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Since this wasn't submitted in question form, "How to cope with male jealousy" is what I am assuming you're wanting to know. Let me guess...you call her constantly just to "say hello". You find excuses to monopolize her time. You want her to be at your beck and call, no matter what is going on around her. You constantly want to have the upper hand and total control over the relationship. You use the possess-then-isolate game on her. If she has plans which do not include you, you pout-stomp-yell-accuse, huh?

Dude, unless you want to lose this wonderful woman, you need to CHILL the fuck out! Before pointing the finger her direction, you need to get introspective! You need to figure out why you are acting like a lunatic. Where is this insecurity coming from? Has a past relationship caused you to be suspicious? Are you punishing your new romantic interest for the sins of past lovers? Are there environmental influences here causing a touch of jealousy? Maybe she earns better money than you or has more admirers vying for her attention? Is this a penis-size-worry issue? Scared that you don't measure up in one way or another?

If you are incapable of discovering why you behave as you do, you will be unable to stop. Making her pay for the crimes of others is unfair. Has she any brains, she will cut her losses and walk run away from this relationship before she has too much invested in it. Does she make more money than you? Get over it! Lots of other men chasing after her? She CHOOSES to be with you, she cannot control the actions of others! If you're worried about your cock not pleasing her, read as many of the past Q&A's available in the "Relationships" section of AskKayla for help addressing that conversation with her.

Bottom line: control jealousy or it will cost you everyone worth having a relationship with, hun...Acting like a jackass is NOT sexy!