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I am all for the retraining! Most likely, you've gotten used to penis-stroking without pulling the foreskin, your gf's vagina is pulling it back (thank GAWD for friction!) and that is a different sensation than you are used to feeling. Try stroking one out while pulling your foreskin back to emulate the vaginal fucking feeling...practice, practice, practice! because you CAN ejaculate, I am not convinced this is a medical condition requiring a professional. Have your gf participate in the barrage of hand jobs! Including her will help ease her frustration!

Cullen...getting to know and hang out with a porn star isn't an odd dream...just a difficult one! Your BEST bet is to TRY to open a dialogue via fan sites/email. keep in mind, tho, that not all performers actually answer their own email! They may have a husband or bf (even the ones who SWEAR they're single), a webmaster, another fan or agent who is speaking for them. You can try showing up at various adult industry events (I recommend the smaller events, such as Pornstar karaoke at Sardo's in Burbank) and chatting up one of the gals there...keep in mind: we gals get a LOT of fans who want to "be friends" and 98% of them then try to turn it in to something more; don't be shocked if you're met with suspicion, we can be jaded!

Good luck, you'll need it!

Sounds to me like she's got issues! Until she comes to terms with her sexuality and sex, it just ain't going to happen! Honey, is she cannot get herself off, you're not going to be able to either!

If she's enjoying the intimacy, I wouldn't sweat it TOO hard...I would, however, suggest she figures out why she's holding herself back. Damn our society for pressuring girls to NOT experiment sexually!

Mike...there are a few tricks to prevent ejaculation: stroke one out before fucking...it's always more difficult to pop the second time; change your rhythm when you get close to cumming, it'll help more than you think it will; think UN-sexy thoughts when you feel a climax building (may I suggest Margaret Thatcher in a string bikini) to help prolong things; also, doubling up on the condoms will help dull sensitivity!

Hope these tips help!

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