Ask Kayla Quinn

[September 25, 2007] - Hi Jerry! NOT everyone can deep throat, but here are a few tips to increase the chances! Position is paramount; get in a position where you can extend and straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back (think: making the neck and chin form as straight of a line as possible). By creating that angle, you'll have an easier time swallowing the cock. I suggest the guy lay on his back, allowing the giver of the bj to control not only the angle but the speed of things. Plus, you can prop yourself up on your elbows. Make sure to lube the shaft of the cock up with saliva. Licking up and down the rod not only gets it ready to glide more easily down a throat, but acts as fellatio foreplay. Once you're set and the cock is lubed, slightly tilt your head back and stick out the tip of your tongue just past your bottom lip. "Flatten" your tongue, I know that sounds strange, let me explain. You know when you ask someone if your tonsils look red... and you have them look at the back of your throat? You flatten your tongue so they can get a better look... do like that, but without extending your tongue quite so far out of your mouth. Sticking your tongue out helps flatten the back of your tongue a bit, that's one of the reasons I suggest it. Open your throat like you would if you were yawning. (This helps create a larger passage for the cock to enter through.) Taking a deep breath, slowly slide the penis into your mouth. If you feel like you are going to gag, freeze for a second. Hold everything where it is for as long as you can, then back the cock out a bit. Keep doing this same step as many times as you can. By easing in to things and taking your time, you will start to be able to take more and more of the shaft in to your throat. Make sure your partner is patient. Tempting as it may be for him to "ram" his cock down your throat, he needs to let you control the speed. Deep throating needs to be fun for both of you! Best of luck!