Adult Business Tips And Information


Michael asked: Hello Kayla, I love your work and you are mesmerizing. All these things I am sure you have heard before. I was wondering if you did custom videos and/or private modelling sessions. I am a filmmaker, not in the industry but I would just love to work with you...

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Why, thank you, Michael! Yes, I do some custom video work, but I do so only if I am allowed to choose the person/people I am performing with in the scene(s). I also model, both hardcore stills and soft. I am always in need of assistance when it comes to filming or taking photos and I would welcome a fresh perspective. I will send you an email asap! :)



deon asked: Hey kayla, i was wondering if u could help me start up my own porn company or give me a few pointers in that area. P.S. i don't want to start a online business

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Hi Deon...to be honest, I would be afraid to bite off that much responsibility! It is very competitive and time-intensive. My schedule would just not allow for it...but I can give you a few suggestions: Before investing your life's savings or mortgaging your home, consider starting out by working for an already established production company. You will learn more from the experience and avoid some pitfalls along the way. Do your research...know what genre/niche you are planning on shooting and make sure you completely understand the key elements associated with that type of content. Loss-forward is more difficult to recoup these days than it has been in the past...minimize the wait by having your network for distribution/marketing/etc in place as early as possible. Do not be so quick to decide against the internet...it is the fastest vehicle for getting your product out there, seen and purchased!



johan asked: Dearest Kayla Please enlighten me. Sometimes you see the female actor in a porn movie performing oral sex on the male actor without a condom and then afterwards they have sex using a condom. Is this because one of the actors have no current AIM paperwork or is it to promote safe sex?

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Not at all, it is because the risk of transmitting STD's is less via oral sex than via vaginal sex. Some companies have a "Condom Only" policy when it comes to actual vaginal or anal penetration. Curious for more info? Here's a starting point!

Filming without current test paperwork is a violation of the rules BIG TIME! Any company that would ask a performer to film any type of hardcore with someone whose test is not current is not a company you want to be working for! A reputable company will not put its performers at risk.



Darren asked: Do you like guys who cum slow and oozing or guys who cum fast and squirting?

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Hi Darren! I guess it really just depends on WHERE they are unloading their man-gravy! If I am taking the blast on my tits, my ass or (one of my favorite under-used places) the soles of my feet; I prefer a slower oozing of spunk. If I am planning on swallowing that yummy protein shake, or if I am just going to wear it on my face; I prefer a faster, more intense blast. These are, of course, just my personal preferences and they vary from person to person!



Matal asked: Hi Kayla. I love this site. I hav a question. I am a 21 years old boy & want to enter porn industry as an actor. I want to do video with milf women. cause i like them very much. to be honest, i want to do with u if i get a chance...;) Now the question, what should I do now, suggest me something.

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Matal, try reading up here: Becoming a Pornstar first...if the MILF's are the ones you are after, just make sure you look young! The contrast between the ages is the point in that genre! They will want the youngest looking (yet legal!) male talent they can find! Good luck!



Andrew Wickliffe asked: Couldn't find anywhere else to ask... do you do custom videos?

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Hi Andrew! Thanks for taking the time to track me down! I do, depending on the script/video idea, do custom videos. I will email you from my phone so you'll have a a streamlined path to reach me!



jarred asked: would you ever make a video with lisa sparx cause you two are my favorite pornstars

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I would LOVE to! I adore Lisa. I have not seen her since January...if my memory serves me correctly, she owes me a drink! Or two...*giggle*



Mario asked: Hi Kayla, I have watched documentaries on porn a few times on HBO and shows like Dateline or MSNBC. I'm black and numerous times have I heard that the industry is very racist, especially with white women who refuse to work with black men. I was wondering if you know any women who are racist and why they say they refuse to work with some of the black performers?

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Hi Mario...still working on your "underground" question...I have a few gf's in Vegas researching (yeah, that's what we'll call it) for me!

As for the racial tension you are asking about...I, personally, do not get angry at white women who will not work with black men. More cock for me! Seriously, though...there have been some women who have tried to "explain" why they do not shoot interracial who have pissed me the FUCK off. First off, I do not ask people why they shoot what they do or why they don't shoot what they don't. Some reasoning I completely get; some sound like justification of a guilty conscience. Some porn stars (Rucca Page, Kayla Quinn *ahem* and others), limit what they shoot at first and gradually add more types of scenes to their body of work. For example, when I first started I did boy/girl vag and girl/girl. Later I added anal, then interracial and eventually double-penetration. By slowly offering more types of scenes, your shoot-ability remains desirable.

I have had girls tell me they refuse interracial because they feature dance in the south and are afraid it would affect their tips/income there. I have had girls tell me that they are not racist but their husband or boyfriend is, so they do not shoot interracial sex scenes. Some claim they are afraid once they shoot IR, they won't get booked for anything else. (Whatever! I have shoot IR and I shoot "white on white" scenes. Don't even TRY to tell me that bigger companies won't book you after shooting a lot of IR! Vivid booked me multiple times, as did Hustler and Wicked.) I have even had some brazen enough to approach me and chastise *me* for shooting so much interracial!

I am not sure I would go on record stating that industry-wide there is a resentment towards female talent who will not shoot IR. There are as many industry opinions as there are industry people. Also, this is a very transient industry. For every one girl who turns down a scene, there are 20 who will take...half of those for below rate! I will say that prejudice irritates the FUCK out of me and I have no tolerance for it nor room for it in my social circles. If you are just not sexually attracted to men of color, say so. Don't blame it on the rednecks in the titty bars, don't blame it on your significant other, don't pretend to be trying to convince me when you are merely trying to convince yourself. I shoot IR because I love to fuck. I love fucking women, I love fucking men. I love white cock, black cock, yellow cock...if I found a plaid one, I would probably want to try that out, too! There are men and women of all color that I find sexually appealing...just as there are men and women of all color that I find sexually unappealing. As an industry, there are FEW things I have ever seen a united stance on...



jarred asked: hey im about 8 and a half inches is that big enough?

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Yup! Far above average! Curious to see how you measure up? Click here



Chuck asked: If I were fucking a porn star, I would blast my load so fast!

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Ok, this is not really a question, but it made me laugh (like literally LOL), so I just have to address it!

First off, that has happened to me (and others, I can guarantee) on set before...we jokingly refer to that as a "Three Pump Chump". A few years ago, there was one director in particular who tended to book me with "unknown" male talent; by unknown, I mean it was his first or second scene. I finally asked him why he kept doing that to me (it makes for a much longer day AND a higher chance of a tanker of a scene for me) and he finally said, "Kayla, you can lead the scene without it being obvious on film." Great. "Punishment" for a job well done! *giggle*

As a result, I have actually looked in to ways to help a guy stall the inevitable. First off...try shaking one out a bit before the actual sexing. Takes you longer to cum the second time around! Another trick? If you feel yourself bubbling over too quickly, think of something ultra non-sexy. An ex-boyfriend of mine told me his standard delay thought was Margaret Thatcher in a thong bikini. Remember the PC muscle I mentioned when discussing kegels? Well, for you guys, your PC muscle is located between your anus and scrotum, it's the one you contract when you try to stop peeing suddenly. Exercise that muscle a little bit every day or two. How? Clench it then release it in ten-second periods. Do that three times, then take a break. Then do this clench-and-release technique for five seconds. Perform ten sets of this. Now, try tightening the muscle for 30 seconds and relaxing for 30 seconds. Do three sets of that. This is an exercise so easy to do, you don't even have to join a gym! You can do it anytime, anywhere, no one will know you are doing it but you. Now, when you are faced with becoming a Three Pump Chump, keeping your cock in whichever hole it is in, stop pumping away...clench and release your PC muscle, you should be good to go again! Ok, you might have to clench and release a few times. On the bright side, it sort of makes your hard cock jump a little and it feels great inside a chick (at least, this chick) when you guys do it so we don't generally mind the 3 second pause in the banging!

Oh! Before you hang your head(s) in shame: biologically speaking, men generally take (barring any self-control/effort on their part) 2-3 minutes from time of penetration to orgasm. Women? 12-14 minutes. Who says God doesn't have a sense of humor?

Hope this helps!



Mario asked: Hi Kayla, Mario again. I would like to see you do a threesome with Sara Jay and a guy. Have you ever worked with Sara Jay before? I think you and her would make for a good scene.

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Heya sweet pea! Sara Jay is one smoking hot MILF I have not had the pleasure of working with...YET!



Mario asked: Hello again Kayla. I was wondering if a guy you have worked with was so good, that you decided to hook up with him every now and again off-camera? Basically has there ever been a guy who even made you say, "DAYUM!"

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While I have worked with some really talented guys (and gals), I have to admit, I have not brought a guy home and done him off-camera! I have brought home a few gals here and there, especially over the past two years. Sometimes I run my video camera and post the ensuing debauchery, sometimes I do not. Since my home is wired with 24/7 cameras, what happens is seen as it unfolds.

Now, when it comes to scenes, I do have my "ringers"...tried and trusted talent (for each niche I am typically cast for) that I either request or call in should the person I am booked with have a problem...performing. Chemistry on a shoot is golden and cannot be faked! I have some performers that make me moist just anticipating working with again!



Aaron asked: Hi Kayla! I love the websites! I have a three-part question... Have you ever had sex with an asian man? Have you worked with one as a male talent in one of your scenes? Also, why do you think there is such a lack of asian males in the business?

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Aaron...three parts, three answers! *giggle*

No, actually, I have never had sex with an Asian man! I have filmed lesbian scenes with Asian females (hence the term lesbian...I can be redundant and repetitive at times...). I have shot some fetish work with an Asian male performer...but it was not actually sucking or fucking. As for the lack of male Asian performers in the biz...I am not sure why that is. Maybe the stereotype about smaller genitalia? Maybe the cultural differences in pornography and what is sexually stimulating? I do not know. But it is a shame! I find Asians to be exotic and gorgeous!



Brad asked: Can I have sex with you ?

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Are you male talent, Brad? That is what it takes for me to fuck a stranger!



Mario asked: Hi Kayla. I know that a lot of women have guys that they may not like to work with as much and some even have guys that they will never work with again. I was wondering if you have any guys that you flat-out refuse to work with again and if you don't mind saying, what happened that made you decide never again?

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Hello Mario, thanks for writing in...

When it comes to working with other talent, be it male or female, there have been a few I have "blacklisted" or have made it to my "will not work with" list. While I won't name names, I will tell you what it takes to get on that list of mine.

    My Ban-able Offenses:
  • Got a penis? Got a hatred for women? Buh-bye!
  • Knew you had a scene today but stayed out partying last night? Hung over and unable to perform? You won't with me ever again! This may be porn, but you do have the responsibility to be here and functional!
  • Need to "stroke to pop"? That's fine with me! I just want your hot load of yummy spunk! Fair warning: if you are known to habitually take over 10-15 minutes to finish yourself off at the end of every scene...you're on thin ice with me...known for taking longer and (unless you're an INCREDIBLE fuck), you'll probably only keep me on my knees that long the one time!
  • Unhygienic? As far as I am concerned, you're unbookable!
  • An honorable mention here, as it has only happened to me once...stalk me then beg to get booked with me? Yeah, right. Like I will take that scene!

There you go, Mario, these are things that my pissy self just cannot deal with! *giggle*



Nick asked: Hey Kayla, It's Nick, the guy that hung out with you at the Adultcon, Not your ex lol. You wrote "Property of Kayla Quinn" on the back of my shirt. I asked you how I would get into the business and you told me to send you an email. I'm shipping off for the Navy Boot Camp in the next 2 months, but then I'm coming back here. I was wondering if the was away that I could maybe do something before then, maybe like a scene or something, preferably with you but if not that's cool. Is there a way or do I have to wait until after boot camp, or am I shit out of luck?

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Nick, I remember you darling! First of all, good luck at boot camp! Basic training (the USAF version of boot camp) was a BLAST for me, I thoroughly enjoyed the experience! The basic information on breaking in to this business can be found HERE. The exact article you are looking for is about halfway down the page. As for shooting before then, you might want to hurry! LOL Contact Lisa Ann, tell her I sent you, explain the situation (how/where we met, you're leaving in two months, etc). She may be able to help you out. She tends to specialize in MILF talent and younger guys that go with that genre. She is a total sweetie, we get along famously so using my name won't hurt you a bit! ;) As for shooting a scene with me, I cannot promise anything but I CAN tell you that I am taking the month of May off from shooting to catch up on a few other projects that I have managed to let fall behind. But, there is always June! ;) Good luck, let me know how it goes with Lisa Ann!



Jim asked: hi, I'm a novelist. One of my characters is a 25 yr old woman getting into the porn business. My questions are: how much would a beginning model make for various types of scenes? How often could a beginning model expect to work? Everyday? A few times a week? As much as she wanted to? Thanks for any info you might provide. Jim

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Hi Jim! First of all, good luck on the novel! You've asked some very good questions, most of which have several factors that come in to play. Let's roll up our sleeves and get started, shall we?

New models have a few things going for them: they are fresh faces, they have a great attitude for the industry and they are eager take direction on set instead of insisting on things going their way. The downsides to being brand new: larger budget productions can be hesitant to take a chance on a large-paying scene on an unknown (I am not saying it doesn't happen, just that they can be hesitant), the production staff realizes there will be a learning curve and because of that the shoot day can be a bit longer, sometimes new talent cannot complete a scene because she thinks she is in over her head. As for the amount of work a newbie can expect...again, key factors come in to play. Is she trying to book herself or does she have an agency pushing her? If talent is new to the area I recommend one of two options: 1). Sign on with an agency. Before jumping to the first agency you come across, check out their current models. Certain agencies specialize in certain genre's. Make sure you are a good fit with their current scheme. 2). If the idea of an agency doesn't seem to float your boat, get a copy of AVN magazine. While browsing through it, look at ads for dvds that fit your genre. For example, let's say (yes, even at 25) MILF is the genre you'd like to shoot...you see a box cover for a MILF movie produced by BLAHBLAH Inc. At the bottom of that advertisement, there will be an email address for sales. Email a BRIEF email to them with something along the lines of, "Hello, my name is Fresh Talent and I have not shot for your company yet. I feel I would be perfect for MILF TITLE WHATEVER, and would like to know if you would be so kind as to tell me whom I should contact regarding a go/see? Thank you for your help, I look forward to working for you." Editors note: A go/see is when you go to a production company, strip down to heels and a smile, they snap a few pics of you then you fill out a questionnaire about the types of scenes you shoot and the rates you expect for each type. There is no set number of scenes a newbie should expect to get booked for...various trends run throughout the business. For a while there was a lot of barely legal, then it was all natural boobs, busty boobs took root for a while, as did squirting and of course MILF scenes. It really depends on what criteria she is fitting and what is popular at the moment. Various times of the year are busier for shooting than other times, too. I am afraid this biz is cyclic! Now, for your pay per scene question...Personally, I have my set rates for various types of scenes but these are not carved in stone. I use them more as guidelines. Some companies just have bigger budgets than others. *shrug* I have a few companies that have always made sure I had work (even when I had full-blown cancer) so, out of respect for them, if they cannot pay my full rate I don't sweat it! There are other companies that I am chummy with the owners of so I am not too much of a stickler there, either. Some courtesies they extend in exchange for that? I get to choose the talent I work with, my call time and even get to choose my make up artist a lot of the time. There is not industry standard on pay. We are not a tightly governed industry on that level. There are also different levels of talent. While ONE girl may be offered $1000 for a vag scene, the same company might offer another girl $800 (I have heard even lower figures). Why? One girl might be prettier than the other or might just be a stronger performer. While there is no set pay scale, if you need basic ideas, pop in to an agents office and ask them what their spectrum of scene rates for their clients look like. (Note: Unless you are looking to book a specific girl, do not ask about a specific girl...just ask in general). Oh! ONE last thing...as for the "as often as she wanted to" part...showing up on time, prepared and without bringing real life drama on to the set will increase her odds of getting booked multiple times by the same company! If I left anything out, please do not hesitate to write again! :)



Shari asked: I was reading your answer to joes question about positions and i was intrested about the pile drive. I looked at the link that you add but that one wasn't on there. I have never heard of it before and now im very intrested learning more about it. Thank you Kayla! Your my favorite porn star!

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A standard "Pile Driver" position is basically when the receiver of the cock lies on their shoulders (usually on the floor, since beds and other furniture can have too much give, making this position too unstable), and the giver of the cock stands above them and inserts, fucking away! Here's a look at how it goes!



Troy Jamm asked: Dear Kayla, I know that female adult entertainers inevitably are asked the question; "how do I get in the business?" by guys. But I can say I have an ability to shoot, like, really far!!! I did a 3way with two working girls last weekend, and they remarked on how they had not seen any guy ejaculate with so much distance.(although I am not so naive to accept their praise of my performance on face value -ha!) Do I really have an advantage here? - or is what I read about the adult biz true? Is it mainly about cumming on cue as opposed to quality of jizz-load? Some porn-dude cumshots are lame in my book, but hey, I realize it can be more difficult to do on set than it looks! Oh yeah, I live in Australia, so we have virtually no porn biz here, only escorts and strip clubs. Your loving servant, Troy

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Troy, there are several factors in a desirable pop shot. Not only in the amount of spunk crucial, so is the texture, the color...well, the over-all appearance! Being able to "cum on command" helps out, but you can always stroke to pop (it happens quite frequently on set). As for distance...as long as it goes far enough to hit the target (whether it be the other performers face, ass or tits), you're good to go!



Wayne asked: I have seen you and enoyed you in your bisexual male films, as well as all your others. I was wondering being in the industry what is your take on the comming up of bisexual and also the popularity of transsexual films. Is it the internet allowing men to explore their curiosities ? And is the presence of women or the appearence of women make it easy for men to enjoy man on man action, or transexual porn ? Feel free to edit my question.

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The bisexual movies I have appeared in have always been "condom-only", meaning all males wore a condom for all penetration. While it has always been a niche, it has gained popularity due to it's increased acceptance. Do I think the internet played a part in that? Yes, I do. PPV (Pay-Per-View) Theaters, such as this one, take out the potential embarrassment of physically walking in to an adult shop and picking out the dvd desired. Once there is no fear of stigma, there is no reason to rob oneself of a desire.

As for the trans-sexual films, I think the appeal is multi-fold. First, there is the taboo appeal that calls to the darker desires inherent in most people. Second, some of those trannies are more beautiful than us natural gals! Also, it is novel. I would not doubt that it is a good transition from straight porn to gay porn, either. As you pointed out, it does (on the surface, at least) appear to be a man and a woman...until, well, they both get naked and you see more than one cock on the screen!



Ivan asked: I have always had this thing for facials but i've never dared to do it because im scared the girl im with at the time will be disgusted or flat out turned off and not want to have sex with me again. What is your opinion? Do you like it? What about swallowing cum? Do women like it or is it just for the money? Thanks.

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Ahhh...facials! You say you've never dared tried it, have you ever asked your partner if they enjoy it? As with most things sexual, I am not a big fan of springing things on a partner without knowing where they stand. Some surprises are better received than others!

As for my opinion: all loads are not created equal! I am allergic to tobacco, so a blast from a smoker itches and sometimes even burns my skin. A blast of gooey cum from a non-smoker, not a problem...from a smoker, not a thrill! The same can be said about swallowing semen. Diet greatly affects bodily fluids, (more information, including recipes for yummier spunk, can be found HERE) so a healthier diet on your part can increase the odds of taking a facial or swallowing on your partners part!

Do some women do it just for the money? Some women do, I am sure, and others thoroughly enjoy it...but that can be said for just about anything, can't it?



gee asked: how do u preform a cream pie

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The term "cream pie" refers to an internal pop. Put simply, allowing the ejaculate to be deposited inside the vagina. Since "pie" is slang for pussy and the gooey goodness resembles cream...



Curious fan asked: Hi,me again. Sorry if this will seem long, just thought I'd knock out 3 questions with one post. O.K. first off, love all of your work, and i have noticed that in some of your work, your boobs get played with quite aggressively, which i love, being a boobman and such. Do you really enjoy it that much if so explain if possible or is it just part of a scene? Do you enjoy a good titfuck? And have you ever had a guy in scene come too early and wait for him to get ready again? thanks

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Ahhh! I had wondered how long it would be before boob questions of this nature hit me! Before I answer, though, I am very glad you enjoy my films!

On to the answers! Normally, when there is an extensive amount of attention played to my breasts in a scene, the film being shot is one geared to the busty genre. As with other elements of a scene, I can always speak up when something is too intense/hardcore for me to handle. If you see me being man-handled on film, then that is the mood I was in the day we shot! There are times when I feel delicate, but those times are few and far between! I am fine with having my boobs slapped and such, as long as my nipples don't feel like they are being shredded. I have actually left a set with bruises before, it happens...consider it an occupational hazard! As for the tit-fucking...I honestly do not have a preference for or against it. I take that on a "per cock" basis. If the cock is long enough and not too fat, it feels good. It can be difficult to keep my tits squeezed tight enough (especially when you take the lube factor into consideration), if the dick is too girthy. If the cock is too short, instead of a pleasant fucking sensation it often feels like my jiggly's are being stabbed.

Last but not least: Has anyone ever cum too soon in a scene? Yup! It has happened lots of times! Sometimes there is enough notice and we can film the scene out of sequence (put the pop where it belongs, so to speak), other times we wait for the guy to rejuvenate and start where we left off. If it is not the last scene of the day, I often volunteer to let the next scene start filming. Not only does that minimize "down time" on the set, it takes some of the pressure off the male talent. The most difficult time to recover from an early pop is when there is a time-constraint put in place. I would much rather have a fun, relaxed shoot than a tense, rushed one!

Thank you for the great questions! Keep them coming!



Joe asked: me and my girlfriends sexs life is great, the only thing she will never do is give me a BJ, am fine with that, we basically have tryed must moves and i ask her does she want ne fing different and she says surprise me, i was just asking is der any moves that r ur favourite and would u have ne new moves that most people wouldnt usually do?

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Hi Joe...have you tried just asking her why she is so hesitant to suck cock? It may be as simple as a past bad experience! I realize that you say you are fine without the oral gratification, so I will move on to the actual questions!

I did find a fairly comprehensive list (along with photos) of sexual positions here. As far as my favorite positions, I must admit to being a creature of habit when it comes to non-film sex! I tend to enjoy missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy and a bit of pile-driver when at home. Out of that list, the two I would assume to be least likely used by non-film folk are reverse cowgirl and pile-driver. Pile-driver can be a bit tricky; it requires not only the proper setting but for both parties to be paying apt attention to prevent injury!



Michael asked: I hope this is not too invasive. Hello Kayla, I was wondering if you have ever been in a relationship with a guy and found that the sex at work was better than with your beau at home, and if so did you feel guilty? Or do you leave certain special things behind at home that you don't bring to the set (e.g. certain emotions)?

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Hi Michael! Nope, not too invasive at all!

Just like everyone else's relationships on the planet, mine go through good times and bad. Sometimes things at home are splendiferous, sometimes not so much! While I love getting banged hard on set, there is a certain emotional intimacy within my relationships that tends to keep me tightly tethered. I am not going to claim that "real life sex" is always the best, but it is the best consistently! I can always count on my boyfriend du jour to know exactly what it takes to float my boat AND I do not have to worry about whether or not it looks good! *giggle*

When it comes to sex, I know no guilt, babe!



Sasha asked: Hi Kayla! You are one of my favourite pornstars. You and Kala Prettyman. Being a fan of two of you, I would like to see two of you in G/G B/GG action! Is there any chance that will happen? Cheers, Sasha

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Sasha-

Kala Prettyman is actually on my "todo" list, so to speak! I met her on the set of Cousin Stevie's Pussy Party and I adored her! I will mention her to my agent again, though! Let me see what I can do to make that happen...I will also give Kala a call tomorrow morning while I am stuck in hair & make up!



Mario asked: Hi Kayla. You are without a doubt one of my favorite stars today. But I was wondering about how much the average guy can make per scene. I always hear how women make so much more than guys do for the same scene. I was just wondering if most of the males in the biz can make a living off of doing JUST porn, or are there some guys out there who actually have to do something extra on the side if they don't make that much?

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Hi Mario! While it is true that most female actors out-earn their male counterparts per scene, there are some guys out there raking in the same scene rate and higher! Typically, for a standard boy/girl vag scene, new male talent can anticipate approximately $300 per scene to start. Some companies will offer better, some will try to get the scene done as inexpensively as possible. Once the performer has "proven himself", he can book at a higher rate. (Different types of scenes, just like for us gals, offer different rates. A blow job scene can start as low as $100 for the one with the cock.)

I have often said the guys get the short end of the stick (no pun intended) on the rates game...but, then again, career longevity for guys versus gals....



Orlando asked: I noticed that you have done several interacial scenes. What is it about black cock that you enjoy so much? Secondly do you prefer a uncut cock or a cut one?

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To be honest, the color of the cock means little to me. It has little bearing on whether or not I enjoy it. I am all about the technique, the guy and the attitude! There are two genres of inter-racial scenes. The first is the somewhat degradation-based niche (the white woman is belittled, referred to as a whore, cunt, etc), the second is based on black men loving curvy women. That is the type of scene I love to shoot! I have curves. Period. I want to work with a man who appreciates them, admires them...not one who tolerates them! I am not sure if it is merely a cultural thing or what, but men of color tend to like thick butts and big tits separated by a small waist. It is just a perfect type of scene for me to book based on my body type.

As for the cut or uncut debate: personally, I prefer cut. Even while flacid, a cut cock looks more appealing to me. That doesn't mean I do not like an uncut penis! An uncircumcised cock is better than no cock at all! I have noticed, though, that if I have an anal scene booked with someone who isn't cut and they are well-endowed, the foreskin acts as almost a buffer for my anus. Friction from the cock sliding in and out is minimized making it easier to handle a girthy dick.



markky asked: Hi Kayla! What I really like about you is your natural beauty. You dont look like a pornstar to me and I really admire your long and shapely legs plus your eyes. So for my first question, do you feel awkward working with much younger actors? Or do you feel excited? Do you personally like cum shots or swallowing it?

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Thank you Marrky! I am delighted to hear that I don't look like a cookie-cutter stereotype! To be honest, I have actually never liked my legs. LOL I have always felt lucky that, out of my entire nuclear family, I am the only one with blue eyes.

As far as working with younger actors, I usually really enjoy it. I tend to be more excited about the younger male performers and less so about working with younger females. Why, you ask? I tend to feel desirable when a younger guy is fucking me but like Chester-the-Molester when working with younger gals...especially if the gal is relatively new to the industry! There is something slightly uncomfortable for me when I get booked for a girl/girl scene with a chick who is basically "Gay for Pay" (not actually in to girls. I have been known to jokingly say (when referring to female talent), "I refuse to fuck a girl younger than things I have aborted!"

There *have* been a few way younger females that stand out in my memory for both good reasons and bad. Coincidentally, two of my all time faves have similar names: Kat and Kitty. I first worked with Kat in 2006 in Older Women and Younger Women #7. Jim Powers was in awe at the end of our scene excitedly saying to me, "Damned Kayla! You were totally in to that! You shot that straight through! We shot longer than we had planned, it was great!" Kitty, on the other hand, I just worked with last week. She was a total cutie and way hot! Again, we shot pretty much straight thru and (even tho it was a softer/no penetration shoot) I had a blast! I'll work with her again!

Last but not least...the cum question! IF the guy doesn't smoke, I prefer to swallow it rather than waste it. Most of the time, however, that decision is made by the production company/director and not by me. Some scenes are set up to be a "swallow", some to be cum facials, still others to have the pop on the tits or the ass...just depends on the film & its niche/genre. It has been my experience that men aim their load about as well as they aim their pissing in the toilet...to put it bluntly, they have little control over what lands where! I have had the famed 30 minute pink eye from spunk in there more than once! Other times, I have had to go diving to catch the creamy goodness with my face. LOL Oh well, all's well that lands well! ;)

Thanks for reading and for the awesome question!



Aleksey asked: Hey Kayla! I see you're a really friendly person and it's a big pleasure to read your answers and questions people usually inquire. I am pretty sure you won't tell any real or stage names, but..do you have any rivals in porn industry? i mean, are there any guys and girls around or somewhere near, who may not like you at all and you're aware of it?

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Hi Aleksey! I tend to not get too involved with any drama that pops up on set or at events. Now, I am not going to say I have not opened my mouth and expressed an opinion when I did not need to say anything! I am only human! *giggle* While I adore most of the people I work with (they *do* make up my social circle, after all), I cannot really think of anyone I really dislike. If I don't feel a kinship with someone, I just don't hang out with them. *shrug* I am certain there are people who don't think I am the grooviest thing since sliced bread...I mean, I am loud, opinionated and tend to be bossy! (Hey, I know my faults!) I have to say, though, I have been really lucky...the people that dislike me have been professional enough NOT to tell me! w00t!



Freddy asked: I have fantasies about fucking some of my favorite porno chicks. Any tips?

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Hi Freddy, your best bet is to become male talent and hope to get booked in a scene with your fave hottie. If that doesn't seem realistic to you, check out the various "Ranches". Maybe you'll get lucky and the lust of your life will be appearing there or scheduled to be in the near future. Some adult performers do "privates" some do not. A "private" is another way of saying they escort. You could gently inquire if this is an option. Do yourself a favor though, if you're told she does not escort, drop it then and there. Don't try upping the ante by offering more money. Adult film actor or not, a "No" is a NO! Good luck!



Helena asked: Hi Kayla, I read in one of your bio's that you were born in 1970. I never would have guessed you to be in your late 30's! What do you have planned for yourself after porn?

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Thanks for the compliment, Helena! Once in a while, it'll cross my mind that my (s)mother had three kids by the time she was my age and I almost respect her for that! I still behave like a kid most of the time!

I spent four years serving my country in the USAF, finished up my degree, then started in adult films. I have been accepted in to one culinary school and am waiting for more information (and word back) from another. Depending on which meets my needs and desires best, I will either be going to school in Pasadena or in N. Hollywood late this year. I have, of course, other projects that are not adult-industry oriented that I am working on as well. I must admit, being able to set my own hours, choose who I work with and for and being paid so generously has me somewhat spoiled!



Aleksey asked: Kayla, do you remember any funny moments, episodes, which happened while you were making shootings? and if yes, which one is the most hilarious?

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Oh my! There have been so many funny mis-haps on set! You'd be amazed by the amusing (and sometimes poignant) things you over-hear.

    Some of my favorites:
  • Me: You're really cute! (to a female I met on set)...her: At my age, it's sexy, not cute...Me: I'm prolly twice your age...her: I'm 18, how old are you?...Me: I'm 36...her: Yeah, you're almost twice my age...
  • Having a pussy is like having a constantly open wound...it takes nothing to infect it and forever for it to heal once damaged...
  • Are you in my ass or in my pussy? I can't tell...

As far as things that have happened, I have seen fights, equipment failures (both people 'equipment' and actual equipment), the power has gone out mid-shoot, it has started raining during outdoor shoots...I fell out of a tree once, I think that was the funniest for me. There I was, trying to be seductive and erotic only to end up landing on my bum!



Aleksey asked: Hi Kayla! I have a question for you. There are several scenes where you use strap-on on guys, how do you like this kind of action, what can u say about it?

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I must admit, I get immense pleasure out of some of the strap-on scenes that I do! I prefer to utilize a strap-on on a guy rather than a gal. There is just something about being in that position of power...that role-reversal...that I find intoxicating! The vulnerability and trust that go hand-in-hand in those types of scenes goes to my head! *giggle*

There is, however, an often over-looked danger when shooting any scene that involves phallis. Since the strap-on or sex toy is not flesh and blood and lack nerve endings...unless the person in control knows what they are doing, the receiver can be hurt before the giver realizes it. I temper everything I do with that knowledge at all times. While I love a high energy scene and enjoy giving it as hard as I have gotten it, I do not ever want to injure the talent I am working with (well, at least not more so than they would like to be).



Dirk asked: Hi Kayla, i would like to know what kind of birth control you use during your work and/pr private sex life? BTW: I like your work much. You are very sexy. Please excuse my bad grammar, i didn't practice my English for a long time. Greetings, Dirk

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Hi Dirk! I actually use vaginal contraceptive film. It isn't very tasty (occupational hazard I am afraid...once you start to fuck then go back to sucking, you get a bitingly harsh flavor of chemical goodness), but very effective! With my on-going weight battle, the constant barrage of chemicals from birth control pills is not an appealing option!



curious fan asked: Hey, thanx for answering my last question. ;) This time i have an odd question about a male performer you have performed with. o.k.... I think his name is Johnny Thrust, or something, anyways, is his package really as small in real life like it looks on film, because im not shy to say i above average, but not quite up there w/most adult men stars, but his looks like it makes me look really big. my lady friend thinks that too, and thinks his style is hopefully good because it doesnt look too impressive. is he someone you like to or preffer to work with, or do you just do it for your job? just curious, i mean no hard feelings too. thanx, happy new year!!!!

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Thanks for writing again! Actually, Johnny Thrust is a lotof fun to work with and one of my faves! His package is perfectly proportional to the rest of his body; not small at all. My opinion is simple: Size means little, skill means everything! Working with Johnny guarantees me a fun, energetic shoot.



John asked:

Hi,

What would you say are the biggest misconceptions that people have about you in particular and porn stars in general?

Love John


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Hi John,

There are so many misconceptions, I am not sure where to begin or which one to label the 'biggest'! I think it is a toss-up between: "All porn people are horny 24/7" and "All the scenarios seen in the beginning of porn films are fair representations of the lives of all porn folk."

I have yet to meet anyone in the industry who has paid for a pizza by having unprotected sex with the delivery boy. Were that really the case, there'd be a waiting list to deliver pizza in Porn Valley!



silverspoon3467 asked: I am interested in visiting a brothel. Where are they legal and is it true that prostitutes really do anything you want?

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At this time, Nevada is the only state in the US with legalized prostitution. There are, however, limitations so before you decide to load up your car with condoms and lube; be prepared for the reality of things!

Prostitution is only legal when performed in a recognized brothel. For an up-to-date list, Click Here. You will notice that none of the brothels are in major cities (Reno, Las Vegas, etc.), some are close by, others are a bit of a drive. On the websites for the individual cat houses, you can find photos of the gals working along with their schedules. (I must admit, I was surprised at how many of the girls appearing at various ranches were porn stars I have met and/or worked with).

The range of activities available vary from one sexy woman to the next. Keep in mind, these are real women...not fuck puppets. Please do not treat them as such! If you have specific desires, ask who best to fulfill your needs. Instead of focusing on one particular hottie and try to get her to conform to your will, find out who will accommodate your dream session and go with her. Also, do not ask for anything you *know* is illegal (beastiality, for example), you will not only be embarrassed, but will most likely be banned permanently from that brothel but (should the brothel choose to share their repulsion with other brothel owners) all brothels in that area.

I suggest you brush up on the basics of meeting/greeting a sex worker by reading this entry from July, 2007. Doesn't hurt to be smooth! ;)



Edward asked: Hi Kayla, I saw/heard you on an internet radio show and you used some abbreviations that I am not sure I know the meanings of... b/g/a or something like that. Ummm... huh?

- HAHAHAHA! I am sorry! I sometimes forget that not everyone knows industry lingo, so to speak. Let me give you a few basics:
  • b/g = boy/girl, as is a typical boy/girl vaginal scene
  • b/g/a = boy/girl/anal
  • g/g = girl/girl
  • g/g/a = girl/girl/anal, a girl/girl scene with anal play possibly even toy insertion
  • b/b/g = boy/boy/girl
  • b/g/g = boy/girl/girl
  • atm = ass to mouth
  • ogatmm = other girls ass to my mouth
  • dp = double penetration
  • bts = behind the scenes, interviews, bonus footage, etc.

These can come in REAL handy when I am out in public with other adult performers and we want to 'talk shop'.



Tom asked: Is there a website that lists movies or other websites where celebs have nude scenes? There are some stars I'd love to see in the buff!

- There IS! Click HERE to visit Mr.Skin, the best resource for finding nude scenes, photos and more of celebs! :) (I used Madonna as an example...)


Crystal asked: Hi Kayla I have been a fan for along time. I am a stripper at a local club in a major mid-west city, I would like to go from stripping to doing movies and having my own website. What advice do you have for me and how can I go about doing this? I don't know a lot about computers, and I have no idea who to trust about getting into movies. At the club there is always sleazy men asking me to be in movies, but I don't think they are on the up and up! Thanks

- Hi Crystal! When it comes to having your own website, especially when you are not too computer savvy, I would recommend contacting a company with an affiliate program that specializes in solo-girl website. (Possibly Girlie Bank or PornKings, just to mention a few...) Running and maintaining a website is a *lot* of work, if you lack the basic skills needed, it will go from being a project you love to a beast of burden quickly! As for getting in to the film side of the adult entertainment industry, I strongly suggest signing on with an agency, especially if you are not in the Los Angeles/Porn Valley area. The Floating World has a TON of resources listed for both the newbie and the seasoned performer. If you feel you would like to try on your own, instead of through an agency, take a peek at Sexy Jobs. Of course, the first stop is always AIM for the required tests. A word of caution: Make SURE you know you are going to a legitimate shoot, just because you found a listing on CraigsList, doesn't mean it is a real deal situation! If you blindly stumble in to this industry, there are those who will take advantage of your naivete' and WAY underpay you!


Jay asked: I always wondered cause they say big cocks hit the cervix and in porn it seems like the chicks are always looking for the biggest possible cock. so is that their used to the size or what cause it doesn't seem like their hurting cause i heard its really painful for a women to get her cervix hit?

- Oh, it DOES! Interestingly enough, there *is* a difference on the arrangement of the girlie guts based on body type. The slender, almost boyish, straight up and down body type (characterized by slender hips, tiny booty and few curves) can usually accommodate those monster cocks. Why? Their cervix is typically 2-4 inches HIGHER than those of us curvier chicks. It is an evolution thing... the curvy body type is "more desirable" genetically, so the cervix is lower to increase the chance of pregnancy. Gee... thanks a LOT! I am a curvy non-breeder who happens to be taller than the typical porn starlet. In order to keep the scene from looking out of proportion, I get booked with some REALLY big cocks... my low-hanging cervix has taken a beating once or twice on set!


Thiedral Spears asked: How do I become a pornstar?

- I hope you do not mind, I took your personal information out of your question before answering it, Mr. Spears! Wanna keep you safe! :) The "difficult" part of being in porn films is not actually the desire to do it, it is the actual work that is involved (not to mention being comfortable enough to fuck like MAD both with and in front of strangers). This really IS a job, not a hobby and not just a big party! Here are a few sites I found useful when I first started looking in to becoming an adult performer: AIM-med... This is your first stop... get tested! You cannot work without current AIM paperwork. Your test is valid for 30 days after date of collection. The Floating World... I have linked directly to the "Biz" page. The Floating World not only has several resources here for you, but the entire site is crammed with industry information, events, calendar, etc... Great for the average Joe as well as for the performer! Sexy Jobs... If you are interested in landing your own bookings, Sexy Jobs is just one of several sites out there that fills the role of adult classifieds for work.


Kendra asked: I have seen a video that you are in when a guy has his balls tied up... whats the purpose of it? and what can you do it with?

- HAHAHAHA! That is actually a fairly common practice in certain genres. In the case of tease and denial scenes, it is extra stimulation that adds to the anticipation of the actual orgasm. In ruined orgasm films, it is to create an uncomfortable pressure in the testes. Basically, the binding makes it more difficult for blood to retreat from the engorged penis and back in to the body. The result? A longer lasting erection. In some of the post-ejaculation photos on the back of dvds, you will see the female talent holding the freshly drained cock at the base squeezed between two fingers in a scissor-like grip...she is keeping the cock rigid by not allowing the blood to leave member. It is a little trick we use on set since between the "pop shot" and the still photos of the aftermath, several minutes may go by and the guy can start to ...um, return to normal. When binding scrot's, make SURE you know what you are doing! Do NOT bind to the point that things turn purple or blue...you are literally killing your guys "buddies". Also, if he says untie, UNTIE! To be honest, this is one of those things I discourage too much experimentation with and suggest you leave it to a pro...or find one who will teach you the basics! You can ruin your man this way. When I have utilized this practice, I have used things that were not only handy at the time, but not too coarse or strong...a hair scrunchy (NOT an elastic/rubber band) or my panties. I also never bind tighter than I have to...you'd be amazed at gentle a tie is effective! Think of it along the same lines as putting a collar on a dog, you want to control, not choke to death!


Claudia asked: What do u do in a scene with a girl if her pussy smells really bad what do u do? Do u tell her or suck it up and complete the scene?

- Oh my! There are *some* things in life that I can suck up... a smelly cootie, I cannot do! A bad aroma could be as simple as poor diet or as gross as: infection, foreign body inside, cum from the last fuck, among other things! I make sure my hygiene is above reproach, that is common courtesy. The best thing to do is halt production, pull the girl aside and ask her if maybe she has a sponge that has been forgotten (sponges are commonly used so we gals can work through Aunt Flo's visit Read More Here), or ask her to douche. Should the douche fail to correct the issue, I would call in the director and the other gal and explain the problem. At that point, ONE of us needs to be replaced. This has only happened one time, and that time it was indeed a sponge. Not one that had been forgotten but one that needed to be changed. After it was replaced, the scene went on as planned and no one watching the finished product would ever be the wiser!


Melanie asked: You live in Hollywood, do you think it would be hard to cross over into main stream acting? Or does that industry black list porn?

- Actually, I am not in Hollywood although I am in the Los Angeles area. The hayday of "blacklisting" is gone (that is not to say it never happens, just that is isn't AS frequent according to my inside source)... crossing over is not impossible, ask Traci Lords, just difficult. For the most part, adult actors are not known for their acting abilities. From personal experience, the cut in pay for starting out in mainstream makes it fairly unappealing. For a full day on-set with Days of Our Lives, I made less than $100 (I am AFTRA qualified, but not a paying member of that union; being a member would double my pay-rate), even a non-sex, non-nude fetish shoot generally gets me out in less than an hour with more cash in my pocket. I have managed to do mainstream gigs here and there under a different name and just prefer the hardcore lifestyle. There are several mainstream casting companies and agencies out there if you are curious about giving it a try. Check out Central Casting. That is your first step. Good luck!


Michelle asked: I've been a fan for a long time and I love to watch http://www.kaylacam.com/! Do you feel uncomfortable inviting strangers into your home to watch you eat pizza and fart? Or shave your pussy in the shower...

- HAHAHA! After the first 5 or 6 years, you forget about the cameras. ;) I have been living my life on 24/7 cameras for so long, it actually feels strange when there are NOT cams running. I have had friends ask me if I "perform" for my streaming cams a lot... I don't... there is no way anyone could pull off a facade 24/7! There HAVE been times when I have gotten an unexpected phone call from people telling me odd things: your pot on the stove is boiling over; Halon has gotten in to the trash and pulled things out in to the living room; Fahrenheit is on the bed, stuff like that. It makes me giggle. On the bright side, I probably have the BEST security system in the world. At any given time, there are hundreds maybe even thousands of people all around the world keeping an eye on me and my home! Beat THAT ADT! ;)


Melanie asked: What is your policy for std's? Do people ever work with out being tested? Is it easy to forge a false-negative result?

- NO NO NO NO! I NEVER, EVER work with anyone who does not have current AIM paperwork! I will not put myself, my S.O. (Significant Other), or subsequent people that I work with in jeopardy by working without taking the basic precautions of verifying the status of their paperwork! AIM prints up our test results on paper that has their watermark on it, as well as alternating red and white stripes, and an embossed sticker verifying that it came from their office. If any 'red flags' are raised, I am quick to telephone AIM and get a verbal verification on their test status. The staff at AIM are BEYOND wonderful! I have actually gotten to know several of the office personnel outside of the clinic and count them among some of my closest friends. Not to kiss ass, but thank you, AIM, for keeping us all happy, working and SAFE! If you are industry or not and in need of testing for HIV, STD's or merely wish to discuss possibly entering in to the adult industry, I suggest you check out http://www.aim-med.org/. I know it can be frightening to admit you may need to be tested for STD's, but avoiding it won't make it ANY better!


Shari asked: I was wondering who your favorite male to work with is?

- Oooohhh..... good question with a trick answer! It depends on the type of scene it is. I had TONS of fun working with Craig James, but he is no longer male talent (those of you in the know realize that Craig James is *my* Craig, well, my ex-bf Craig whom I still suck and fuck). Rick Masters is wonderful to work with, as he and I have excellent chemistry and it is always an energetic scene. Jenner is great since, as he also directs, he keeps lighting and camera angles in mind. Dwayne Cummings is a great lead for inter-racial scenes as we have worked together on so many occasions, he and I glide through transitions smoothly. Christian XXX made me feel petite and delicate, the way he threw me around like a rag doll (keep in mind, at 5'10" 'petite' is not a feeling I experience often). I guess the safest thing for me to say is this: with so many good cocks out there, I cannot choose just one!


Jen asked: Who's your favorite person to work with and why? Do you get to choose who you are shooting with when you book a job?

- Hi Jen! I have been quite fortunate over the years when it comes to co-performers. Some production companies will ask me if I have a male performer I would like to work with, other times they will give me a few names and ask if I have a preference. A lot of female performers have a "Will Not Work With List". I tend to enjoy people who are on set for the same reason I am: to have GREAT sex, a good time and treat the paycheck like it is gravy on the biscuits. I have thoroughly enjoyed working with Sledge Hammer, Rick Masters, Buster Good, Christian XXX, Dwayne Cummings, Kurt Lockwood, Jenner and Drehyden come to mind right away when I think of yummy cock! As for the much-needed girlie love... Puma Swede, Kat, Brooke Hunter (before she retired) and my Kelly Leigh!!! I ADORE my Kelly Leigh... nasty and sensual!


Eric asked: Kayla does your boyfriend get intimidated when having sex with you since you are in porn?

- Actually, I do not have a boyfriend right now... although I have a male friend that would be angry to read that statement... my last bf, the one I still occasionally fuck (well, 2-6 times a week) is "industry". While he is "behind the scenes", he *was* male talent for one dvd (I was one of those 4 or 5 scenes), he understands the business and knows that sex for a scene versus sex for pleasure is a big difference! While I will never NEVER feign an orgasm during a scene (it cheapens everything IMHO), when I am at home and I choose to fuck someone and they know it is because I chose them and not because a studio chose them it is a BIG difference! My most recent ex, Craig, has actually shot scenes with gal pals of mine, not to mention those whom I have brought home because I just craved watching him fuck them... I am really the stereotypical "down-to-earth" chick, so I fail to see how I could be intimidating in any way! Great question tho... I was flattered! *giggle*


Brandon asked: Which fetish is your favorite to shoot and why? I want to see something you're in that I know you liked shooting.

- Oh my! This is not an easy one at all! Hmmm... I tend to really like reverse gang bangs... there is something about using a strap-on on a guy that makes me feel powerful! LOL I tend to lean towards bondage and discipline, too. I am a true switch, meaning I can be the dom or the sub, however it is a rarity that you find me being dommed by a woman. Because of my strong personality, I rarely find a woman who can dom me and I hate the idea of putting a lie on film. Anything that lets me be in control tends to be my fave... altho, Rubber Obedience is the exception to that rule. I played a sub and LOVED it!


Geoffrey asked: How do you feel about anal sex? Is it something you like, don't mind, or do it for the money? Has there ever been times when it wasn't orginaly planned but you offered to do anal in a movie? Is there a big difference in pay between anal and non-anal sex scenes?

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OMG! This is a GREAT question! YES! I LOVE anal sex, both on film and in my personal life. Craig, the guy I dated from June 2006-Mar 2007 (and still fuck to this day) was delighted the first time I begged him to fuck my ass. It quickly became a staple in our real-life sex. I have always loved anal, long before I even considered filming adult scenes. The first time I took it up the ass, was on Pensacola Beach in 1992. From that day on, I was hooked! There have been quite a few times I have asked for or just done anal when it was not part of the scene. Dwayne Cummings and Brad Baldwin have both fell victim to my cravings! *giggle*

There is a difference in rate between a vag scene and an anal scene, UNLESS the talent offers it after the scene has been booked! If I am booked for a vag scene and accept a vag rate then offer anal, the negotiated rate still applies unless the production company specifies otherwise. It might sound like a bad deal, but cocks like Brad Baldwin, Dwayne Cummings and Craig James (just to name a few) are just too good to NOT have in my ass!



Curious asked: Just out of curiosity...do you ever film scenes when you are on your period? If so, how come we never see any blood (well, other than 'Red Wing' fetish movies)?

- Yes, it is not too uncommon for us porn sluts to film while on the rag. After all we are on our period 25% of the time, there is a one in four chance! Basically, we use sponges. no, I do not mean that we are constantly wiped down while filming! I mean either natural sea sponges or cosmetic wedge sponges are moistened then we insert them in our vaginas and push them up as far as we can. The crappy part is digging them back OUT after we are done filming!


Scott asked: Should I manage to meet a porn star, what should I say to increase my chances of her going out with me?

- You know, we porn folk are just like everyone else (well, for the most part). Despite the fact that we suck and fuck for a living, we are normal human beings. Keep in mind, that 'witty' sexual innuendo that you are about to blurt out in an attempt to impress said porn performer...is prolly something she has heard a thousand times. I know, it happens to me constantly. We hear a lot of sexual banter, crude comments and blunt offers. You are *NOT* as original as you think you are! Want a better chance? Do *NOT* meet us and immediately 'talk shop' to us (notice I said TO us and not WITH us). You may have seen us do the most intimate crap, but if you just introduced yourself, you are still a stranger to that individual. Talk about anything other than sex, scenes, porn movies and other performers and you will have a better chance at standing out in the crowd. Keep this in mind: asking a performer for a free dvd or free access to their website is the equivalent of me coming to your place of business and asking you to do work for me for free. If you worked as a mechanic, on your day off would you really want to adjust my timing belt? Especially if you JUST met me?


Bobby asked: On a typical porn shoot is there any sex going on when the cameras aren't rolling? Do the camera guys and the other guys on the set ever get lucky?

- Well, to be honest, what happens when the cameras are not rolling is as varied as the types of scenes that can be shot! I have been on sets where the ... fun... never stopped... cameras rolling or not... I have also been on sets where the second the cameras stopped, so did the performers. Some film sets more closely resemble a party; friends hanging out with friends. Other locations are handled in a less casual, more business-like manner. The degree of familiarity the cast has with each other contributes a lot, too. It really just depends on the type of shoot, the performers, the chemistry on set, the pace of the days schedule, the number of scenes being shot, the size of the location (if there is any chance for privacy, cell phones WILL be pulled out...this *is* L.A.!), tons of things! As far as camera guys, PAs and such 'getting lucky'...since a lot of male performers also shoot, direct, etc, it has been known to happen! Should this possibility make you run out, grab a camera and head for Porn Valley? You can, but if you want even a remote chance of getting a between-scenes quickie, you'd better visit AIM first...for civilians the saying is, "No glove, no love" for US it is "No paperwork, NO WAY!"





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