Ask Kayla Quinn

Sweetie, if you are getting this much of a run-around, RUN! Do not walk away from her, RUN! You have overheard her say something only to deny it to you later. This relationship is not based on honesty and trust. It is toxic. Your mortality is too valuable to risk. It is not the 1950's where the worst you could get was pregnant or in need of penicillin. The fact that you specified your relationship was committed "on my end at least" threw up warning flags (I can still hear the "Lost in Space" robot shouting, "Danger Will Robinson, danger!" in my mind). Get out. Find someone who not only respects you enough to be honest but respects themself enough to be accountable for their actions.

BTW, if you try bothering to confront her, you will hear a weak excuse/justification for each and every tale that you call to her attention. She will lie, twist and exaggerate and you will want to believe her. Don't bother. How many times will you get hit with a spinning plane propeller before you realize, "This hurts, I should move!"?

Don't give up on having a happy relationship. There ARE good potential partners out there...she is just not one of them. You know what you want, do not settle for less than you deserve!