Ask Kayla Quinn

[August 28, 2007] - HAHAHAHA! That is actually a fairly common practice in certain genres. In the case of tease and denial scenes, it is extra stimulation that adds to the anticipation of the actual orgasm. In ruined orgasm films, it is to create an uncomfortable pressure in the testes. Basically, the binding makes it more difficult for blood to retreat from the engorged penis and back in to the body. The result? A longer lasting erection. In some of the post-ejaculation photos on the back of dvds, you will see the female talent holding the freshly drained cock at the base squeezed between two fingers in a scissor-like grip...she is keeping the cock rigid by not allowing the blood to leave member. It is a little trick we use on set since between the "pop shot" and the still photos of the aftermath, several minutes may go by and the guy can start to ...um, return to normal. When binding scrot's, make SURE you know what you are doing! Do NOT bind to the point that things turn purple or blue...you are literally killing your guys "buddies". Also, if he says untie, UNTIE! To be honest, this is one of those things I discourage too much experimentation with and suggest you leave it to a pro...or find one who will teach you the basics! You can ruin your man this way. When I have utilized this practice, I have used things that were not only handy at the time, but not too coarse or strong...a hair scrunchy (NOT an elastic/rubber band) or my panties. I also never bind tighter than I have to...you'd be amazed at gentle a tie is effective! Think of it along the same lines as putting a collar on a dog, you want to control, not choke to death!