Ask Kayla Quinn

[November 23, 2009] -

Yup! I sell panties! Email me with preferences (color, full-back or thong, etc) at Kayla@KaylaQuinn.com for pricing!

[November 19, 2009] -

Sando, thank you...I STILL have moments where I mourn the loss of her...

In a relationship where I HAD to spank the person? Nope...in one where I CHOSE to spank that person? YUP! Sometimes it was consensual, other times, I over-powered the person throwing them over my knee and showing NO mercy! It was a gf of mine who just infuriated me with layer after layer of lies and petty issues. Once the respect for me was back, things got a lot better between us...until I tired of her!

[October 23, 2009] -

It certainly could! Follow this link and submit yourself!

Good luck!

[October 12, 2009] -

Hi Mohammad! Let me TRY to do this in order! *giggle* I have a very dominant personality, which expresses itself in almost every aspect of my life. The man I am dating now, however, has a personality MUCH stronger than my own. He is in charge here! Normally, I tend to steam-roll those I am in a relationship with without realizing it. I tend to be aggressive sexually, too. As for age playing a role in dominating...it really doesn't. A sub is a sub, no matter how old or how young they are. It matters not how old they are, just how...pliable! I have never been to the UK. My former bodyguard is from the UK, however, and we have been discussing going there together one day. I do not, though, make films with fans...unless they happen to be other porn performers who happen to enjoy my scenes! LOL

You CAN email me a script idea for a custom film. Just email me at: Kayla@KaylaQuinn.com

[October 5, 2009] -

They would have to pay me VERY well...not because I do not like women or squirting...but because I am not generally dominated by a woman, much less by several of them at once!

You are more than welcome to contact JM Productions and inform them of your desire to see me covered in girl nectar...

[October 1, 2009] -

I haven't, but that doesn't mean I won't...whatcha got in mind? How long? Where? How severe? OTK? Paddle, hand, belt, cane, etc?

Pitch me, baby...sell me it!

[September 28, 2009] -

Long live the "All black men have huge cocks" myth! HAHAHA! Here's the deal, with such sweet rumors as the "Black man=huge cock" and "once you go black, you never go back" (honorary mention to "the darker the berry, the sweeter the juice"), it is hard for a sexually naive woman to resist going after that "guaranteed thing"! (I am not going to bother addressing the whole "She might have daddy issues" possibility.

While I am a connoisseur of black fuckstick, here is the honest truth: they are not ALL huge. There are black guys with small cocks, just as there are white guys with huge ones. I think Tears for Fears said it best...people are people...the same variances run in each race. Tell your lady friend I said, "Sorry, princess. Go for the man, not the color of his skin!"

Now, if that is but one thing on a list of a myriad of sexual fantasies to fulfill before she ties the knot, kudos! The only part that ruffled my feathers was the "She is going to marry a white." thing....if a brother is good enough to bed, why is the idea of marrying one inconceivable?

[September 7, 2009] -

Nicole, I have not made such a film! It sounds intriguing! Might I suggest that you contact TushyCash through this link and bounce the idea off of them. You never know, your hubby and yourself might just become stars on one of your favorite sites!

[September 3, 2009] -

Lift & Carry...now there's a fetish I haven't shot in a while! I basically stopped shooting them because the person I shot them for moved to Vegas and dropped out of touch...I guess we both got busy with other projects. It happens. Should I hear from her, and should we manage to get our schedules to synch, I would be glad to shoot some more...maybe I should mention to Taylor that I am planning on being in Vegas this November...hmmm...

As for the horniness of all involved...I have noticed chubbies forming in the britches of the weaklings I am carrying/throwing/demeaning, but I have given little thought to little cocks of little men. Do I get horny merely by lifting and carrying wimps? Not really horny...I get more drunk with power and smug. I am afraid I need a real man or a real woman to get me in to the real mood!

The easiest lift varies from person to person...weight distribution, obstacles in the path I am given to carry, the valley's brutal 100+ degree summer days all play a part in that one! I tend to prefer to sling a guy over my shoulder like a sack of potatoes. I find that, or a "baby doll" carry is most demeaning and therefore most amusing for me. I am not terribly fond of "piggy back ride" style...if someone wants to ride me like a horse, they'd better bring a saddle because I WILL buck!

[August 26, 2009] -

I am a squirter, but try to keep it under control unless: it is someone else' place and they don't mind the cleaning up; I'm in a spot that doesn't require cleaning up (hot tub, outdoors, a bachelors messy place) or I know I am getting my carpets cleaned within the next 2-3 days!

[July 30, 2009] -

First off, try running the threesome by your wife...she might surprise you! I suggest vaguely alluding to one, not directly asking her to jump in to one, to gauge her reaction before throwing all of your cards out on the table. If she gives you that "glare of death". drop it like a bad habit! If she expresses interest, proceed with caution...there might be a hook in the bait...DO NOT, under any circumstance, suggest another female by name! Let your wife start naming galpals of hers should you get that far. No sense in loading the ammunition for future arguments for her!

So, she's given you the "No-Way,No-Day" answer and you wanna know where to go from there? Strip clubs: very costly with low success percentage ratio. Internet: possibility; clear your cache/history often or risk getting busted by the wife. Brothels: you get what you pay for, guaranteed success. Turning to friends: suicide, it WILL get back to your wife! No one can hold gossip this juicy.

Just something for you to consider...should you go the internet route...do NOT bring anyone to your home. Once you let someone know where you live, the best "getting caught" scenario is that they accidentally leave something behind...your new play-partner might decide to show up unannounced one day...

[June 17, 2009] -

I am partial to OTK (over-the-knee) spanking with either my hand or a paddle. I tend to be merciless, and am often told by the director to ease up a bit. It makes me sound like a psychopath, but I prefer to spank as hard as the girl can take it, then add 10% to that...I want the fans to get what they pay for and for the production company to get a good return on their loss-forward as well! I have been quoted many a time saying, "If you're going to take the check, take the beating!" The fans of my spanking would lose faith in me if I held back on a girl...death before disappointing fans! Do I comfort the girls? Nope. Sometimes I take cell phone pics of their bruised asses and send them out to friends to brag about the beating I dished out...want to read more about spankings, spanking sites as well as an interview of me personally about my role in the spank world? Then visit CherryRedReport.

[June 14, 2009] -

Being the former military, control freak, sadistic fuck that I am, I *love* tease & denial! LOL I get some sort of warped satisfaction out of it...almost as much fun as ruined orgasm! I am terribly in to all sorts of fetishes...but don't worry, not all of them are mean to boys! ;)

[May 11, 2009] -

To be quite honest with you, this is the forum I prefer to use when giving advice. Because I found myself answering the same questions over and over again, I decided to post them for anyone and everyone to read. Because questions here are submitted through the form on this site, they are flagged as higher priority. Keeps things from getting lost or snagged by my spam filter!

[March 4, 2009] -

Honestly, if the girl of your lifting-desire is a stripper...offer to pay her for the non-sexual contact. Not to sound crass, but that is probably what it will take unless she shares your interest in the lift&carry fetish. Explain to her, in no uncertain terms, the exact nature of your request. I would, however, suggest that you either schedule this outside of the club or at least make sure an inexperienced lifter has stable footwear on to prevent injury on either side! IMHO, a direct request is your best bet!

As for the strap-on scene...which one was it? ;)

[February 26, 2009] -

Lady Lilith, you honor me! I love hearing from other strong, independent women! I will make you a deal: I will make it to you if I ever find myself in your country, if y9u promise to do the same if you make it to mine!

As for breaking in the wives/girlfriends of those driven by the insatiable desire to be broken, tried and trained...I suggest starting by casually presenting a mild fetish film as one evenings entertainment. Nothing too terribly extreme, think: vanilla pudding of fetish. Something that is along the lines of the fixation...just to gauge the reaction of the potential convert. If done subtly, a ton of opinion can be surmised...your plebe will know whether to push a little further with the next film, to suggest "trying" it out at home with their partner or if their partner is uncomfortable with the idea. Should it seem as though the significant other is hesitant or uncomfortable, a heart-to-heart conversation is in order...ASAP! I am not normally one to advocate with-holding information, but I wouldn't suggest mentioning to a relationship partner being inducted into the fetish lifestyle any sessions in which money changed hands or a professional dominatrix was employed: it may be a little too intimidating to the novice.,/p>

:)

[February 1, 2009] -

Actually, I think it was for Bad Tushy WAY back in 2002...but I could be mistaken! I've spanked so many, so hard, since then...*GIGGLE*

[January 23, 2009] -

Ohhhhh! You *so* know how to get my motor humming! I have a...thing...for sexy shoes! I would LOVE to indulge you on this project! Look for an email from me in your in-box!

[January 19, 2009] -

Hello Aryan! Thanks for the compliments! I shot those for Mistress Taylor, she's always fun to work with! The lift and carry fetish has become more and more popular and I am convinced that it's partially due to Mistress Taylor's influence. I myself have never shot a L&C which included actual sex...but I am sure someone out there has!

Fantasizing about being treated like an infant is also a fairly common fetish. A partial list of interesting pursuits can be found HERE...I encourage people to add to this list!

[January 16, 2009] -

Wow! Lots to answer here, let me see what I can do...

First of all, I have never had any complaints (from males OR females) on how I rim an ass. That being said, I am going to assume that equates to enjoyment. While I do sometimes enjoy being dominant, there are times when I am more in the submissive mood...I tend to be VERY dominant over other women and dominant over most men, but once in a while I find a man who is so strong, that I can barely muster a cross word! I cannot think of any video in which I am being fucked, especially with the man in a dominant position such as on top, and I am demanding to have my feet worshipped. There are some fetishes that work well when mixed with hardcore sex acts, but FemDom is not really one of them. FemDom is more about teasing and denying, not gratifying then demanding.

Men and nipples...such a wild-card! While some men are open to enjoying the stimulation of a warm, wet tongue lapping at their nipples, others seem all but afraid to try it at all! I enjoy teasing and nibbling lightly on nipples, be they manly ones or girlie ones!

Now, the tattoo question! Which foot, huh? Well, there are lots of variables here! If it is a large tattoo, I suggest the non-dominant foot...so, if she is right-handed, then the left foot. I say this only because a larger tattoo will be tender longer and can make walking difficult. If it is a smaller one, then on the dominant tootsie. Although, the Latin word for "left" is sinestra, from which we get sinister...so, if it is a naughty tattoo, it almost HAS to go on the left foot! *giggle*

[November 27, 2008] -

Why darling, I HAVE!

[November 20, 2008] -

Hi Darren...I have not had multiple loads of semen in my vagina at once. While I *have* shot cream pie scenes, they have not been multiple partner scenes. I guess I need to set my sites higher! ;)

I have gotten wonderfully positive feedback from the cream pie scenes that I have shot, though!

[November 13, 2008] -

Hello Aryan, first off...thank you! Now, on to your question...not only is it proper to tell your girlfriend about your fantasies, it is strongly advisable! Communicating your desires increases your chances of having them met many times over! I am a firm believer in communication between intimately involved people.

[November 8, 2008] -

I buy most of my clothing for shoots in the garment district. I have, in the past, sold clothing items, but unless you tell me which pieces you are interested in, I cannot give you a price. :) Please email me via my regular website, http://www.KaylaQuinn.com for more information!

[October 6, 2008] -

I prefer to be cream-pied after orgasm, but probably not for the reasons you think! It has nothing to do with physical pleasure as much as with discomfort. Pounding a pussy laden with spunk causes a bit of...splashing. As semen dries on your skin, it has a tendency to tighten up, pull and itch. I much rather enjoy my orgasm, let him get his rocks off and fill me with a frothy load then be able to get up and wipe down. I know, a far too realistic view on fucking and not very "porn star" like of me!

[September 30, 2008] -

Rim jobs...they aren't just in basketball anymore! Yes, Brad, I have licked an ass or two in my day...both on film and off. I shot Lady Ass Lickers" with Brooke Hunter and "Toss My Salad #6" with Rod Fontana, just to name the first few that come to my mind...

[May 21, 2008] -

Hi Tom! Thanks for the compliment, first of all! I used to hate my tushy, but I have grown to appreciate it over the past few years.

I enjoy getting spanked on occasion, but I must admit that it is a rarity that I allow myself to be dominated by a woman. It has only happened on film, never in my real life. Since I have a strong personality, I tend to be more dominant rather than submissive when it comes to other females. Usually, I tend to 'control' my personal relationships but once in a while I flip into a total sub for a man. It really just depends on how our personalities click, to be honest.

I am not usually prone to physical violence, but I have kicked a girlie ass or two! LOL Too bad the few cat-fights I have been involved in were not filmed!

No woman has, other than on-set, ever spanked me. As far as the scenes in which I have been dommed by a woman, I have enjoyed it on more of a humorous level than a sexual one.

[April 12, 2008] -

Thank you! I used to hate my double-bubble but have grown to love it in recent years! *giggle*

As for your questions...her pulling away may be for one or more reasons. Maybe she is ticklish? Maybe she doesn't like the idea of "dirty feet"? Perhaps she is concerned about the appearance of her feet? Not all of us women like our hooves, you know! I would suggest you treat her to a spa pedicure gift certificate. After her tootsies have been treated, buffed, polished and groomed, ask her to let you show her how much you love the pedicured paws! Be sensitive to any objections, some are easily overcome others are deal-breakers.

Mmmmm.....anal sex! One of my favorites! Personally, I do not think anal sex is a good choice for spontaneity! Because of my slow metabolism, I generally try not to eat anything substantial for 12 hours prior. I enema until I get a clean rinse, for the second rinse (and any more that need to be done), I refill the enema bottle with warm water. The chemicals in enemas can dehydrate if used too much. I assume this is new to your relationship and possibly to both of you? If so, I encourage you to brush up on your basic anal sex skills by reading through past articles found here. Good luck!

[April 5, 2008] -

The bisexual movies I have appeared in have always been "condom-only", meaning all males wore a condom for all penetration. While it has always been a niche, it has gained popularity due to it's increased acceptance. Do I think the internet played a part in that? Yes, I do. PPV (Pay-Per-View) Theaters, such as this one, take out the potential embarrassment of physically walking in to an adult shop and picking out the dvd desired. Once there is no fear of stigma, there is no reason to rob oneself of a desire.

As for the trans-sexual films, I think the appeal is multi-fold. First, there is the taboo appeal that calls to the darker desires inherent in most people. Second, some of those trannies are more beautiful than us natural gals! Also, it is novel. I would not doubt that it is a good transition from straight porn to gay porn, either. As you pointed out, it does (on the surface, at least) appear to be a man and a woman...until, well, they both get naked and you see more than one cock on the screen!

[March 24, 2008] -

The term "cream pie" refers to an internal pop. Put simply, allowing the ejaculate to be deposited inside the vagina. Since "pie" is slang for pussy and the gooey goodness resembles cream...

[March 17, 2008] -

Ahhh! I had wondered how long it would be before boob questions of this nature hit me! Before I answer, though, I am very glad you enjoy my films!

On to the answers! Normally, when there is an extensive amount of attention played to my breasts in a scene, the film being shot is one geared to the busty genre. As with other elements of a scene, I can always speak up when something is too intense/hardcore for me to handle. If you see me being man-handled on film, then that is the mood I was in the day we shot! There are times when I feel delicate, but those times are few and far between! I am fine with having my boobs slapped and such, as long as my nipples don't feel like they are being shredded. I have actually left a set with bruises before, it happens...consider it an occupational hazard! As for the tit-fucking...I honestly do not have a preference for or against it. I take that on a "per cock" basis. If the cock is long enough and not too fat, it feels good. It can be difficult to keep my tits squeezed tight enough (especially when you take the lube factor into consideration), if the dick is too girthy. If the cock is too short, instead of a pleasant fucking sensation it often feels like my jiggly's are being stabbed.

Last but not least: Has anyone ever cum too soon in a scene? Yup! It has happened lots of times! Sometimes there is enough notice and we can film the scene out of sequence (put the pop where it belongs, so to speak), other times we wait for the guy to rejuvenate and start where we left off. If it is not the last scene of the day, I often volunteer to let the next scene start filming. Not only does that minimize "down time" on the set, it takes some of the pressure off the male talent. The most difficult time to recover from an early pop is when there is a time-constraint put in place. I would much rather have a fun, relaxed shoot than a tense, rushed one!

Thank you for the great questions! Keep them coming!

[March 2, 2008] -

Talk about a trick question Steve! Part of me says to leave out any name (other than your wife's) when telling her your fantasies...part of me says to live it out with her! Maybe a compromise is in order here? Watch one of your favorite scenes and act it out together at the same time! Finish off the role-play by shooting your creamy load deep in to her ass then sucking it back out!

[February 24, 2008] -

I am not afraid of rimming, provided basic hygiene steps have been taken! As a courtesy, I always ask those I am working with what their "No's" are...some male performers are put off by anything (fingers, tongues, etc) near their assholes...if they are into it and I feel the urge, I will rim an ass! Simple as that! If I smell sweat at all, I just don't go there!

As for the hottest scene I have ever shot...I am not sure! Since I am still shooting scenes, my 'favorite scene' changes frequently! Right now, I would have to say the boy/girl/girl anal scene I just shot this past Monday with Savannah Samson and Alex Gonz for Vivid is one of my hottest.

[January 3, 2008] -

Ahhh...the comic geek has been asked a super-hero question finally! There are actualyl two super-hero slangs out there these days: SuperMan-ing and Spider-Man-ing...to SuperMan a gal, a guy shoots his hot, sticky load on her back (doggy-style lends itself perfectly to this) then, before she falls asleep, presses the sheet against her spunk-covered back before the jizz dries. The result? When the chicka wakes up, the dried cum acts as an adhesive and the sheet has stuck to her like a cape; hence the term "SuperMan-ing".

To Spider-Man a girl, one needs to merely pull out of her before shooting his spunk, shoot it into his hand then throw it at her as Spidey does when slinging his web. Get it? *giggle*

Which is more popular? I don't know...yet another chapter in the DC vs. Marvel battle!

[December 23, 2007] -

Hahaha! I *am* a little ticklish, other than that...I have no problem having my armpits played with as long as other parts of me are not neglected!

[December 2, 2007] -

Like any other fetish, there are women turned on by a sub in delicates and others turned off by the idea. Find a fem-dom to help cultivate your newfound interest...you'll be amazed how many there are out there looking for a good slave!

Personally, I find any person willing to explore their sexuality thrilling and exciting; someone willing to entertain thoughts outside the norm is an added plus!

[November 22, 2007] -

Start her out gently, ease her in to the whole foot thing since she has already expressed a hang up over her dogs. Try taking her for a relaxing pedicure. It is hard to resist the feel of a warm, moist tongue on soft feet!

Why is she resistant? Is it a "feet are dirty" thing that the pedicure can resolve for you? Is she overly ticklish? Is she afraid you'll want her to reciprocate and she is not keen on the idea? Find out! Once you know what you need to overcome, it'll be easier to do so! Good luck!

[November 17, 2007] - I wear a size 9 shoe... I know, I have big feet... keep in mind I am 5'10"! *giggle* I love getting pedicures and LOVE sexy shoes! I have dozens of pairs and am always on the prowl for more. Having my feet and toes worshipped is incredibly erotic. The feeling of a warm, moist tongue between my toes or on the sole of my foot turns me on incredibly!

While my website, www.KaylaQuinn.com offers hundreds of videos in downloadable formats, covering a multitude of niches, I do not have any videos of me tossing a guys salad.

As for the dominance issue... there are times when I prefer to be in charge and times when I want to be tossed around like a rag doll! It is less of a planned thing and more of a chemistry thing. Chemistry between people often dictates their relationship one to the other. Because I have a strong personality, it is rare that I find (in my personal life) a man who can dominate me without over-doing it. It is like walking a barbed wire tightrope: a man needs to be strong enough not to let me steam roll them, yet flexible enough to let me exist and not be overtaken by their will. Sexually, I tend to vacillate during the fucking from vulnerable to aggressive.

Since I am cast as a "cougar" or "MILF" a lot, I tend to get booked with performers ranging from 18-25 more often than not.

Finally, your last question: Do most guys like having their bums licked or not? It varies from person to person. Some men have expressed a desire for it and others shudder at the thought of it. Personal preference wins out again on this one!

[October 25, 2007] - Well, first of all, make sure your partner shares the same interest here! Bringing a flame in to the bed without warning might trigger a "Burning Bed" flashback and (if you remember correctly), that didn't end too well for the guy! If everything is a 'go', then you need to figure out the comfort levels. This is one of those situations where baby-steps are the best approach. Find a birthday candle (baking goods aisle of the grocery), and burn it for a minute or two. Pour the resulting wax on both your palm and your partners. Too hot? Not hot enough? It may be that one of, or neither of, you like the feeling. If that's the case, nothing lost and time saved. If one likes it and the other doesn't... at least you know who holds the candle! *giggle* Ok, let's say you have made it this far, now what?

Low tolerance for the heat? Instead of applying the melted wax directly to your lovers skin, dip your finger in it (I suggest a quick dip, followed by blowing on it to 'coat' your finger, then going back for more wax) and use your finger as an 'applicator'. Since it is generally the texture of hot wax that provides the pleasure, this delivers the result without the fear of burning your partner. Think you can handle it a bit hotter?

There are several candles on the market that are specifically made for adult play. I recommend Earthly Body, I have used their products and SWEAR by them! They have a lower melting point, so the risk of hurting/getting hurt is minimized, plus they are made of oils and extracts that are good for the skin. If this particular brand is too much of an "oil" than a wax for your taste, there are others on the market that do not melt down quite as much. Here is the thing with pouring wax versus finger-painting with it: aim well! Don't hit ultra-sensitive parts by accident! That can really ruin your date! Still want to turn up the heat?

To get an even hotter result, pour the wax from a shorter height. The wax will cool less traveling through 3 inches of air than through 6... trust me! Be careful, though, and for God sake use common sense! Don't pour wax into any opening (ears, nostrils, pussies, assholes, mouths, etc.)! Have erotic memories, not an ER bill to remember the experience by!

[September 20, 2007] - I enjoy shooting several different fetishes. I have shot giantess fetish before and would love to do so again! Feel free to shoot them my email address. Kayla at KaylaQuinn.com

[September 12, 2007] - Hello Shari! I must say, I have never heard the rumors concerning losing sensation from a pierced hood! If I had, I doubt I would have gotten mine done! I got my piercing done, on a whim I must admit, back in the mid-90's. I was dating a girl who wanted to get her nose pierced and the body modification artist liked me and offered to do it for just the cost of the jewelry. Looking back, it was a worthwhile investment... a whopping $15.00. As for the placement of my ring. There are two basic ways of getting the hood done; vertically and horizontally. I chose the vertical style merely because it seemed less likely to get caught on panties, the seams of jeans, etc. Plus, I liked the way it lined up with my belly ring. I commonly hear people mistakenly refer to this as a clit piercing, and normally let it slide in conversation unless the conversation is about someone going to get it done. The hood is NOT the clit! BIG difference! The hood, for those not in the know, it a sheath of skin which covers the almighty clit. Piercing your clit would render it useless and ...well... death first! *giggle* An experienced BMA (Body Modification Artist), knows where to ram steel through flesh and where not to, while I do encourage guiding your BMA to your preferences, if they say they cannot do it where ya want it... trust them! I would definitely get mine done again, if I were to travel back in time. I have enjoyed it and it has never gotten in the way of anything I wanted to do.

[September 5, 2007] - ANYONE can learn to squirt! I was a doubting Tomas, too, until I learned. I am still mastering it, I am not 100% reliable... YET! There are several dvd's, books and e-books available to help you on this journey. One of my favorite sex tip dvd's that deal with the issue of female ejaculation/female ejaculation instruction can be found HERE. It is by mega-icon, super sweet & sexy Nina Hartley.

[September 1, 2007] -

Hello Crystal. We can fix this! First of all, you have GOT to be honest with him. Knock off the play-acting. If he thinks he is doing what it takes to get you off, he will never change what he does and you will never be truly satisfied. This sounds to me a lot like a combination of insecurity and male bravado. (No man wants to hear murmurs that he has a sexually unsatisfied girlfriend, if you've told your best friend about this I PROMISE she has told someone else.) At a time when you are NOT in the moment, when you are NOT doing anything sexual, you need to tenderly broach this subject. Tell him the truth. That you enjoy sex with him, love it when he fucks the Hell out of you but that the pressure of his constant interrogation is keeping you from relaxing and enjoying your sex to the fullest. Feel like you cannot bring this up out of the blue? Or you have and he is slipping back in to that crappy ass pattern? When you are in bed getting frisky, ask him to slow it down. Respond enthusiastically both verbally and physically to "good touch" and minimally to "bad touch". If you let your body lead, his cock WILL follow!

Now, the squirting thing. Yeah, I know this one from experience. I am more of a gusher, but have been known to squirt wickedly once in a while. I don't guarantee it, tho. I have not mastered it enough yet! I am still working on the reliability factor. The thing with squirting is this: you have to be totally relaxed and totally in the moment. The more pressured you are to squirt, the less likely you will. Period. If you are interested in teaching yourself to squirt, I recommend Nina Hartley's Guide. I know her personally and she has a gift for teaching! She is concise and keeps it simple. I adore her!

Crystal, stop faking the moans unless you are willing to spend the rest of this relationship in a sexual quagmire. Eventually, if you haven't already, you will begin to resent your man and dread sex. Why?! Let me know how it turns out? :)

[August 30, 2007] - Hi Brad, there are two basic types of cock rings. The first goes only around the base of the penis. It is usually made of a stretchy material like rubber, and can help keep the blood that has made its way to your cock IN your cock, adding a little bit of assistance keeping your 'edge' (porn slang for hard on *giggle*). If you're contemplating using this to help maintain erections, you will probably be a touch disappointed. It will help keep you a little firmer than you'd be without it, but not by much. The second type actually goes around the cock AND scrotum. It also helps restrict the blood flow but, again, the purpose of a cock ring is not to fight erectile issues, just to provide extra stimulation via the "squeezing" sensation. To be honest, this second type is what I personally prfer. (The first type can slip and pinch your partner) These fancier ones can be made of stretchy stuffs or leather with snazzy snaps (for adjusting the size) and even metal loops held together with silicone strips, leather, rubber, etc. Remember: Cock rings should be put on AFTER you acheive erection and should never be left on for more than 30-45 minutes. Think about it, you're compromising the blood flow, don't hurt your buddies! If you feel any discomfort, take it off immediately! Want to browse for a few cock rings? Check here!

[August 28, 2007] - HAHAHAHA! That is actually a fairly common practice in certain genres. In the case of tease and denial scenes, it is extra stimulation that adds to the anticipation of the actual orgasm. In ruined orgasm films, it is to create an uncomfortable pressure in the testes. Basically, the binding makes it more difficult for blood to retreat from the engorged penis and back in to the body. The result? A longer lasting erection. In some of the post-ejaculation photos on the back of dvds, you will see the female talent holding the freshly drained cock at the base squeezed between two fingers in a scissor-like grip...she is keeping the cock rigid by not allowing the blood to leave member. It is a little trick we use on set since between the "pop shot" and the still photos of the aftermath, several minutes may go by and the guy can start to ...um, return to normal. When binding scrot's, make SURE you know what you are doing! Do NOT bind to the point that things turn purple or blue...you are literally killing your guys "buddies". Also, if he says untie, UNTIE! To be honest, this is one of those things I discourage too much experimentation with and suggest you leave it to a pro...or find one who will teach you the basics! You can ruin your man this way. When I have utilized this practice, I have used things that were not only handy at the time, but not too coarse or strong...a hair scrunchy (NOT an elastic/rubber band) or my panties. I also never bind tighter than I have to...you'd be amazed at gentle a tie is effective! Think of it along the same lines as putting a collar on a dog, you want to control, not choke to death!

[August 22, 2007] - HAHAHAHA! Too funny! If you knew the last guy I dated (and still fuck), you would NEVER have asked this question! *giggle* I have been a "ringer" in several "reverse gang bangs" (5 girls with strap-ons... one guy catching what we're throwing) and I have been told that I am a natural. LOL I am never quite sure how to take that comment, to be honest. I have also appeared in a few "Bi" movies... (a partial list of those can be found HERE) and have never sprung the strap-on on anyone as a surprise. It has always been a booked scene and I refuse to work with someone who is not in to whatever type of sex scene/play we are booked for... I am a diva that way. In some of the movies, the "catcher" is allowed to cum, in others he is not. I HAVE had quite a few of the performers in that genre call me afterwards asking to play again on-cam or off!