Ask Kayla Quinn

[September 15, 2007] - First off... GOOD GIRL! No sex is always better than unsafe sex! A female condom is a barrier method of birth control. It is basically a plastic pouch with rings on each end. It gets inserted into the vagina similarly to a diaphragm. Not to be Captain Obvious here, but the open end is the part you want sticking slightly outside the pussy, not the sealed end. It acts as a trash bag for your partners little soldiers. Make sure you have lube with you, you'll want it for inserting this ... thing. Lube up the outside of the condom, slide it in (think: inserting a tampon), leaving about an inch of it outside your pussy. When you put it in place, make sure you get it as far back as you can, as close to your cervix as possible. Your slit is now lined and ready to be fucked! Sorry, I am not a big fan of these. It seems like a lot more to have to carry around than a regular condom. Also, the cock can slip between the condom and the wall of your pussy, defeating the purpose of the female condom. Once it has sperm in it, you squeeze and twist the outer ring (to keep from spilling his spunk right in to your junk), pull it out, and throw it away. It is bulkier, it is more expensive and has a pretty crappy failure rate. How crappy? 21% on average... 5% with PERFECT usage...