Ask Kayla Quinn

Thank you, Will! I love reading kudos and accolades like this! *giggle*

As for your question, I am a big supporter of open communication between partners. Secrets of a sexual nature (whether about past partners, experiences or orientation) can sow feelings of distrust in a relationship, so get them out in the open as soon as possible. By being the one to tell your current girlfriend of your sexual orientation, you control where she hears it, how she hears it and when she hears it. Something of this magnitude does require a bit of planning, it needs to be handled delicately. Not only do you need to tell her you are bisexual, you need to tell her of any impact this will have on your partnership. Are you looking to bring another man in to the bedroom? Either for fun or as a third in this romance? Are you bisexual yet monogamous? Are you striving for a level of intimacy that requires there to be no secrets? Since you are unsure of her reaction, I do suggest you have this conversation sooner rather than later. Not to be an ass, but...eventually she will find a magazine you've hidden from her and instead of talking about your sexuality, you'll be defending your sneakiness.

Your sexuality is a MAJOR component of who you are. Give her the opportunity to get to know all of you, not just bits and pieces. If she loves you, then she loves all you are comprised of, in total.

Do women find bisexual men arousing? Some do, some do not. The woman who is right for you, will. I know, I sound cliche, but it is true. Sexual allure is not metered out by gender, persuasion, race, or any other broad category...it is metered out individually.