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[July 10, 2010] -

Sometimes the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak! Sounds like he was a combination of over-stimulated and tired! If it becomes a pattern, lmk. If it is just an isolated event, brush it off and forget about it. If you make it an issue, it will become an issue...guys are sensitive about their little buddies...threaten not the cock!

[April 5, 2010] -

Hi Eugene, this doesn't make you weird at all...it makes you human and adventurous! My first response to your question was to give *my* opinion (that it's a natural thing to do, notice guys LOVE it when a woman tastes her juices? Why should it be different for guys?), but instead I decided to look around the mighty world wide web...check this out...somebody posted the same question on IsItNormal.com. With 43 responses, an overwhelming number of people thought it normal...85%. When you have plenty of time, read the topix thread...this post was started in 2007 and is STILL actively getting replies; again the majority of which are supportive of the act. I see nothing wrong with "self-sampling". There is an entire community of "snow ballers"; those fetishists devoted to cumming in in their partners mouth then sharing a kiss, as well as that hot load, immediately afterwards. Do a few searches, you'll find that you are not alone, matter of fact, you're part of the majority!

Relax, eat up and enjoy!

[April 2, 2010] -

Ok! I am going to answer way out of order, so I apologize ahead of time! I have never bleached my bum, BUT I did some research and it appears that BleachBum is the favorite product out there! It got better ratings for ease, cost, effectiveness and fragrance.

"I just moved in with my boyfriend and he is a freak." LUCKY!

To be honest, there is not TOO much you can do to ward off the aromas of a full day running ragged at work. To keep you vaggie as fresh smelling as possible, despite a 10-12 hour day, I suggest keeping the jungle brush trimmed. The longer haired vag's tend to get sweatier and therefore smellier. Also, using moist wipes after urinating will help. Keep in mind, as you're freaking about natural scents, that may be the very thing that turns your man on and gets his motor humming! Your @ss, same basic story. There is no magic secret to beating the human condition and coming home smelling shower fresh...unless you stop at the gym and take a shower on your way home! Basic hygiene and careful wiping after using the toilet are about all I can suggest. Porn tricks and tips do not lend themselves well to real life. When we prepare for anal scenes, we know in advance we are going to be shooting anal, we fast and rinse our rectums out several times before we shoot. As soon as we are done, we are famished and cannot wait to get some food in us. Luckily, we can usually be in out, fucked and done in under 4 hours...not at work for a full day, trying to starve ourselves just in case the mood for butt loving strikes once we get home. I would honestly ask him if he is one who prefers the earthy aroma of natural body or if he is put off by them and wants you to smell like baby wipes. You might be worrying about getting rid of the thing he likes best!

[March 11, 2010] -

Hi Dane, yeppers...you caught me! I am a BIG time lover of dick sucking! There is something about being 100% responsible for another persons orgasm that makes me feel powerful. I relish the fact I was able to coax that hot load from balls to tip to mouth with the sheer power of my mouth and hands! Also, it shows the person whose cock you're feasting on, "This is all about you right now. I want to do something for you, shower my attention on only you and I want you to do nothing but enjoy it."

Whether or not I want a load in my mouth depends on a few variables...if the guy smokes, I am not as eager to taste his spunk. Why? Because everything you put in your body via ingestion, imbibing or smoking comes back OUT of your body in the forms or waste, sweat, secretions...yes, that INCLUDES your semen! Smoking, drinking alcohol, diet, drug usage (licit and illicit), general health, vitamins....everything contributes to the tastiness of you! (See She Will Not Swallow for a smoothie recipe I GUARANTEE will help make your load tastier.)

I went through a phase (well, technically I go through it every once in a while), where I loved getting banged doggy style only to have the guy pull out and cum on the soles of my feet. It was an easy target, all he had to do was pull out, let me put my feet closer together and point his cock down a bit to douse my tootsies. There is something sensual about the warm, velvety feeling of hot jizz landing on the delicate (often over-looked) soles of your feet. I just like it...now I am realizing I have not done that in MONTHS and might have to go wake up the bf...

Having performed in so many scenes, and having always had a very sexually charged personal life, I have probably had cum on every inch of my body at one time or another. My favorite places? Soles of my feet (duh), face, mouth, b00bs and ass! My Least favorite? In my eyes (bruises the eye and causes temporary pink eye), my hair, up my nose (don't laugh, it happens and snorting spunk stings) and my upper back! When it comes to cum, taste is not the only determining swallow-factor...temperature plays a MAJOR part! If it isn't fresh from the tap, I am NOT drinking it! Cold, congealed cum is disgusting! It's like dick snot at that point. *shudder*

Titty-fucking, you say...sometimes I am in to it, other times it is too much lubed up, slippery tit to try to control! The longer the cock, the easier it is to get titty-fucked by it. Since I am a 32DDD, a shorter cock gets, well, lost in between my hooters and I have to constantly adjust my grip on my slippery globes to feel anything from the dick. Yes, I know pet...that was not the sensual answer you were looking for, I went IRL on ya!

[March 1, 2010] -

Todd, you are a victim of the media, hunny bunny! Your penis is actually nearly twice the size of the average man. Not the average 16 yr old, but the average full-grown man. The penis sizes are broken down here: answering David V's question. So, as far as the SIZE goes, your girlfriend won't think it's small but she might be a little intimidated by the size of your fuckstick! Good luck getting her to be able to keep a brave face when she sees that trouser snake! I know experienced porn stars who are a touch fearful when booked for scenes with cocks the size of yours!

Onto the masturbation question...skim thru this for a little info...then read this one...between the two columns, you should be able to get an idea of how to speed things up, so to speak!

Todd, please do not take this the wrong way, but if you're unsure if you're ready for sex...then you're probably not. It doesn't mean you're less of a man or that you're "weird"...it means it isn't the right time in your life yet. If you decide, however, to plunge in to the fucking game, do me a favor? Realize that you have a WEAPON between your legs and learn how to use your cock as a tool for pleasure and not just ram your partners tender spots like you had a baseball bat between your legs! There have been COUNTLESS times I've been with a guy with a larger-than-average cock and he thought size was the same as skill. It isn't, just because it's big doesn't mean it's always good. A man with a huge cock and no skill = a bruised cervix!

In summation: it is not always a matter of stuffing as much meat in a pussy as you can cram in there...the vagina DOES have a limit to what it can do!

[January 31, 2010] -

I see nothing wrong with this. Sex is fun, kink is divine!

I have often brought another girl home and licked her while she was being fucked and have been licked while being pounded. Mmmmm...takes me back! I wonder what Rucca is doing....

[September 17, 2009] -

Nope, just curious!

[September 11, 2009] -

Dane, where I want the hot load varies with my mood, what position I am in when the dude is ready to blow and which part of me he is fucking at the time. I did go through a phase for a while where I liked the final position to be doggy only to have him pull out, me put my feet together quickly so the hot load coated the soles of my feet. It feels *really* good! If the sex partner d'jour is a smoker, I tend not to swallow as I am not a smoker and tobacco tends to make semen taste bitter. There *is* a recipe HERE for improving the taste of your cream-stream.

[April 18, 2009] -

Hi Billy, do I like having my pussy liked? Does the Pope wear a funny looking hat?!

Seriously though, when it comes to eating carpet, it is all about technique! Take your time, warm me up with some kissing, some fondling...get my juices flowing! A wet pussy is a yummy pussy. If you seem afraid to get your face in there and get messy...well, let me just say if you're just going to play at eating snatch, don't waste my time! Bring it strong or don't bring it at all! Now that you've got my motor humming, go for that clit. Remember: you want to worship my clit with your tongue, not punish it! Flick your tongue gently up and down, back and forth teasing my clit into a frenzy. Utilize your tongue AND your lips to suck my clitty kitty to a purr. Stick out your tongue and fuck my slit with it, thrusting in and out...mmmmm! Don't feel like you're limited to only using your mouth; stimulate me with your fingers while your tongue is busy. Want me to squirt? Then stick two fingers in my vag (palm-side up), curl your fingers upwards and make the "come here" gesture...stimulate the g-spot and you'll get a wet gush!

[December 27, 2008] -

Hello Hunter! Interesting question...There are several factors that play a part in a man having difficulty (or even complete inability) to achieve and maintain an erection (a condition known as impotence). Both physical and mental/emotional causes are common; these include, but are not limited to, depression, stress, work pressures, relationship problems, insecurities, low self-esteem, and poor diet. The more of these buggers you're facing, the better your chances for having a limp noodle. Sucks, huh?

There are non-chemical alternatives in the treatment of impotency, however. That little blue pill is not your only hope! Relationship counseling (also referred to as psychosexual therapy)can be quite beneficial in lifting your...ummm...spirits. Usually exercises are assigned by the therapist to help overcome past issues, encourage forgiveness in one another, renew your intimacy, spark the sexual interest and arousal. Just by cleaning out the emotional clutter that builds in most relationships over time, impotency can become a thing of the past.

An even simpler cure can be as simple as a change in attitude and/or perspective. Stop brow-beating yourself over your slower-than-before erection; psyching yourself up about past problems right before trying to get that high-rise in your Levi's is only setting yourself up for failure. Adopt a more positive outlook, about both you and your partner! It's infectious, you'll both feel better and better things will...sprout...from that feeling.

Nourish your mind, body and soul. Eating properly and finding the time to exercise strengthens every aspect of your life. Cheesey sounding, I know...but a healthy diet means a healthy sex life!

[September 30, 2008] -

Rim jobs...they aren't just in basketball anymore! Yes, Brad, I have licked an ass or two in my day...both on film and off. I shot Lady Ass Lickers" with Brooke Hunter and "Toss My Salad #6" with Rod Fontana, just to name the first few that come to my mind...

[September 9, 2008] -

Not at all, it is because the risk of transmitting STD's is less via oral sex than via vaginal sex. Some companies have a "Condom Only" policy when it comes to actual vaginal or anal penetration. Curious for more info? Here's a starting point!

Filming without current test paperwork is a violation of the rules BIG TIME! Any company that would ask a performer to film any type of hardcore with someone whose test is not current is not a company you want to be working for! A reputable company will not put its performers at risk.

[May 14, 2008] -

Hi Brad! First of all, I am glad you're enjoying my scenes! I know I have enjoyed shooting them! I am going to answer your questions out of order, I hope you do not mind!

While the pineapple smoothie recipe ( see this recipe here) will help yummify your load, it will not actually help increase the amount of semen per ejaculation. It merely makes it tastier for the cock sucker, cum swallower.

There are several factors which contribute to the amount of cum you'll yield per blast. (Just an FYI, the amount of semen released is directly indicative of sperm count. The average sperm cell count is somewhere between 15 and 20 million per ejaculation.) The most basic influence is simply diet. Semen is comprised mainly of protein. A diet high in protein and low in fat can help boost the volume of spunk per shot. Proper hydration can help smooth out your love juice. By avoiding caffeine and alcohol, drinking plenty of water will help keep your frothy goodness frothy! Smoking is also detrimental to a huge pop. Along with a healthy diet, exercise can help, too. Not just typical-staying-fit exercise, but PC exercise (also called Kegels) help keep your body functioning at its optimum. The PC exercise can also help increase the force of your creamy goodness leaving your body, amplifying the orgasmic feeling.

Frequency of sex/masturbation can play a big part, too. The more frequently you shoot, the smaller your liquid army is going to be! By limiting the number of times you jack off and saving your baby batter for actual fucking, you'll save what you've got and shoot more of it when you do shoot! Yeah, I know...this fact sucks! ;)

Various amino acids help increase the amount of dick drippings you produce as well. The amino Acids L-arginine, and L-cartinine commonly found in spinach, tuna, nori (sushi seaweed), egg whites and turkey are loaded helpers. Folic acid is a bog player in this game, too. Folic acid is found in foods such as leafy greens, beets, broccoli and orange juice. It is thought to be the combination of Folic acid and iron that does the trick.

As for Volume Pills, I have not spoken to anyone who has tried them (or, at least, will admit to trying them). They do seem quite proud of their money-back guarantee...so...

[April 1, 2008] -

Ahhh...facials! You say you've never dared tried it, have you ever asked your partner if they enjoy it? As with most things sexual, I am not a big fan of springing things on a partner without knowing where they stand. Some surprises are better received than others!

As for my opinion: all loads are not created equal! I am allergic to tobacco, so a blast from a smoker itches and sometimes even burns my skin. A blast of gooey cum from a non-smoker, not a problem...from a smoker, not a thrill! The same can be said about swallowing semen. Diet greatly affects bodily fluids, (more information, including recipes for yummier spunk, can be found HERE) so a healthier diet on your part can increase the odds of taking a facial or swallowing on your partners part!

Do some women do it just for the money? Some women do, I am sure, and others thoroughly enjoy it...but that can be said for just about anything, can't it?

[October 30, 2007] - Personally, I prefer to start sucking cock on a slightly flaccid cock, rather than a completely hard, rigid one. Good lubrication is essential to an awesome blow job and with a slightly soft cock it is easier to fit all of it in my mouth for the initial swab or two. I like to use my own spit (rather than a commercial blow job lube), so getting as much as I can down my throat in the beginning helps ensure I will be able to get as much as I can down my throat later on! *giggle* Besides, feeling a cock jump, swell and grow inside your mouth... as a result of your talents... is a rewarding feeling!

[September 25, 2007] - Hi Jerry! NOT everyone can deep throat, but here are a few tips to increase the chances! Position is paramount; get in a position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back (think: making the neck and chin form as straight of a line as possible). By creating that angle, you'll have an easier time swallowing the cock. I suggest the guy lay on his back, allowing the giver of the bj to control not only the angle but the speed of things. Plus, you can prop yourself up on your elbows. Make sure to lube the shaft of the cock up with saliva. Licking up and down the rod not only gets it ready to glide more easily down a throat, but acts as fellatio foreplay. Once you're set and the cock is lubed, slightly tilt your head back and stick out the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. "Flatten" your tongue, I know that sounds strange, let me explain. You know when you ask someone if your tonsils look red... and you have them look at the back of your throat? You flatten your tongue so they can get a better look... do like that, but without extending your tongue quite so far out of your mouth. Sticking your tongue out helps flatten the back of your tongue a bit, that's one of the reasons I suggest it. Open your throat like you would if you were yawning. (This helps create a larger passage for the cock to enter through.) Taking a deep breath, slowly slide the penis into your mouth. If you feel like you are going to gag, freeze for a second. Hold everything where it is for as long as you can, then back the cock out a bit. Keep doing this same step as many times as you can. By easing in to things and taking your time, you will start to be able to take more and more of the shaft in to your throat. Make sure your partner is patient. Tempting as it may be for him to "ram" his cock down your throat, he needs to let you control the speed. Deep throating needs to be fun for both of you! Best of luck!

[September 22, 2007] - FIRST of all... have you forgotten about AIM? AIM is Adult Industry Medical Health Care Foundation, it is a non-profit corporation and it is the single most important stop on any adult performers itinerary! While primarily serving the adult industry, "civilians" are welcome to use AIM as well. Go there first! EVEN if condoms are being used for actual intercourse, both of you... go to AIM! It is worth the peace of mind.

Ok, back to the blow job issue. The only opinion that truly matters is your own. You cannot betray your own moral code/comfort levels and still enjoy this relationship. You must set your own limitations and stick with them. This is not to say that limits do not change or that these are carved in stone. This is just to clarify that the only stone mason worthy of changing these personal rules is yourself. Going against your beliefs, your moral code and your boundaries will not "save" a failing relationship. It will merely open the door for resentment and a power-struggle every other time you try to refuse anything else asked of you. If you loose him, you loose him. If you loose yourself, you have lost everything.

Can you catch an STD from a blow job? Yeppers! You sure can! Recent research has even turned up a few cases of HIV being transmitted via oral sex (in case you have not put two and two together and come up with four, the person sucking got it, not the person getting sucked). You could also fall prey to chlamydia, gonorrhea, NGU, herpes or syphilis. The good news is that all of these STDs (except herpes) are curable with modern medicine.

Before he tries to con you with, "I'll pull out before I cum!" crap, remember this: Sex is a lot like basketball, everyone dribbles before they shoot! Pre-cum can carry the same bacteria, virus, infection, etc. If your decision to save certain sexual activities for marriage was not crucial enough to keep him from getting involved with you, why has it suddenly become an issue to him now? If he thought he would just "wait you out" on it, drop him. If he is wanting locker room bravado, drop him. If a hummer is more important to him than everything else that makes you who you are, drop him. There ARE good men out there, try not to kiss too many frogs before you find your prince!

[August 1, 2007] - Heh. Did your bf put you up to asking this one? *giggle* Even if he didn't, he is going to LOVE the answer: practice! As you start sucking cock, try taking it a little further back each time you suck it back in to your mouth. Also (guys, READ this part) make sure he knows NOT to try to ram himself down your throat! That is NOT going to make it any easier for anyone and risks hurting you. Try tilting your chin up a little (the effect you're going after here is making your throat/neck as close to a straight line as possible...work with physics, not against it), so you can increase your odds of 'swallowing' the cock. I have also found that really viscous saliva helps. Try drinking soda pop, fruit juice or a slightly warm beer before blowing your guy. It helps coat your throat and makes it easier for the tube steak to glide in and out of your throat. Good luck!

[July 17, 2007] - Some foods, drugs (prescribed and... ummm... NOT), smoking and alcohol can change the way your spunk tastes. Also keep in mind that there is a wide range of tastes, smells and textures of your precious load. On sets, I have even seen various shades of white when it comes to spunk...ranging from almost clear to slightly yellowish.

To be honest with you, I have noticed that the more soda, beer (well, alcohol in general) and smoking male talent does before the scene, the more bitter the "pay-off"...male talent that drinks a lot of water, refrain from smoking and eat pineapple, bananas, oranges and other fruits tend to have yummier spunk.

Now, it DOES take time for things you eat and drink to make their way through your system, so don't think that by chugging a glass of pineapple juice 5 minutes before your gal goes done there and gets working on you will change the taste of anything. At least 12-24 hours is what I recommend.

I *did* stumble across this recipe while reading up on your question (I wanted to make sure I was not way off base before I replied):

Super Spunk Smoothie

1 cup pineapple, fresh or canned
1 banana, frozen
1 cup apple juice
1/2 tsp ginger
1/2 tsp cinnamon
1/4 tsp nutmeg
1/2 tsp vanilla extract
2 TBS honey
Optional ingredients: 1 raw egg white, 2 TBS wheat germ, 2 TBS flax seed, 1 shot wheatgrass juice

Blend all ingredients in a blender until smooth. Drink immediately. Repeat daily for best results.

[July 17, 2007] - It makes me happy to get a letter like this! I love it when a man cares about his partner! Ok... here we go, Eating Pussy 101. First of all, always keep your tongue moist! A dry tongue on a cootie feels way less than good! Decide before you start if you are wanting to slowly tease your partner or if you are looking to get her off as soon as possible (the WhirlWind Approach, as I call it). If you are looking to tease, spend some extra time kissing, licking and nibbling her inner thighs, slowly making your way up to her muff. Listen for non-verbal clues to help determine your partners response to your movements. (Just to clarify, moans are good, eyes rolling and the dreaded "tsk" sound are bad!) If your partner is shy about communicating what she likes, do not hesitate to actually ask her if what you are doing feels good to her! While some women enjoy a probing tongue being inserted into her vagina, others prefer more clitoral stimulation. be sure you know how to find her "Little Man in the Canoe"! Nothing is more frustrating than someone being so close, yet so far away! (Here is a great guide to finding what you want: http://www.pukka.net/snotsykims/temple/above.jpg) Gentle, swirling motions with your tongue around her clit should be enough to illicite a deep intake of breath, letting you know you have found it. From there on, each gal (I hate to tell you this), is different. The key to giving good oral, for both genders, is to not rush it; listen for responses from your partner; and doing it because you want your partner to enjoy it, not because you feel you "owe them one".