Ask Kayla Quinn

[July 28, 2007] - What a thoughtful boyfriend you are! Choosing a vibrator is as personal as choosing a car. You need to know what is important to the driver, so to speak. I think the best way to make sure both of you are happy and satisfied with your purchase is for you to shop together! A few things to consider: Does she enjoy clitoral stimulation? Deep vaginal penetration? Both? There are many wonderful B.O.B.'s (Battery Operated Boyfriend's) on the market today. If this is her first toy, I recommend a standard pocket rocket. A pocket rocket is basically a phallus shaped toy, which by means of batteries, vibrates. It generally has a dial-operated control on the end of the toy, allowing the user to control the speed of the vibration. Unless you know for certain she has no sensitivities rubber (commonly called "Jelly") toys, I would stick with the hard plastic ones. If she is not exactly the novice when it comes to adult toys, I recommend either a Sybian or a Love Swing as these are both items you can share. Getting pounded from behind while riding a Sybian is a sensation she will not soon forget! Toys range in price from $10 to over $1000, depending on the type of toy you are purchasing, name brand and other factors. No matter how pricey the toy, there are a few things that will cause the toy to deteriorate. NEVER store your toy with batteries still inside of them. It wears out the contacts and causes the toy to wear out faster. If you are going to wear out a toy, at least enjoy it (Wink Wink!) Always wash toys immediately after using them. You can buy toy cleaner or use antibacterial liquid soap on them. Pat or air-dry your toy, never put it away wet. I save the original packaging usually and store them that way. Should you choose a jelly toy, be cautious on storing them. Color transfer from one to the other has been known to occur and they are lint magnets like you would not believe! NEVER, EVER share a sex toy! Oh, and Tibbs, be SURE to stock up on the flavored lube! A pocket rocket is fun but it is basically just an appetizer, you will still be the main course! Here aer a few places to get the shopping started:

XXXPress Toys

Adam & Eve

Sybian