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Foreplay is define as everything that comes before actual penetrating intercourse. Foreplay is a critical and crucial part of the whole lovemaking experience. A couple needs foreplay to spice up their sex life, get fully aroused and heighten pleasure.

Occasionally, men need prolonged foreplay to get an erection. Revving up the motor of a guy isn't the most difficult of tasks...touch the cock and you are halfway home! For those women, however, who want to tantalize their men into submission...here are a few tips:

Most women need foreplay to get...well, wet enough for comfortable penetration. Where as men are visual, women tend to be more audio-driven. What you say will have a big effect here. Tell her how much you've been thinking about her, how your whole day has been filled with longing to touch her, how you could barely contain yourself from grabbing and throwing her down on the dinner table and plowing away! Okay, not the best examples but you get my point! With women, the vagina is the last stop on the foreplay train. Try massages to work her in to the mood. By keeping your touch provocative but not overtly sexual, the anticipation will drive her wild! Slowly edge closer to her errogenous zones when you massage, you will be rewarded with soft moans and gasps. Being attentive to your lover will pay off, I promise!