Ask Kayla Quinn

[December 3, 2009] -

Cullen...getting to know and hang out with a porn star isn't an odd dream...just a difficult one! Your BEST bet is to TRY to open a dialogue via fan sites/email. keep in mind, tho, that not all performers actually answer their own email! They may have a husband or bf (even the ones who SWEAR they're single), a webmaster, another fan or agent who is speaking for them. You can try showing up at various adult industry events (I recommend the smaller events, such as Pornstar karaoke at Sardo's in Burbank) and chatting up one of the gals there...keep in mind: we gals get a LOT of fans who want to "be friends" and 98% of them then try to turn it in to something more; don't be shocked if you're met with suspicion, we can be jaded!

Good luck, you'll need it!

[November 15, 2009] -

Donita Dunes...to be honest, I am not familiar with her body...of work! ;)

[November 1, 2009] -

Nair! I love the raspberry-scented formula!

[October 9, 2009] -

Hi Tony, I was unable to find anything more about her than you already know! My BEST guess would be that (since she was not listed on FreeOnes) she has only shot for Bang Bros to date.

Sorry, hun!

[September 20, 2009] -

I find it difficult to take 18 yr old women/children seriously when it comes to sex irl (irl=in real life)...most gals that age tend to be less focused on the fucking and more so on making sure they think their partner thinks they look good fucking. It seems I have to remind a lot of off-set sexual partners that, being off-set, there is no camera crew...director...camera angles to worry about. Nothing wastes my time more than trying to get off with someone who is too busy posing and preening for the non-existent camera!

I checked out "her" site...corporate site, run by a company, not by her. They pose her well, she photographs cute...not my taste in a girl.

Sorry, I am sure that isn't the answer you wanted. Are your sales converting well? I can only assume that this is someone from the company who runs her website and not a fan, based on the way your submitted email is worded...

BTW, if you would like to get traffic for your affiliate program, email me thru the KaylaKash website instead of submitting "questions" here!

[August 19, 2009] -

Waxing, depilatories and (I kid you not) anus bleaching. Yup, we pay that much attention to our bums...

[June 29, 2009] -

Trying to meet a porn star with the hopes of marrying her and settling down is like trying to meet any other woman with the same goals in mind. While it is possible, there is no formulaic way to go about doing so. Because you have narrowed the search for a potential mate to a specific sub-culture of our society, it will require far more effort. Mathematically speaking, it is possible although not probable. From a porn star's point of view: Personally, I hate it when a fan thinks he is going to "save me" from the world of porn; I have never dated a fan, much less gotten involved with anyone who merely wanted to be able to say he was "banging a porn star"; I tend to date those who want to get to know ME, not my profession.

Good luck!

[June 17, 2009] -

I am partial to OTK (over-the-knee) spanking with either my hand or a paddle. I tend to be merciless, and am often told by the director to ease up a bit. It makes me sound like a psychopath, but I prefer to spank as hard as the girl can take it, then add 10% to that...I want the fans to get what they pay for and for the production company to get a good return on their loss-forward as well! I have been quoted many a time saying, "If you're going to take the check, take the beating!" The fans of my spanking would lose faith in me if I held back on a girl...death before disappointing fans! Do I comfort the girls? Nope. Sometimes I take cell phone pics of their bruised asses and send them out to friends to brag about the beating I dished out...want to read more about spankings, spanking sites as well as an interview of me personally about my role in the spank world? Then visit CherryRedReport.

[May 22, 2009] -

Actually, I have stayed in fairly good contact with Taylor St. Claire and actually saw her late last year. She used to live fairly close to me but has moved to another state.

Isn't she a mega-hottie?!

[May 17, 2009] -

You're walking the barbed-wire tightrope of soliciting prostitution. I am sure you think you are the first person to come up with this idea...you're not. Get caught, go to jail. Simple. You might be able to fight against a conviction by at LEAST having an actual company in place...file the paperwork, get the permits, etc. I would consult with an attorney, though...since I am not a legal expert. Hiring an escort and filming it is STILL hiring an escort!

[May 1, 2009] -

Actually, Friday, Manuel Ferrara and I filmed a scene together a little over a year ago. I took cock in my ass, Friday did not. That is actually how and where I met Corinne, my current roommate. She drove Friday to set, she was Friday's roommate then. I have not been able to find the scene anywhere, but I will keep my eyes peeled for it!

I guess the only person left for Corinne to room with is Manuel! *giggle*

[April 24, 2009] -

Hi Laura, I will gladly share the secrets of safe ATM (ass to mouth) fucking! When a scene is booked, it is determined what type of scene it will be ahead of time; we pornstars know when we will be taking it up the ass, so precautions are taken. My personal routine is as follows: I fast (clear liquids only) for 24 hours prior to my anal scene. Before going to sleep the night before my anal or double-penetration scene, I take a disposable enema, dump out the fluid that came in it, fill it with lukewarm water and give my ass a rinsing. After my shower the day of my scene, I take another disposable enema, dump out the chemicals, fill it with lukewarm tap water and use as directed on the package. The reason I use lukewarm water instead of the chemicals provided is to prevent dehydration. The chemicals rob your anal cavity of moisture and I definitely do not want to encourage tissue damage! I go to set, do my pretty girl stills then one FINAL rinse with tap water and I am good to go! If I feel my energy level is flagging, I will eat a piece of fruit or a pastry right before I start my scene. It will give my body the energy boost I need but not digest fast enough to make the scene...ummm....messy! Clean water in your ass followed by clean water out=fun, clean fucking!

[April 21, 2009] -

I would be glad to shoot this scene for you! Email me at Kayla@KaylaQuinn.com so I can get a few more details and we can discuss it more in-depth!

I look forward to hearing from you!

[March 15, 2009] -

Heya, Stud! There are several tricks male performers use to keep from popping too soon. Some guys make sure the scene is not their first load of the day by either stroking one out before the scene or fucking someone else before arriving on set...others change their tempo when they feel a climax building...I have also heard stories about mental diversions (one of my favorites is "envisioning Margaret Thatcher in a thong bikini)...don't under-estimate the beauty of editing, either; you do not see all of the stops and starts!

[March 4, 2009] -

Honestly, if the girl of your lifting-desire is a stripper...offer to pay her for the non-sexual contact. Not to sound crass, but that is probably what it will take unless she shares your interest in the lift&carry fetish. Explain to her, in no uncertain terms, the exact nature of your request. I would, however, suggest that you either schedule this outside of the club or at least make sure an inexperienced lifter has stable footwear on to prevent injury on either side! IMHO, a direct request is your best bet!

As for the strap-on scene...which one was it? ;)

[February 14, 2009] -

Actually, I filmed another scene for that same label with the petite, nasty, sexy-as-fuck Amber Rain! I must admit, I lust that gal bigly!

[December 16, 2008] -

There are several possible reasons why some porn stars do not choose to shoot interracial scenes, racism is not as common a reason as people seem to think! While I am not saying there is no one in the adult film industry with racist views, my personal experience has shown me that is a rarity!

Some gals are just not attracted to ethnic guys. Simple as that. Others start out shooting certain types of scenes, then gradually offer more types to directors/producers. (For example, they may start out only willing to shoot girl/girl scenes then when they are ready and could use a boost in work offered start offering boy/girl vag scenes, a few months later, they may offer boy/girl/girl. By slowly offering more types of scenes you'll shoot, you can prolong your shoot-ability.) They may one day start shooting interracial scenes, but don't happen to at date. Some performers do not like the 'tone' of interracial scenes. There are two main types of IR scenes: "Let's show the honky bitch who's boss" and "As a brother, I love your curvy body type". I love the second type, won't shoot the first to save my life! Maybe they do not have the "look" for the second nor the temperament for the first. I remember a few years ago, one starlet (who happened to be dating a FINE ASS black man) confided in me that she was scared to shoot IR scenes. She lived in the south and danced when she was not in LA shooting. So many of her regular customers at the strip club had made derogatory comments about a gal pal of hers who danced in the same club and had started shooting IR scenes. Once she spoke to her gal pal, she found her friends income from the club had dropped substantially after the ignorant patrons discovered her new IR scenes. There are many reasons performers choose to shoot (or to NOT shoot) certain types of scenes, if you are curious why a specific girl isn't riding big black dick, email and ask her!

[November 20, 2008] -

Hi Darren...I have not had multiple loads of semen in my vagina at once. While I *have* shot cream pie scenes, they have not been multiple partner scenes. I guess I need to set my sites higher! ;)

I have gotten wonderfully positive feedback from the cream pie scenes that I have shot, though!

[September 30, 2008] -

Rim jobs...they aren't just in basketball anymore! Yes, Brad, I have licked an ass or two in my day...both on film and off. I shot Lady Ass Lickers" with Brooke Hunter and "Toss My Salad #6" with Rod Fontana, just to name the first few that come to my mind...

[September 9, 2008] -

Not at all, it is because the risk of transmitting STD's is less via oral sex than via vaginal sex. Some companies have a "Condom Only" policy when it comes to actual vaginal or anal penetration. Curious for more info? Here's a starting point!

Filming without current test paperwork is a violation of the rules BIG TIME! Any company that would ask a performer to film any type of hardcore with someone whose test is not current is not a company you want to be working for! A reputable company will not put its performers at risk.

[August 16, 2008] -

Hi Darren! I guess it really just depends on WHERE they are unloading their man-gravy! If I am taking the blast on my tits, my ass or (one of my favorite under-used places) the soles of my feet; I prefer a slower oozing of spunk. If I am planning on swallowing that yummy protein shake, or if I am just going to wear it on my face; I prefer a faster, more intense blast. These are, of course, just my personal preferences and they vary from person to person!

[August 11, 2008] -

Matal, try reading up here: Becoming a Pornstar first...if the MILF's are the ones you are after, just make sure you look young! The contrast between the ages is the point in that genre! They will want the youngest looking (yet legal!) male talent they can find! Good luck!

[July 31, 2008] -

I would LOVE to! I adore Lisa. I have not seen her since January...if my memory serves me correctly, she owes me a drink! Or two...*giggle*

[July 17, 2008] -

Hi Mario...still working on your "underground" question...I have a few gf's in Vegas researching (yeah, that's what we'll call it) for me!

As for the racial tension you are asking about...I, personally, do not get angry at white women who will not work with black men. More cock for me! Seriously, though...there have been some women who have tried to "explain" why they do not shoot interracial who have pissed me the FUCK off. First off, I do not ask people why they shoot what they do or why they don't shoot what they don't. Some reasoning I completely get; some sound like justification of a guilty conscience. Some porn stars (Rucca Page, Kayla Quinn *ahem* and others), limit what they shoot at first and gradually add more types of scenes to their body of work. For example, when I first started I did boy/girl vag and girl/girl. Later I added anal, then interracial and eventually double-penetration. By slowly offering more types of scenes, your shoot-ability remains desirable.

I have had girls tell me they refuse interracial because they feature dance in the south and are afraid it would affect their tips/income there. I have had girls tell me that they are not racist but their husband or boyfriend is, so they do not shoot interracial sex scenes. Some claim they are afraid once they shoot IR, they won't get booked for anything else. (Whatever! I have shoot IR and I shoot "white on white" scenes. Don't even TRY to tell me that bigger companies won't book you after shooting a lot of IR! Vivid booked me multiple times, as did Hustler and Wicked.) I have even had some brazen enough to approach me and chastise *me* for shooting so much interracial!

I am not sure I would go on record stating that industry-wide there is a resentment towards female talent who will not shoot IR. There are as many industry opinions as there are industry people. Also, this is a very transient industry. For every one girl who turns down a scene, there are 20 who will take...half of those for below rate! I will say that prejudice irritates the FUCK out of me and I have no tolerance for it nor room for it in my social circles. If you are just not sexually attracted to men of color, say so. Don't blame it on the rednecks in the titty bars, don't blame it on your significant other, don't pretend to be trying to convince me when you are merely trying to convince yourself. I shoot IR because I love to fuck. I love fucking women, I love fucking men. I love white cock, black cock, yellow cock...if I found a plaid one, I would probably want to try that out, too! There are men and women of all color that I find sexually appealing...just as there are men and women of all color that I find sexually unappealing. As an industry, there are FEW things I have ever seen a united stance on...

[June 23, 2008] -

While I have worked with some really talented guys (and gals), I have to admit, I have not brought a guy home and done him off-camera! I have brought home a few gals here and there, especially over the past two years. Sometimes I run my video camera and post the ensuing debauchery, sometimes I do not. Since my home is wired with 24/7 cameras, what happens is seen as it unfolds.

Now, when it comes to scenes, I do have my "ringers"...tried and trusted talent (for each niche I am typically cast for) that I either request or call in should the person I am booked with have a problem...performing. Chemistry on a shoot is golden and cannot be faked! I have some performers that make me moist just anticipating working with again!

[May 10, 2008] -

Hi Mario! Good question! I have been recognized by regular folk, so to speak, on the street and in public places. I have met mainstream celebs, as well. I am not 100% sure if they have recognized me, but I was once told, "I don't have to ask you what you do for a living by this person:

[May 3, 2008] -

Nick, I remember you darling! First of all, good luck at boot camp! Basic training (the USAF version of boot camp) was a BLAST for me, I thoroughly enjoyed the experience! The basic information on breaking in to this business can be found HERE. The exact article you are looking for is about halfway down the page. As for shooting before then, you might want to hurry! LOL Contact Lisa Ann, tell her I sent you, explain the situation (how/where we met, you're leaving in two months, etc). She may be able to help you out. She tends to specialize in MILF talent and younger guys that go with that genre. She is a total sweetie, we get along famously so using my name won't hurt you a bit! ;) As for shooting a scene with me, I cannot promise anything but I CAN tell you that I am taking the month of May off from shooting to catch up on a few other projects that I have managed to let fall behind. But, there is always June! ;) Good luck, let me know how it goes with Lisa Ann!

[May 1, 2008] -

Hi Adrian! I must say, your letter brought a smile to my face! While female talent worries about their breasts, you guys are always about the cock! LOL

Okay, here we go! 7 1/2 to 8 inches is perfectly fine for our industry. While there are male performers with longer schlongs, there are plenty with shorter ones as well. While size is one attribute for a stunt cock, its ability to perform is far more important! A 13" cock that can't stay hard is not really an asset, if you know what I mean! Some female performers have size limitations on what they will work with, as well. Some chicks are size queens, others are not. *shrug* Just the way it is. I did research penis pumps for another reader (click HERE for that article). At this point, the only herbal supplements I have researched are for breasts, that article is HERE. There are also surgical options for lengthening cocks. I have worked with a performer who chose that option...it was somewhat...jarring...for me. Think: Frankencock. In your case, I would not mess with perfection! I tend to perfer 7-9 inch shafts, personally. You are plenty big enough for this biz!

[April 27, 2008] -

Hi Jim! First of all, good luck on the novel! You've asked some very good questions, most of which have several factors that come in to play. Let's roll up our sleeves and get started, shall we?

New models have a few things going for them: they are fresh faces, they have a great attitude for the industry and they are eager take direction on set instead of insisting on things going their way. The downsides to being brand new: larger budget productions can be hesitant to take a chance on a large-paying scene on an unknown (I am not saying it doesn't happen, just that they can be hesitant), the production staff realizes there will be a learning curve and because of that the shoot day can be a bit longer, sometimes new talent cannot complete a scene because she thinks she is in over her head. As for the amount of work a newbie can expect...again, key factors come in to play. Is she trying to book herself or does she have an agency pushing her? If talent is new to the area I recommend one of two options: 1). Sign on with an agency. Before jumping to the first agency you come across, check out their current models. Certain agencies specialize in certain genre's. Make sure you are a good fit with their current scheme. 2). If the idea of an agency doesn't seem to float your boat, get a copy of AVN magazine. While browsing through it, look at ads for dvds that fit your genre. For example, let's say (yes, even at 25) MILF is the genre you'd like to shoot...you see a box cover for a MILF movie produced by BLAHBLAH Inc. At the bottom of that advertisement, there will be an email address for sales. Email a BRIEF email to them with something along the lines of, "Hello, my name is Fresh Talent and I have not shot for your company yet. I feel I would be perfect for MILF TITLE WHATEVER, and would like to know if you would be so kind as to tell me whom I should contact regarding a go/see? Thank you for your help, I look forward to working for you." Editors note: A go/see is when you go to a production company, strip down to heels and a smile, they snap a few pics of you then you fill out a questionnaire about the types of scenes you shoot and the rates you expect for each type. There is no set number of scenes a newbie should expect to get booked for...various trends run throughout the business. For a while there was a lot of barely legal, then it was all natural boobs, busty boobs took root for a while, as did squirting and of course MILF scenes. It really depends on what criteria she is fitting and what is popular at the moment. Various times of the year are busier for shooting than other times, too. I am afraid this biz is cyclic! Now, for your pay per scene question...Personally, I have my set rates for various types of scenes but these are not carved in stone. I use them more as guidelines. Some companies just have bigger budgets than others. *shrug* I have a few companies that have always made sure I had work (even when I had full-blown cancer) so, out of respect for them, if they cannot pay my full rate I don't sweat it! There are other companies that I am chummy with the owners of so I am not too much of a stickler there, either. Some courtesies they extend in exchange for that? I get to choose the talent I work with, my call time and even get to choose my make up artist a lot of the time. There is not industry standard on pay. We are not a tightly governed industry on that level. There are also different levels of talent. While ONE girl may be offered $1000 for a vag scene, the same company might offer another girl $800 (I have heard even lower figures). Why? One girl might be prettier than the other or might just be a stronger performer. While there is no set pay scale, if you need basic ideas, pop in to an agents office and ask them what their spectrum of scene rates for their clients look like. (Note: Unless you are looking to book a specific girl, do not ask about a specific girl...just ask in general). Oh! ONE last thing...as for the "as often as she wanted to" part...showing up on time, prepared and without bringing real life drama on to the set will increase her odds of getting booked multiple times by the same company! If I left anything out, please do not hesitate to write again! :)

[April 20, 2008] -

A standard "Pile Driver" position is basically when the receiver of the cock lies on their shoulders (usually on the floor, since beds and other furniture can have too much give, making this position too unstable), and the giver of the cock stands above them and inserts, fucking away! Here's a look at how it goes!

[April 1, 2008] -

Ahhh...facials! You say you've never dared tried it, have you ever asked your partner if they enjoy it? As with most things sexual, I am not a big fan of springing things on a partner without knowing where they stand. Some surprises are better received than others!

As for my opinion: all loads are not created equal! I am allergic to tobacco, so a blast from a smoker itches and sometimes even burns my skin. A blast of gooey cum from a non-smoker, not a problem...from a smoker, not a thrill! The same can be said about swallowing semen. Diet greatly affects bodily fluids, (more information, including recipes for yummier spunk, can be found HERE) so a healthier diet on your part can increase the odds of taking a facial or swallowing on your partners part!

Do some women do it just for the money? Some women do, I am sure, and others thoroughly enjoy it...but that can be said for just about anything, can't it?

[March 10, 2008] -

Hi Michael! Nope, not too invasive at all!

Just like everyone else's relationships on the planet, mine go through good times and bad. Sometimes things at home are splendiferous, sometimes not so much! While I love getting banged hard on set, there is a certain emotional intimacy within my relationships that tends to keep me tightly tethered. I am not going to claim that "real life sex" is always the best, but it is the best consistently! I can always count on my boyfriend du jour to know exactly what it takes to float my boat AND I do not have to worry about whether or not it looks good! *giggle*

When it comes to sex, I know no guilt, babe!

[March 6, 2008] -

Sasha-

Kala Prettyman is actually on my "todo" list, so to speak! I met her on the set of Cousin Stevie's Pussy Party and I adored her! I will mention her to my agent again, though! Let me see what I can do to make that happen...I will also give Kala a call tomorrow morning while I am stuck in hair & make up!

[February 4, 2008] -

Thank you Marrky! I am delighted to hear that I don't look like a cookie-cutter stereotype! To be honest, I have actually never liked my legs. LOL I have always felt lucky that, out of my entire nuclear family, I am the only one with blue eyes.

As far as working with younger actors, I usually really enjoy it. I tend to be more excited about the younger male performers and less so about working with younger females. Why, you ask? I tend to feel desirable when a younger guy is fucking me but like Chester-the-Molester when working with younger gals...especially if the gal is relatively new to the industry! There is something slightly uncomfortable for me when I get booked for a girl/girl scene with a chick who is basically "Gay for Pay" (not actually in to girls. I have been known to jokingly say (when referring to female talent), "I refuse to fuck a girl younger than things I have aborted!"

There *have* been a few way younger females that stand out in my memory for both good reasons and bad. Coincidentally, two of my all time faves have similar names: Kat and Kitty. I first worked with Kat in 2006 in Older Women and Younger Women #7. Jim Powers was in awe at the end of our scene excitedly saying to me, "Damned Kayla! You were totally in to that! You shot that straight through! We shot longer than we had planned, it was great!" Kitty, on the other hand, I just worked with last week. She was a total cutie and way hot! Again, we shot pretty much straight thru and (even tho it was a softer/no penetration shoot) I had a blast! I'll work with her again!

Last but not least...the cum question! IF the guy doesn't smoke, I prefer to swallow it rather than waste it. Most of the time, however, that decision is made by the production company/director and not by me. Some scenes are set up to be a "swallow", some to be cum facials, still others to have the pop on the tits or the ass...just depends on the film & its niche/genre. It has been my experience that men aim their load about as well as they aim their pissing in the toilet...to put it bluntly, they have little control over what lands where! I have had the famed 30 minute pink eye from spunk in there more than once! Other times, I have had to go diving to catch the creamy goodness with my face. LOL Oh well, all's well that lands well! ;)

Thanks for reading and for the awesome question!

[February 1, 2008] -

Hi Aleksey! I tend to not get too involved with any drama that pops up on set or at events. Now, I am not going to say I have not opened my mouth and expressed an opinion when I did not need to say anything! I am only human! *giggle* While I adore most of the people I work with (they *do* make up my social circle, after all), I cannot really think of anyone I really dislike. If I don't feel a kinship with someone, I just don't hang out with them. *shrug* I am certain there are people who don't think I am the grooviest thing since sliced bread...I mean, I am loud, opinionated and tend to be bossy! (Hey, I know my faults!) I have to say, though, I have been really lucky...the people that dislike me have been professional enough NOT to tell me! w00t!

[January 29, 2008] -

Hi Freddy, your best bet is to become male talent and hope to get booked in a scene with your fave hottie. If that doesn't seem realistic to you, check out the various "Ranches". Maybe you'll get lucky and the lust of your life will be appearing there or scheduled to be in the near future. Some adult performers do "privates" some do not. A "private" is another way of saying they escort. You could gently inquire if this is an option. Do yourself a favor though, if you're told she does not escort, drop it then and there. Don't try upping the ante by offering more money. Adult film actor or not, a "No" is a NO! Good luck!

[November 28, 2007] -

Hi John,

There are so many misconceptions, I am not sure where to begin or which one to label the 'biggest'! I think it is a toss-up between: "All porn people are horny 24/7" and "All the scenarios seen in the beginning of porn films are fair representations of the lives of all porn folk."

I have yet to meet anyone in the industry who has paid for a pizza by having unprotected sex with the delivery boy. Were that really the case, there'd be a waiting list to deliver pizza in Porn Valley!

[November 17, 2007] - I wear a size 9 shoe... I know, I have big feet... keep in mind I am 5'10"! *giggle* I love getting pedicures and LOVE sexy shoes! I have dozens of pairs and am always on the prowl for more. Having my feet and toes worshipped is incredibly erotic. The feeling of a warm, moist tongue between my toes or on the sole of my foot turns me on incredibly!

While my website, www.KaylaQuinn.com offers hundreds of videos in downloadable formats, covering a multitude of niches, I do not have any videos of me tossing a guys salad.

As for the dominance issue... there are times when I prefer to be in charge and times when I want to be tossed around like a rag doll! It is less of a planned thing and more of a chemistry thing. Chemistry between people often dictates their relationship one to the other. Because I have a strong personality, it is rare that I find (in my personal life) a man who can dominate me without over-doing it. It is like walking a barbed wire tightrope: a man needs to be strong enough not to let me steam roll them, yet flexible enough to let me exist and not be overtaken by their will. Sexually, I tend to vacillate during the fucking from vulnerable to aggressive.

Since I am cast as a "cougar" or "MILF" a lot, I tend to get booked with performers ranging from 18-25 more often than not.

Finally, your last question: Do most guys like having their bums licked or not? It varies from person to person. Some men have expressed a desire for it and others shudder at the thought of it. Personal preference wins out again on this one!

[November 3, 2007] - To help ensure your email gets read and replied to, there are a few things you need to keep in mind! The "subject" line of your email is what you are relying on to catch the eye of your fave porn star. Whether you are sending a love note to Jill Kelly or a poem to Tera Patrick, it will get over-looked if you are not careful. First of all, never leave the subject blank. Second, avoid using "spam-my" sounding tag lines... things like, "Important Question About Your Work" looks like spam and takes a low rank in priority. Getting plucked out of the hundreds of emails that arrive daily is one part content and one part luck.

Before you start writing your email, be sure you have read through the performers website (the BARE minimum of research is crucial) as well as any other bio info you can find. Asking questions that have been answered and published pretty much guarantees that you won't get a reply. Emails such as, "Hi. How are you?" also tend to be ignored. Asking questions is fine; asking questions that are vague, redundant or flat-out rude is irritating. Keep in mind also, that the 'witty' sexual innuendo that you are about to type in an attempt to impress said porn performer... is prolly something she has heard a thousand times. I know, it happens to me constantly. We hear a lot of sexual banter, crude comments and blunt offers. You are *NOT* as original as you think you are! Want a better chance in opening a dialogue? Do *NOT* immediately try to 'talk shop' to us (notice I said TO us and not WITH us). You may have seen us do the most intimate crap, but you are still a stranger to that individual. Talk about anything other than sex, scenes, porn movies and other performers and you will have a better chance of your email standing out. Professing your undying love can lead to an empty in-box for you, too. You may love Jill Kelly's work, but you do not know her and therefore cannot love her. Make sense? Sending out that "stalker vibe" will get you no where fast!

Be patient while awaiting a reply. There have been times when I receive a nasty email berating me for not replying to a previous one that I had actually JUST replied to moments earlier. Really makes the sending look bad, you know? Sometimes, in an effort to streamline the sorting process a porn performer will have multiple email addresses/email forms for fans. One for non-members of their website/fan club and another for members. You might want to consider joining her website and checking out that possibility.

I hope these tips help! Good luck!

[September 8, 2007] - I hope you do not mind, I took your personal information out of your question before answering it, Mr. Spears! Wanna keep you safe! :) The "difficult" part of being in porn films is not actually the desire to do it, it is the actual work that is involved (not to mention being comfortable enough to fuck like MAD both with and in front of strangers). This really IS a job, not a hobby and not just a big party! Here are a few sites I found useful when I first started looking in to becoming an adult performer: AIM-med... This is your first stop... get tested! You cannot work without current AIM paperwork. Your test is valid for 30 days after date of collection. The Floating World... I have linked directly to the "Biz" page. The Floating World not only has several resources here for you, but the entire site is crammed with industry information, events, calendar, etc... Great for the average Joe as well as for the performer! Sexy Jobs... If you are interested in landing your own bookings, Sexy Jobs is just one of several sites out there that fills the role of adult classifieds for work.

[August 25, 2007] - Ok, a FEW things here! One: I am NOT a pornstar, I am just a chick making her living (well, trying too *giggle*), doing adult films. The only time I refer to myself as a pornstar is for SEO (Search Engine Optimization)...secondly, I rarely go to night clubs, to be honest. My weekly schedule can be quite brutal at times. Between the scene work and my web work, a night off for me is best spent relaxing at home (either mine or a friends) with a remote in one hand and a glass of wine in the other! Somewhere in my schedule, I have my dogs, my ex-bf (whom I still fuck almost daily) and my friends to consider. The few times I HAVE been recognized have been in more mundane settings: at the tanning salon, the grocery store, while out shopping in Hollywood, etc. In those instances, I have generally been treated like a celebrity (which both made me laugh and sort of caught me off-guard). The times where fans HAVE been "grabby" have been at conventions. For some reason, in that setting, fans feel they have the 'right' to grab and paw at us performers. Several of my industry friends have complained about this phenomena. After discussing it amongst ourselves, we have come to the conclusion that since the fans are gouged with inflated entrance fees, ungodly priced concessions and are herded in to generally crowded areas that are not air-conditioned, they feel they "deserve" to do whatever the Hell they want! Keep in mind that along with those conditions, there are scantily clad porn performers smiling for the cameras and a veritable sea of barely-covered pussy, ass and tits spans as far as the eye can see! Want to stand out in the crowd? Set yourself apart? Read THIS!

[August 18, 2007] - NO NO NO NO! I NEVER, EVER work with anyone who does not have current AIM paperwork! I will not put myself, my S.O. (Significant Other), or subsequent people that I work with in jeopardy by working without taking the basic precautions of verifying the status of their paperwork! AIM prints up our test results on paper that has their watermark on it, as well as alternating red and white stripes, and an embossed sticker verifying that it came from their office. If any 'red flags' are raised, I am quick to telephone AIM and get a verbal verification on their test status. The staff at AIM are BEYOND wonderful! I have actually gotten to know several of the office personnel outside of the clinic and count them among some of my closest friends. Not to kiss ass, but thank you, AIM, for keeping us all happy, working and SAFE! If you are industry or not and in need of testing for HIV, STD's or merely wish to discuss possibly entering in to the adult industry, I suggest you check out http://www.aim-med.org/. I know it can be frightening to admit you may need to be tested for STD's, but avoiding it won't make it ANY better!

[August 16, 2007] - Oooohhh..... good question with a trick answer! It depends on the type of scene it is. I had TONS of fun working with Craig James, but he is no longer male talent (those of you in the know realize that Craig James is *my* Craig, well, my ex-bf Craig whom I still suck and fuck). Rick Masters is wonderful to work with, as he and I have excellent chemistry and it is always an energetic scene. Jenner is great since, as he also directs, he keeps lighting and camera angles in mind. Dwayne Cummings is a great lead for inter-racial scenes as we have worked together on so many occasions, he and I glide through transitions smoothly. Christian XXX made me feel petite and delicate, the way he threw me around like a rag doll (keep in mind, at 5'10" 'petite' is not a feeling I experience often). I guess the safest thing for me to say is this: with so many good cocks out there, I cannot choose just one!

[August 15, 2007] - Hi Jen! I have been quite fortunate over the years when it comes to co-performers. Some production companies will ask me if I have a male performer I would like to work with, other times they will give me a few names and ask if I have a preference. A lot of female performers have a "Will Not Work With List". I tend to enjoy people who are on set for the same reason I am: to have GREAT sex, a good time and treat the paycheck like it is gravy on the biscuits. I have thoroughly enjoyed working with Sledge Hammer, Rick Masters, Buster Good, Christian XXX, Dwayne Cummings, Kurt Lockwood, Jenner and Drehyden come to mind right away when I think of yummy cock! As for the much-needed girlie love... Puma Swede, Kat, Brooke Hunter (before she retired) and my Kelly Leigh!!! I ADORE my Kelly Leigh... nasty and sensual!

[August 13, 2007] - Actually, I do not have a boyfriend right now... although I have a male friend that would be angry to read that statement... my last bf, the one I still occasionally fuck (well, 2-6 times a week) is "industry". While he is "behind the scenes", he *was* male talent for one dvd (I was one of those 4 or 5 scenes), he understands the business and knows that sex for a scene versus sex for pleasure is a big difference! While I will never NEVER feign an orgasm during a scene (it cheapens everything IMHO), when I am at home and I choose to fuck someone and they know it is because I chose them and not because a studio chose them it is a BIG difference! My most recent ex, Craig, has actually shot scenes with gal pals of mine, not to mention those whom I have brought home because I just craved watching him fuck them... I am really the stereotypical "down-to-earth" chick, so I fail to see how I could be intimidating in any way! Great question tho... I was flattered! *giggle*

[August 7, 2007] - Oh my! This is not an easy one at all! Hmmm... I tend to really like reverse gang bangs... there is something about using a strap-on on a guy that makes me feel powerful! LOL I tend to lean towards bondage and discipline, too. I am a true switch, meaning I can be the dom or the sub, however it is a rarity that you find me being dommed by a woman. Because of my strong personality, I rarely find a woman who can dom me and I hate the idea of putting a lie on film. Anything that lets me be in control tends to be my fave... altho, Rubber Obedience is the exception to that rule. I played a sub and LOVED it!