussy and the gooey goodness resembles cream...

[March 17, 2008] -

Ahhh! I had wondered how long it would be before boob questions of this nature hit me! Before I answer, though, I am very glad you enjoy my films!

On to the answers! Normally, when there is an extensive amount of attention played to my breasts in a scene, the film being shot is one geared to the busty genre. As with other elements of a scene, I can always speak up when something is too intense/hardcore for me to handle. If you see me being man-handled on film, then that is the mood I was in the day we shot! There are times when I feel delicate, but those times are few and far between! I am fine with having my boobs slapped and such, as long as my nipples don't feel like they are being shredded. I have actually left a set with bruises before, it happens...consider it an occupational hazard! As for the tit-fucking...I honestly do not have a preference for or against it. I take that on a "per cock" basis. If the cock is long enough and not too fat, it feels good. It can be difficult to keep my tits squeezed tight enough (especially when you take the lube factor into consideration), if the dick is too girthy. If the cock is too short, instead of a pleasant fucking sensation it often feels like my jiggly's are being stabbed.

Last but not least: Has anyone ever cum too soon in a scene? Yup! It has happened lots of times! Sometimes there is enough notice and we can film the scene out of sequence (put the pop where it belongs, so to speak), other times we wait for the guy to rejuvenate and start where we left off. If it is not the last scene of the day, I often volunteer to let the next scene start filming. Not only does that minimize "down time" on the set, it takes some of the pressure off the male talent. The most difficult time to recover from an early pop is when there is a time-constraint put in place. I would much rather have a fun, relaxed shoot than a tense, rushed one!

Thank you for the great questions! Keep them coming!

[March 13, 2008] -

Hi Joe...have you tried just asking her why she is so hesitant to suck cock? It may be as simple as a past bad experience! I realize that you say you are fine without the oral gratification, so I will move on to the actual questions!

I did find a fairly comprehensive list (along with photos) of sexual positions here. As far as my favorite positions, I must admit to being a creature of habit when it comes to non-film sex! I tend to enjoy missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy and a bit of pile-driver when at home. Out of that list, the two I would assume to be least likely used by non-film folk are reverse cowgirl and pile-driver. Pile-driver can be a bit tricky; it requires not only the proper setting but for both parties to be paying apt attention to prevent injury!

[March 10, 2008] -

Hi Michael! Nope, not too invasive at all!

Just like everyone else's relationships on the planet, mine go through good times and bad. Sometimes things at home are splendiferous, sometimes not so much! While I love getting banged hard on set, there is a certain emotional intimacy within my relationships that tends to keep me tightly tethered. I am not going to claim that "real life sex" is always the best, but it is the best consistently! I can always count on my boyfriend du jour to know exactly what it takes to float my boat AND I do not have to worry about whether or not it looks good! *giggle*

When it comes to sex, I know no guilt, babe!

[March 6, 2008] -

Sasha-

Kala Prettyman is actually on my "todo" list, so to speak! I met her on the set of Cousin Stevie's Pussy Party and I adored her! I will mention her to my agent again, though! Let me see what I can do to make that happen...I will also give Kala a call tomorrow morning while I am stuck in hair & make up!

[February 27, 2008] -

Hi Mario! While it is true that most female actors out-earn their male counterparts per scene, there are some guys out there raking in the same scene rate and higher! Typically, for a standard boy/girl vag scene, new male talent can anticipate approximately $300 per scene to start. Some companies will offer better, some will try to get the scene done as inexpensively as possible. Once the performer has "proven himself", he can book at a higher rate. (Different types of scenes, just like for us gals, offer different rates. A blow job scene can start as low as $100 for the one with the cock.)

I have often said the guys get the short end of the stick (no pun intended) on the rates game...but, then again, career longevity for guys versus gals....

[February 8, 2008] -

To be honest, the color of the cock means little to me. It has little bearing on whether or not I enjoy it. I am all about the technique, the guy and the attitude! There are two genres of inter-racial scenes. The first is the somewhat degradation-based niche (the white woman is belittled, referred to as a whore, cunt, etc), the second is based on black men loving curvy women. That is the type of scene I love to shoot! I have curves. Period. I want to work with a man who appreciates them, admires them...not one who tolerates them! I am not sure if it is merely a cultural thing or what, but men of color tend to like thick butts and big tits separated by a small waist. It is just a perfect type of scene for me to book based on my body type.

As for the cut or uncut debate: personally, I prefer cut. Even while flacid, a cut cock looks more appealing to me. That doesn't mean I do not like an uncut penis! An uncircumcised cock is better than no cock at all! I have noticed, though, that if I have an anal scene booked with someone who isn't cut and they are well-endowed, the foreskin acts as almost a buffer for my anus. Friction from the cock sliding in and out is minimized making it easier to handle a girthy dick.

[February 4, 2008] -

Thank you Marrky! I am delighted to hear that I don't look like a cookie-cutter stereotype! To be honest, I have actually never liked my legs. LOL I have always felt lucky that, out of my entire nuclear family, I am the only one with blue eyes.

As far as working with younger actors, I usually really enjoy it. I tend to be more excited about the younger male performers and less so about working with younger females. Why, you ask? I tend to feel desirable when a younger guy is fucking me but like Chester-the-Molester when working with younger gals...especially if the gal is relatively new to the industry! There is something slightly uncomfortable for me when I get booked for a girl/girl scene with a chick who is basically "Gay for Pay" (not actually in to girls. I have been known to jokingly say (when referring to female talent), "I refuse to fuck a girl younger than things I have aborted!"

There *have* been a few way younger females that stand out in my memory for both good reasons and bad. Coincidentally, two of my all time faves have similar names: Kat and Kitty. I first worked with Kat in 2006 in Older Women and Younger Women #7. Jim Powers was in awe at the end of our scene excitedly saying to me, "Damned Kayla! You were totally in to that! You shot that straight through! We shot longer than we had planned, it was great!" Kitty, on the other hand, I just worked with last week. She was a total cutie and way hot! Again, we shot pretty much straight thru and (even tho it was a softer/no penetration shoot) I had a blast! I'll work with her again!

Last but not least...the cum question! IF the guy doesn't smoke, I prefer to swallow it rather than waste it. Most of the time, however, that decision is made by the production company/director and not by me. Some scenes are set up to be a "swallow", some to be cum facials, still others to have the pop on the tits or the ass...just depends on the film & its niche/genre. It has been my experience that men aim their load about as well as they aim their pissing in the toilet...to put it bluntly, they have little control over what lands where! I have had the famed 30 minute pink eye from spunk in there more than once! Other times, I have had to go diving to catch the creamy goodness with my face. LOL Oh well, all's well that lands well! ;)

Thanks for reading and for the awesome question!

[February 1, 2008] -

Hi Aleksey! I tend to not get too involved with any drama that pops up on set or at events. Now, I am not going to say I have not opened my mouth and expressed an opinion when I did not need to say anything! I am only human! *giggle* While I adore most of the people I work with (they *do* make up my social circle, after all), I cannot really think of anyone I really dislike. If I don't feel a kinship with someone, I just don't hang out with them. *shrug* I am certain there are people who don't think I am the grooviest thing since sliced bread...I mean, I am loud, opinionated and tend to be bossy! (Hey, I know my faults!) I have to say, though, I have been really lucky...the people that dislike me have been professional enough NOT to tell me! w00t!

[January 29, 2008] -

Hi Freddy, your best bet is to become male talent and hope to get booked in a scene with your fave hottie. If that doesn't seem realistic to you, check out the various "Ranches". Maybe you'll get lucky and the lust of your life will be appearing there or scheduled to be in the near future. Some adult performers do "privates" some do not. A "private" is another way of saying they escort. You could gently inquire if this is an option. Do yourself a favor though, if you're told she does not escort, drop it then and there. Don't try upping the ante by offering more money. Adult film actor or not, a "No" is a NO! Good luck!

[January 24, 2008] -

Thanks for the compliment, Helena! Once in a while, it'll cross my mind that my (s)mother had three kids by the time she was my age and I almost respect her for that! I still behave like a kid most of the time!

I spent four years serving my country in the USAF, finished up my degree, then started in adult films. I have been accepted in to one culinary school and am waiting for more information (and word back) from another. Depending on which meets my needs and desires best, I will either be going to school in Pasadena or in N. Hollywood late this year. I have, of course, other projects that are not adult-industry oriented that I am working on as well. I must admit, being able to set my own hours, choose who I work with and for and being paid so generously has me somewhat spoiled!

[January 18, 2008] -

Oh my! There have been so many funny mis-haps on set! You'd be amazed by the amusing (and sometimes poignant) things you over-hear.

Some of my favorites:
• Me: You're really cute! (to a female I met on set)...her: At my age, it's sexy, not cute...Me: I'm prolly twice your age...her: I'm 18, how old are you?...Me: I'm 36...her: Yeah, you're almost twice my age...
• Having a pussy is like having a constantly open wound...it takes nothing to infect it and forever for it to heal once damaged...
• Are you in my ass or in my pussy? I can't tell...

As far as things that have happened, I have seen fights, equipment failures (both people 'equipment' and actual equipment), the power has gone out mid-shoot, it has started raining during outdoor shoots...I fell out of a tree once, I think that was the funniest for me. There I was, trying to be seductive and erotic only to end up landing on my bum!

[January 10, 2008] -

I must admit, I get immense pleasure out of some of the strap-on scenes that I do! I prefer to utilize a strap-on on a guy rather than a gal. There is just something about being in that position of power...that role-reversal...that I find intoxicating! The vulnerability and trust that go hand-in-hand in those types of scenes goes to my head! *giggle*

There is, however, an often over-looked danger when shooting any scene that involves phallis. Since the strap-on or sex toy is not flesh and blood and lack nerve endings...unless the person in control knows what they are doing, the receiver can be hurt before the giver realizes it. I temper everything I do with that knowledge at all times. While I love a high energy scene and enjoy giving it as hard as I have gotten it, I do not ever want to injure the talent I am working with (well, at least not more so than they would like to be).

[January 7, 2008] -

Hi Dirk! I actually use vaginal contraceptive film. It isn't very tasty (occupational hazard I am afraid...once you start to fuck then go back to sucking, you get a bitingly harsh flavor of chemical goodness), but very effective! With my on-going weight battle, the constant barrage of chemicals from birth control pills is not an appealing option!

[December 19, 2007] -

Thanks for writing again! Actually, Johnny Thrust is a lotof fun to work with and one of my faves! His package is perfectly proportional to the rest of his body; not small at all. My opinion is simple: Size means little, skill means everything! Working with Johnny guarantees me a fun, energetic shoot.

[November 28, 2007] -

Hi John,

There are so many misconceptions, I am not sure where to begin or which one to label the 'biggest'! I think it is a toss-up between: "All porn people are horny 24/7" and "All the scenarios seen in the beginning of porn films are fair representations of the lives of all porn folk."

I have yet to meet anyone in the industry who has paid for a pizza by having unprotected sex with the delivery boy. Were that really the case, there'd be a waiting list to deliver pizza in Porn Valley!

[November 12, 2007] -

At this time, Nevada is the only state in the US with legalized prostitution. There are, however, limitations so before you decide to load up your car with condoms and lube; be prepared for the reality of things!

Prostitution is only legal when performed in a recognized brothel. For an up-to-date list, Click Here. You will notice that none of the brothels are in major cities (Reno, Las Vegas, etc.), some are close by, others are a bit of a drive. On the websites for the individual cat houses, you can find photos of the gals working along with their schedules. (I must admit, I was surprised at how many of the girls appearing at various ranches were porn stars I have met and/or worked with).

The range of activities available vary from one sexy woman to the next. Keep in mind, these are real women...not fuck puppets. Please do not treat them as such! If you have specific desires, ask who best to fulfill your needs. Instead of focusing on one particular hottie and try to get her to conform to your will, find out who will accommodate your dream session and go with her. Also, do not ask for anything you *know* is illegal (beastiality, for example), you will not only be embarrassed, but will most likely be banned permanently from that brothel but (should the brothel choose to share their repulsion with other brothel owners) all brothels in that area.

I suggest you brush up on the basics of meeting/greeting a sex worker by reading this entry from July, 2007. Doesn't hurt to be smooth! ;)

[October 14, 2007] - HAHAHAHA! I am sorry! I sometimes forget that not everyone knows industry lingo, so to speak. Let me give you a few basics:

• b/g = boy/girl, as is a typical boy/girl vaginal scene
• b/g/a = boy/girl/anal
• g/g = girl/girl
• g/g/a = girl/girl/anal, a girl/girl scene with anal play possibly even toy insertion
• b/b/g = boy/boy/girl
• b/g/g = boy/girl/girl
• atm = ass to mouth
• ogatmm = other girls ass to my mouth
• dp = double penetration
• bts = behind the scenes, interviews, bonus footage, etc.

These can come in REAL handy when I am out in public with other adult performers and we want to 'talk shop'.

[October 5, 2007] - There IS! Click HERE to visit Mr.Skin, the best resource for finding nude scenes, photos and more of celebs! :) (I used Madonna as an example...)

[September 19, 2007] - Hi Crystal! When it comes to having your own website, especially when you are not too computer savvy, I would recommend contacting a company with an affiliate program that specializes in solo-girl website. (Possibly Girlie Bank or PornKings, just to mention a few...) Running and maintaining a website is a *lot* of work, if you lack the basic skills needed, it will go from being a project you love to a beast of burden quickly! As for getting in to the film side of the adult entertainment industry, I strongly suggest signing on with an agency, especially if you are not in the Los Angeles/Porn Valley area. The Floating World has a TON of resources listed for both the newbie and the seasoned performer. If you feel you would like to try on your own, instead of through an agency, take a peek at Sexy Jobs. Of course, the first stop is always AIM for the required tests. A word of caution: Make SURE you know you are going to a legitimate shoot, just because you found a listing on CraigsList, doesn't mean it is a real deal situation! If you blindly stumble in to this industry, there are those who will take advantage of your naivete' and WAY underpay you!

[September 17, 2007] - Oh, it DOES! Interestingly enough, there *is* a difference on the arrangement of the girlie guts based on body type. The slender, almost boyish, straight up and down body type (characterized by slender hips, tiny booty and few curves) can usually accommodate those monster cocks. Why? Their cervix is typically 2-4 inches HIGHER than those of us curvier chicks. It is an evolution thing... the curvy body type is "more desirable" genetically, so the cervix is lower to increase the chance of pregnancy. Gee... thanks a LOT! I am a curvy non-breeder who happens to be taller than the typical porn starlet. In order to keep the scene from looking out of proportion, I get booked with some REALLY big cocks... my low-hanging cervix has taken a beating once or twice on set!

[September 8, 2007] - I hope you do not mind, I took your personal information out of your question before answering it, Mr. Spears! Wanna keep you safe! :) The "difficult" part of being in porn films is not actually the desire to do it, it is the actual work that is involved (not to mention being comfortable enough to fuck like MAD both with and in front of strangers). This really IS a job, not a hobby and not just a big party! Here are a few sites I found useful when I first started looking in to becoming an adult performer: AIM-med... This is your first stop... get tested! You cannot work without current AIM paperwork. Your test is valid for 30 days after date of collection. The Floating World... I have linked directly to the "Biz" page. The Floating World not only has several resources here for you, but the entire site is crammed with industry information, events, calendar, etc... Great for the average Joe as well as for the performer! Sexy Jobs... If you are interested in landing your own bookings, Sexy Jobs is just one of several sites out there that fills the role of adult classifieds for work.

[August 28, 2007] - HAHAHAHA! That is actually a fairly common practice in certain genres. In the case of tease and denial scenes, it is extra stimulation that adds to the anticipation of the actual orgasm. In ruined orgasm films, it is to create an uncomfortable pressure in the testes. Basically, the binding makes it more difficult for blood to retreat from the engorged penis and back in to the body. The result? A longer lasting erection. In some of the post-ejaculation photos on the back of dvds, you will see the female talent holding the freshly drained cock at the base squeezed between two fingers in a scissor-like grip...she is keeping the cock rigid by not allowing the blood to leave member. It is a little trick we use on set since between the "pop shot" and the still photos of the aftermath, several minutes may go by and the guy can start to ...um, return to normal. When binding scrot's, make SURE you know what you are doing! Do NOT bind to the point that things turn purple or blue...you are literally killing your guys "buddies". Also, if he says untie, UNTIE! To be honest, this is one of those things I discourage too much experimentation with and suggest you leave it to a pro...or find one who will teach you the basics! You can ruin your man this way. When I have utilized this practice, I have used things that were not only handy at the time, but not too coarse or strong...a hair scrunchy (NOT an elastic/rubber band) or my panties. I also never bind tighter than I have to...you'd be amazed at gentle a tie is effective! Think of it along the same lines as putting a collar on a dog, you want to control, not choke to death!

[August 27, 2007] - Oh my! There are *some* things in life that I can suck up... a smelly cootie, I cannot do! A bad aroma could be as simple as poor diet or as gross as: infection, foreign body inside, cum from the last fuck, among other things! I make sure my hygiene is above reproach, that is common courtesy. The best thing to do is halt production, pull the girl aside and ask her if maybe she has a sponge that has been forgotten (sponges are commonly used so we gals can work through Aunt Flo's visit Read More Here), or ask her to douche. Should the douche fail to correct the issue, I would call in the director and the other gal and explain the problem. At that point, ONE of us needs to be replaced. This has only happened one time, and that time it was indeed a sponge. Not one that had been forgotten but one that needed to be changed. After it was replaced, the scene went on as planned and no one watching the finished product would ever be the wiser!

[August 24, 2007] - Actually, I am not in Hollywood although I am in the Los Angeles area. The hayday of "blacklisting" is gone (that is not to say it never happens, just that is isn't AS frequent according to my inside source)... crossing over is not impossible, ask Traci Lords, just difficult. For the most part, adult actors are not known for their acting abilities. From personal experience, the cut in pay for starting out in mainstream makes it fairly unappealing. For a full day on-set with Days of Our Lives, I made less than $100 (I am AFTRA qualified, but not a paying member of that union; being a member would double my pay-rate), even a non-sex, non-nude fetish shoot generally gets me out in less than an hour with more cash in my pocket. I have managed to do mainstream gigs here and there under a different name and just prefer the hardcore lifestyle. There are several mainstream casting companies and agencies out there if you are curious about giving it a try. Check out Central Casting. That is your first step. Good luck!

[August 23, 2007] - HAHAHA! After the first 5 or 6 years, you forget about the cameras. ;) I have been living my life on 24/7 cameras for so long, it actually feels strange when there are NOT cams running. I have had friends ask me if I "perform" for my streaming cams a lot... I don't... there is no way anyone could pull off a facade 24/7! There HAVE been times when I have gotten an unexpected phone call from people telling me odd things: your pot on the stove is boiling over; Halon has gotten in to the trash and pulled things out in to the living room; Fahrenheit is on the bed, stuff like that. It makes me giggle. On the bright side, I probably have the BEST security system in the world. At any given time, there are hundreds maybe even thousands of people all around the world keeping an eye on me and my home! Beat THAT ADT! ;)

[August 18, 2007] - NO NO NO NO! I NEVER, EVER work with anyone who does not have current AIM paperwork! I will not put myself, my S.O. (Significant Other), or subsequent people that I work with in jeopardy by working without taking the basic precautions of verifying the status of their paperwork! AIM prints up our test results on paper that has their watermark on it, as well as alternating red and white stripes, and an embossed sticker verifying that it came from their office. If any 'red flags' are raised, I am quick to telephone AIM and get a verbal verification on their test status. The staff at AIM are BEYOND wonderful! I have actually gotten to know several of the office personnel outside of the clinic and count them among some of my closest friends. Not to kiss ass, but thank you, AIM, for keeping us all happy, working and SAFE! If you are industry or not and in need of testing for HIV, STD's or merely wish to discuss possibly entering in to the adult industry, I suggest you check out http://www.aim-med.org/. I know it can be frightening to admit you may need to be tested for STD's, but avoiding it won't make it ANY better!

[August 16, 2007] - Oooohhh..... good question with a trick answer! It depends on the type of scene it is. I had TONS of fun working with Craig James, but he is no longer male talent (those of you in the know realize that Craig James is *my* Craig, well, my ex-bf Craig whom I still suck and fuck). Rick Masters is wonderful to work with, as he and I have excellent chemistry and it is always an energetic scene. Jenner is great since, as he also directs, he keeps lighting and camera angles in mind. Dwayne Cummings is a great lead for inter-racial scenes as we have worked together on so many occasions, he and I glide through transitions smoothly. Christian XXX made me feel petite and delicate, the way he threw me around like a rag doll (keep in mind, at 5'10" 'petite' is not a feeling I experience often). I guess the safest thing for me to say is this: with so many good cocks out there, I cannot choose just one!

[August 15, 2007] - Hi Jen! I have been quite fortunate over the years when it comes to co-performers. Some production companies will ask me if I have a male performer I would like to work with, other times they will give me a few names and ask if I have a preference. A lot of female performers have a "Will Not Work With List". I tend to enjoy people who are on set for the same reason I am: to have GREAT sex, a good time and treat the paycheck like it is gravy on the biscuits. I have thoroughly enjoyed working with Sledge Hammer, Rick Masters, Buster Good, Christian XXX, Dwayne Cummings, Kurt Lockwood, Jenner and Drehyden come to mind right away when I think of yummy cock! As for the much-needed girlie love... Puma Swede, Kat, Brooke Hunter (before she retired) and my Kelly Leigh!!! I ADORE my Kelly Leigh... nasty and sensual!

[August 13, 2007] - Actually, I do not have a boyfriend right now... although I have a male friend that would be angry to read that statement... my last bf, the one I still occasionally fuck (well, 2-6 times a week) is "industry". While he is "behind the scenes", he *was* male talent for one dvd (I was one of those 4 or 5 scenes), he understands the business and knows that sex for a scene versus sex for pleasure is a big difference! While I will never NEVER feign an orgasm during a scene (it cheapens everything IMHO), when I am at home and I choose to fuck someone and they know it is because I chose them and not because a studio chose them it is a BIG difference! My most recent ex, Craig, has actually shot scenes with gal pals of mine, not to mention those whom I have brought home because I just craved watching him fuck them... I am really the stereotypical "down-to-earth" chick, so I fail to see how I could be intimidating in any way! Great question tho... I was flattered! *giggle*

[August 7, 2007] - Oh my! This is not an easy one at all! Hmmm... I tend to really like reverse gang bangs... there is something about using a strap-on on a guy that makes me feel powerful! LOL I tend to lean towards bondage and discipline, too. I am a true switch, meaning I can be the dom or the sub, however it is a rarity that you find me being dommed by a woman. Because of my strong personality, I rarely find a woman who can dom me and I hate the idea of putting a lie on film. Anything that lets me be in control tends to be my fave... altho, Rubber Obedience is the exception to that rule. I played a sub and LOVED it!

[August 6, 2007] -

OMG! This is a GREAT question! YES! I LOVE anal sex, both on film and in my personal life. Craig, the guy I dated from June 2006-Mar 2007 (and still fuck to this day) was delighted the first time I begged him to fuck my ass. It quickly became a staple in our real-life sex. I have always loved anal, long before I even considered filming adult scenes. The first time I took it up the ass, was on Pensacola Beach in 1992. From that day on, I was hooked! There have been quite a few times I have asked for or just done anal when it was not part of the scene. Dwayne Cummings and Brad Baldwin have both fell victim to my cravings! *giggle*

There is a difference in rate between a vag scene and an anal scene, UNLESS the talent offers it after the scene has been booked! If I am booked for a vag scene and accept a vag rate then offer anal, the negotiated rate still applies unless the production company specifies otherwise. It might sound like a bad deal, but cocks like Brad Baldwin, Dwayne Cummings and Craig James (just to name a few) are just too good to NOT have in my ass!

[August 4, 2007] - Yes, it is not too uncommon for us porn sluts to film while on the rag. After all we are on our period 25% of the time, there is a one in four chance! Basically, we use sponges. no, I do not mean that we are constantly wiped down while filming! I mean either natural sea sponges or cosmetic wedge sponges are moistened then we insert them in our vaginas and push them up as far as we can. The crappy part is digging them back OUT after we are done filming!

[July 31, 2007] - You know, we porn folk are just like everyone else (well, for the most part). Despite the fact that we suck and fuck for a living, we are normal human beings. Keep in mind, that 'witty' sexual innuendo that you are about to blurt out in an attempt to impress said porn performer...is prolly something she has heard a thousand times. I know, it happens to me constantly. We hear a lot of sexual banter, crude comments and blunt offers. You are *NOT* as original as you think you are! Want a better chance? Do *NOT* meet us and immediately 'talk shop' to us (notice I said TO us and not WITH us). You may have seen us do the most intimate crap, but if you just introduced yourself, you are still a stranger to that individual. Talk about anything other than sex, scenes, porn movies and other performers and you will have a better chance at standing out in the crowd. Keep this in mind: asking a performer for a free dvd or free access to their website is the equivalent of me coming to your place of business and asking you to do work for me for free. If you worked as a mechanic, on your day off would you really want to adjust my timing belt? Especially if you JUST met me?

[July 25, 2007] - Well, to be honest, what happens when the cameras are not rolling is as varied as the types of scenes that can be shot! I have been on sets where the ... fun... never stopped... cameras rolling or not... I have also been on sets where the second the cameras stopped, so did the performers. Some film sets more closely resemble a party; friends hanging out with friends. Other locations are handled in a less casual, more business-like manner. The degree of familiarity the cast has with each other contributes a lot, too. It really just depends on the type of shoot, the performers, the chemistry on set, the pace of the days schedule, the number of scenes being shot, the size of the location (if there is any chance for privacy, cell phones WILL be pulled out...this *is* L.A.!), tons of things! As far as camera guys, PAs and such 'getting lucky'...since a lot of male performers also shoot, direct, etc, it has been known to happen! Should this possibility make you run out, grab a camera and head for Porn Valley? You can, but if you want even a remote chance of getting a between-scenes quickie, you'd better visit AIM first...for civilians the saying is, "No glove, no love" for US it is "No paperwork, NO WAY!"