Ask Kayla Quinn

HAHAHA! Ok, Lucy...step away from the pulpit! Phone sex is not creepy (unless it is a family member trying to dial you). First of all, creativity is like a muscle: it gets weaker the less it is exercised! The lack of face-to-face interaction lessens the embarrassment factor, too. It is often easier to say things on the phone than in person. Run with it!

Afraid you'll totally bomb at revving up your partners motor on the phone? Think you'll stumble for things to say? Start with small steps...maybe relive a past encounter, adding on things you would have liked to have done at the time. Praising your partners attributes (both physical and mental) can be an easy stepping off point as well. You might even get lucky enough to have a partner who is at ease and does most of the talking, allowing you to listen and catch the drift of it all!

Besides, phone sex has gotten me through many a boring day when I held an office job!