Ask Kayla Quinn

Ok, this is not really a question, but it made me laugh (like literally LOL), so I just have to address it!

First off, that has happened to me (and others, I can guarantee) on set before...we jokingly refer to that as a "Three Pump Chump". A few years ago, there was one director in particular who tended to book me with "unknown" male talent; by unknown, I mean it was his first or second scene. I finally asked him why he kept doing that to me (it makes for a much longer day AND a higher chance of a tanker of a scene for me) and he finally said, "Kayla, you can lead the scene without it being obvious on film." Great. "Punishment" for a job well done! *giggle*

As a result, I have actually looked in to ways to help a guy stall the inevitable. First off...try shaking one out a bit before the actual sexing. Takes you longer to cum the second time around! Another trick? If you feel yourself bubbling over too quickly, think of something ultra non-sexy. An ex-boyfriend of mine told me his standard delay thought was Margaret Thatcher in a thong bikini. Remember the PC muscle I mentioned when discussing kegels? Well, for you guys, your PC muscle is located between your anus and scrotum, it's the one you contract when you try to stop peeing suddenly. Exercise that muscle a little bit every day or two. How? Clench it then release it in ten-second periods. Do that three times, then take a break. Then do this clench-and-release technique for five seconds. Perform ten sets of this. Now, try tightening the muscle for 30 seconds and relaxing for 30 seconds. Do three sets of that. This is an exercise so easy to do, you don't even have to join a gym! You can do it anytime, anywhere, no one will know you are doing it but you. Now, when you are faced with becoming a Three Pump Chump, keeping your cock in whichever hole it is in, stop pumping away...clench and release your PC muscle, you should be good to go again! Ok, you might have to clench and release a few times. On the bright side, it sort of makes your hard cock jump a little and it feels great inside a chick (at least, this chick) when you guys do it so we don't generally mind the 3 second pause in the banging!

Oh! Before you hang your head(s) in shame: biologically speaking, men generally take (barring any self-control/effort on their part) 2-3 minutes from time of penetration to orgasm. Women? 12-14 minutes. Who says God doesn't have a sense of humor?

Hope this helps!