Ask Kayla Quinn

The short answer? She was a lying whore! The longer answer is as follows: sometimes a woman fakes an orgasm because she really wasn't in the mood to fuck and thinks if you think she's satiated, you'll finish up faster; some women feel too embarrassed or awkward to express what it takes for you to get them screaming in ecstasy (as if being sexually assertive is a BAD thing!); some fake it because they want to reward the "effort" their lover has made and do not wish to bruise the fragile male ego; some are just wanting to rob themselves of a good fuck! Why did I say that last one? Easy! If your partner isn't hitting it right, but you let him think he is he will never vary his technique. (Think: if it ain't broke, don't fix it...) By never speaking up, by actively misleading their fuck-buddy into thinking they are orgasming, they are dooming themselves to sexual disappointment. I will admit, I hate running a race that I will never cross the finish line of, but I hate the unrealistic portrayal that orgasms are 100% guaranteed even more. Open and honest communication about the romp is key. If she didn't get off yet offered no guidance for aiding her in doing so...she really cannot complain. Orgasms are like threesomes, no matter how hard you try for one, sometimes they happen and sometimes they just don't!